Guys, am I too small to be attractive?

[messagemebaby]

I'm 20 years old, 5 feet tall and only weigh 100 lbs and my bra size is less than a 32A. My girl friends tell me I'm pretty all the time and guys have told me I'm cute and stuff but am I've never been in a real relationship that the guy really took seriously or anything like that. I'm wondering if I'm too small to be considered attractive or datable to guys because people have made jokes before that I "look twelve" while all my other friends are all tall, have huge boobs, etc

[meowcow]

You sound like my fiancée. She is 4'9" and weighs 100 pounds. 32A boobs as well.

She's 28, but looks like she's 12. Twice, someone has mistaken her for my daughter.

I've dated a lot of short girls and I notice a general trend among them.

Since a lot of short, underdeveloped girls don't feel like a woman in terms of their body shape, breast size, they are unlikely to act flirty and sexually aggressive. They're more likely to act "cute" rather than "sexy". And are also unlikely to pursue a guy, even if she likes him.

On the other hand, guys will probably look at you and think you're really cute and attractive. But the mere look of your babyface makes a 20 year old think you're 12. While most guys fantasize about dating a young girl, they'll probably think they're going to jail if they touch you. If they find out you're 20, that'll probably make them take more notice. But don't expect much attention at from men at social outings unless it's from contact through other friends.

For most of the short girls I've been with, I had to pursue them. I've found them so shy with boys that they don't have many (if any) male friends.

[Anonymous]

Haha, no you're not too small to be attractive. You're what I call fun size. It's much easier to perform difficult sex positions with small girls. Tall flexible girls can do wonders as well, but small girls don't have to be as flexible, but if they are it's an added bonus. Plus with small boobs . .. they only get in the way in some instances. Sure some guys have to have a girl with big boobs, but I find all boob sizes to be attractive. Small, big, medium. Doesn't matter. boobs are boobs and I like 'em.

[Anonymous]

Mila Kunis, Natalie Portman, Selena Gomez.. MUST NOT BE ATTRACTIVE THEN? please, have a seat.

[sammy_31]

Aww petite :) Guys will like you girl, don't worry. :D

[animalwithin]

I think you're the perfect size! Petite girls are the best, easy to throw around and get rough with ;) Don't let your small stature take away from who you are, there are many beautiful women out there who are short: Avril Lavigne, Rachel Bilson, you, etc. I"m 5'9" and I tend to gravitate to really small women, my preference so there are guys out there who like short women and find them attractive.

[martyfellow]

Remember Manuela Saenz was smaller than you and is considered the siren of Venezuela to this day.

Sure you probably look younge than 20 to most people, so you get treated like a kid, but that will take care of itself before long. Don't worry, you can make up for lost time.

[centigrade]

Negative, not at all. We, for the most part, want a smaller woman than ourselves because the smaller the women, the easier it is for us to be manly and protective. Haha, some kinda mental thing. Every body has their preferences, I sure don't want my girl to be 7' and have to bend down to kiss :O. Boobs! Personally, while I like them much, there's a lot more to a woman than boobs. Haha, don't worry, you are fine!

Cgrade

[steveguitar]

I worked with two people who were a lot different in height. the guy was just a little taller than me maybe 6ft 2-4 inches tall and his girlfriend that I also worked with was about 5 maybe a little taller. so trust me I think you will be fine

I have never dated either and I'm 27. so at least you still have time to get into it at a young age. being short really isn't a turn off. plus there are guys who are fairly short.

[Anonymous]

I don't know why girls don't understand, that being short is not a problem for a woman. On average guys actually prefer short girls. In fact since there are lots more guys that are taller than you, you will actually have a larger number of men to choose from, than a tall girl would. A guy that is 5'4 is unlikely to go after a girl that is 5'10, but will still go after a girl your height. Even most tall guys still like short girls.

[shumailkazimi]

No ...guys are attracted towards you...no worries...just be confident about your personality and try makeovers whenever possible to add more colours to your appearance

[cavmanier]

Not at all. I think it can be very attractive. I'd tend to notice that body type over tall with big boobs.

[ImCoasting]

I'm 6 foot over 200 pounds, I like small girls a lot.

[Anonymous]

Well, most guys notice attractiveness on the face not the height.

[tobr83]

Nah I actually like small don’t be embarrassed be confident!

[jacquesvol]

You'd be an OK cutie! :)