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He was nice to me. He would cover me for breaks without asking when we first met. He initiated every conversation but didn't initiate conversations with me as much as he did with other people. blushes and smiles, with eye contact when talking (but he blushes around everyone) he told me twice that he missed me when i missed work. Avoided looking at me when around each other sometimes, but then would stare at me and smile at me other times. Tried to touch my hand when grabbing the same thing, i think. I felt like there was tension when we were around each other. He was a flirt, but he flirted with everyone. Would text me first and ask to play video games together (online) offered to hug me as an apology (over text) when i mentioned he did something that was rude. At one point, he was super dry over text, but then he started being more effort when texting soon before he quit, making me thing he wanted a friendship outside of work. Called me his friend. When i would talk to him with his friend around, his friend would smirk at us.
Then, It was his last day of work. I didn't want to make him feel bad, so when i was saying bye, i had nothing to say. he said i looked happy, but i told him i wasn't. He offered me his work shirts, and then before i could respond, he drove away really fast. I texted him and told him i would miss him, and i enjoyed working together and to text me anytime. He said that was sweet and "you too" then he started being REALLY dry over text and taking like 3+ hours to send a one word response. I thought he was just busy, but i got a weird vibe. I ignored that feeling until he decided to stop by where we work, and he waited until i got off to stop by. I texted him about it, and he was dry again. The next day, his friend was VERY standoffish around me. My friend told him i missed him and he said he didn't believe her, and then said "that's nice" Did i do something wrong? So confused

What it really was only kissing involved in the cheating (nothing else, just kissing) or an emotional affair where it's an emotional, romantic bonding. However, they never did anything physically sexual (no intercourse, no oral, no fingering, none of that) so therefore you don't have to worry about any STD.

Can that type of cheating be forgiven? We all know a full-blown affair and sex is obviously worse than kissing and romantic words. I'm wondering because some guy was forgiven for a drunken kiss. It was confirmed by others that it really was only a kiss.

He's been really distant and short lately, so I asked if there was someone else. (I have anxiety and bad past relationships) He said nope just you overthinking. But I can't help shake the feeling something is up.

What is your preferred payment method and why?

If you ask a lot of guys who their best friend is they'll say their girlfriend or wife. However there's a simple experiment you can try to see if that's true. Simply lock both your dog and your wife in the car boot and go for a drive.

Which one licked your face when you opened the boot?

Life is what you make it peeps

And no I don’t have other portions. This is my only chance to be with someone or I’ll stay alone. I don’t want this life alone.

so which if these would you choose if you were me? __________________________________________

Guy 1: tall 5’11 1/2” pretty much 6’ with any shoes on.

Very attractive face and body works out almost everyday. Nice thick dick, brown eyes

does not have a good paying job or money saved up, he only works some days when they need him.

he lives with his mom in a small apartment and she’s very sick.
he is depressed and stressed

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Guy 2: not tall. 5’8 1/2” just average

Not ugly but not super attractive. he has gray beautiful eyes

not fit. Has a round stomach but the rest of his body doesn’t look fat, just big stomach. He doesn’t workout. (never seen his dick so can’t say about that)

He has a good job. He has his own flat. Lives alone in a tourist city very nice.

he has herpes type 1 (from the mouth not genitals) he got this since he was a baby, someone passed it to him so not from sexual interaction.

he works every day and trying to grow and learn more.

So my partner seems like he doesn't listen/ comprehend when i talk about my day or things i bring up. I have mentioned that this bothers me multiple times. He said he will work on it and we will figure out the best way that works for him and us. It seems like he does it everyday and I feel like if I keep talking about it, it will be the same outcome. Thankfully its not just me, he does this with everyone.

I know some people have the end goal of marriage when it comes to dating. Me personally, I date because I want to build a closer more intimate and romantic relationship with the person I’m interested in. I don’t really care if we get married or not, I’m just going with the flow, if he ends up being “the one” then I’d consider marriage but other than that I usually just want to be with them for the sake of being with them. I don’t feel like I’m wasting my time either bcs the time was well spent getting to know that person, whether it ends in marriage or not. What about you? Do you date to marry or do you date just to date them?

My boyfriend is the best guy i have ever dated he makes all the efforts and loves me a lot which is why i said yes to him.

It has been a year since we started dating and i have to remind myself most of the times to reciprocate his efforts it's like a task for me and it does not come naturally as it used to with my first boyfriend. I love him tho but he love me more and i am not able to reciprocate that much efforts and love.. recently i have found myself being irritated coz he shows too much affection but i hide those feelings from him.

I don't want to loose him but i feel bad cos i don't treat him as well as he does. I think his looks embarrass me sometimes from posting a picture with him but i love his nature and personality.

Should i leave him so he could find someone better or should i stay with him and try to love him more... it will really be hard for him to move on and i don't want him to go through such pain neither do i want to loose such an amazing guy.

Imagine you have a friend with whom you've had an argument. Proper reconciliation doesn't happen and the friend decides to create distance. Which scenario would you argue is psychologically worse for you?

Being cut off immediately: Your friend never talks to you or opens/responds to your messages again

Gradually distanced from: Your friend gradually distances themselves from you, sending shorter and shorter messages, taking longer to reply and using less warm tones when texting (including the lack of emojis)