Polls

I get the point of the question, but I think it's been more than adequately discussed and debated ad nauseam. What do you think?

Grab the pull cord and rip it up and it roars into action. Lawn mowers, chain saws, out board motors etc all can be started with a little tug.

Or are you the type that pulls it a dozen times and nothing happens apart from you end up looking an idiot?

My boyfriend and I are dating serious - we’ve been together for just over 2 years now and multiple times we’ve spoken about having a future together and have discussed living arrangements…. he’s a good guy overall and treats me well - can’t complain.

My mom had suggested (in a persistent way) for my boyfriend to move into my house with us but my boyfriend has his own condo and secondly we want our privacy - I need a much better job than I currently have in order to move in with my boyfriend later on…

Anytime I apply to jobs or head out to job interviews my mom seems to be very negative about it- she tells me that I’m gonna get too tired and why don’t I continue working from home, etc…. she says she likes my boyfriend and approves, yet she makes negative remarks about me regarding finding work outside the house…

is she jealous of my relationship? Or is she against me moving in with my boyfriend later on?

1) A woman who has a high social status like him, is wealthy, stands on her own feet, does not ask for help, and is the same age. and experienced about some stuff.

2) A woman a few years younger who is educated, respectful, energetic and wants to make the man happy, listens to the man's life experiences and does not hesitate to get help. And inexperienced.

Amongst other things, in a marriage men need to protect and provide, true or false?

Guys does this sound desperate?
We are not together, we were in the talking stage online (long distance), but we clicked so much & then we both went out of sync & just drifted apart for 10 days now.
Let me know if this sounds sincere/genuine or just desperate?

I’m black young woman and I’m not the biggest fan of interracial relationships. I mean I believe everyone should stick with their own race. I mean do you want everyone to look the same? Absolutely not.
I love my black men way too much to date outside my race. I’m not racist but I’m just prefer my brothers. Plus I’m Iike my black men dark since I’m brown skin women, close to dark. Anyways I did date a white man and his family had a big problem us dating and made a huge fuss. Some of my relatives didn’t agree with me dating outside of my race so that’s why I prefer my own race. Plus I want my future children to look like me. I’ll support my friends if they date outside their face but I won’t agree with it.

He pursued me first, and asked me out soon after. I said yes, and for him to come up with the plan, he said of course he would. A few days later, he texts me asks me if I would be free the upcoming weekend, and if that didn't work to let him know. He planned a proper date, arranging place/time/etc. We had a couple brief text convos the few days after, nothing special until he texts me that he doesn't want to meet anymore (it wasn't last minute, it was about a week before our date was scheduled for). He tells me he just got out of a relationship and isn't ready for another one. He tells me im so beautiful and he loves my personality and we vibed pretty well, he seemed super into our convos. It makes no sense, why would he change his mind out of nowhere and waste my time?

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And don't be a coward and say neither. That's not an option in this poll.

The baby is so precious. With so many children in the system do you think it's better to adopt or have a child?

Some guys genuinely enjoy pulling their girl up for a dance (let’s say either at an event or even just at home if the mood strikes and the right song is playing) while other guys grudgingly get up to dance with their girls… which are you?

So the guy I've been talking to is coming over to my country in a few weeks and I was wondering: do I book a hotel room and plan dates and pay for everything when he comes? Genuinely curious because I know the plane tickets can be pretty expensive so it is the best I could do right?

Or do you think you should take a year or two to get accustomed to each other?

Are you a good swimmer?