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I will try to make this short.

A cute guy approached me in a way, he commented how the people at one bistro's parking place were all parked the wrong way that he barely managed to pass through.
I told him they're all idiots who can't drive for shit, he smiled a little but I thought he was on his way or maybe he actually spoke to someone else? so I kept on going to my car. *facepalm*

Only later at home I realized I missed a chance. I hate myself so much. :(
He was actually cute and approached me! (a thing almost never happening to me)...
There is a construction and building company in the bistro's area, I believe he was from there or definitely around.

Is there a chance of meeting him there again? What do you think?

I met an amazing guy, who is my age.
My dad does not agree with the relationship because he thinks I'm being lustful and emotional and taking my focus off my education, which is funny because he never took the time to ask me how I'm going with my studies but the minute he knows I'm in a relationship he says that even after I told him that my grades have improved and that I go better in school ever since I've been with this guy.

I have an African dad, and most African people or at least Nigerian people, when they hear relationship they think immediately of sex outside of marriage. And me being in a relationship at 18 is like me being rebellious and thinking I can do whatever I want because I'm 18, that's what my dad thinks. But the reality is that I met this guy now at 18 and I couldn't let the chance go.

He tries talking me out of this relationship he does not care about the fact that I'm genuinely happy and that many things have improved in my life... for once I do not have to deal with everything alone. All he cares about is me being submissive and taking his word as law.

My aunty called and said the same thing and basically that I'm too young and that I should just focus on my education. I just feel stressed, overwhelmed and misunderstood.

Even when it comes to lust or sex... as a Christian couple we talked about these things and we have boundaries and our thoughts aren't focused on those things at all because we believe that things like that should be done in the confines of marriage.

But yet, nothing, almost as if no one other than my mom and close friends understand.

I feel overwhelmed because I've always wanted a guy like the guy I currently have right now yet it's like I can't be happy.

My dad, and my aunty and I'm sure my other close relatives will continue to say the same thing, they make me feel young and stupid, I'm even tired of standing up for myself and relationship. It is exhausting, I just want to be happy, I don't know what to do.

I'ts been like 6 months since my husband cheated on me and I can't even sleep through the night most nights. It really bothers me that she's Asian because I just can't compete with that. I honestly wake up crying sometimes because I dream of them together, and I imagine my husband telling her that she's more beautiful because she's Asian.

Am I going crazy, how do I stop these nightmares?

most people in usa support NAZl Ukraine bombing innocent people for more than 8 years because main media news in our grand USA didn't expose to us the many children who have been b0mbed by ukraine all these years.

They boast about democracy but didn't bother to tell us that they barged into ukraine under Obama regime to overthrow their democratically elected government and install a pro nazi one.

Can you imagine someone from another country coming to do just that to OUR country?

of which then after resulted in a civil war where we start getting bombed by our own government but only one side of the country, the other side supports it as the rest die and they claim on the news it's "terrorists" "separatists" but in reality its just regular working families who then have to try to survive that hell, but nobody believes the survivors, they have no power, the voice of the suffering are silenced by the power of the media because the ones who started this have an agenda to meet and your life is not part of that agenda.

Instead they feed a horrible twisted truth to the audience who watches in terror as they point the finger at others and say THEY DID IT!! Punish them

and so a grand majority of people support sending more b0mbs to those who did that to those people, thinking that what they are supporting is the GOOD, because how can the media lie to them right?

that's what happened in ukraine.

why are most people satisfied by what is told to them rather than try to investigate if what you're being told is true or not.

why most people are happy to support something they really don't know much about? even if it includes the death of people, even if it include the death of children.

Why? Google is a good example of that, you won't get around the bubble of lies if you try to find the truth through a search engine that supports the agenda in regards to ukraine.

Have you been in love? How did it feel and how did you know?

I'm trying to understand what romatic love is more specifically since I think pretty much everyone can tell what sexual love is. Do you picture being in love as going on dates, hand holding, etc? Or spend you life with someone and doing everyday things together?

Going Anon since I've asked too many questions.

I’m 25 I never have experienced celebrating holidays with a boyfriend with his family. I spent age 13-22 at brotehrs gfs families house. I began get depressed seeing brother and girlfriend and gfs ssiters all with boyfriend or husband holidays happytaking pics, eating, having fun. I never had a guy come meet my family and spend holidays with me. One guy ran away from holidays or meet my brother and her family. This guy I date and know 5 years don’t ask me meet his family and say we aren’t married and he spend holidays with mom & ssiter and her boyfriend as they all live in same house. I have 3 years I don’t celebrate holidays. My mom goes to brothers wife’s families house. She doesn’t own a house either so I can’t be with her. She stays to sleep at sons house. 😞I’m worried no guy will fulfill my dream and I’ll be 30 with. No experience & be miserable on holidays alone. I want dress up be with a guy and our families in love as girlfriend boyfriend. 😞 who can do that with me?

I live in Michigan and in our elections last night, the progressives totally dominated. What's it like where you live?

i see so many girls 20-30 having babies & I see their mom so happy & taking care of baby & congratulating daughter or cry of happiness. My parents are the type to beat me to death if I’m pregnant at 25-26. All cuz I’m not married but I see many girls have baby then marry few years later. I got bad luck and no guy is racing to marry me. Some girls marry fast at 18. Many girls cry and have no clue when they’ll be proposed to. You can’t force it. Even being married you can be cheated on, ik many women married & cheated on but they get pregnant again fast after guy cheats. My parents are type to disown me & beat me for having a baby at age 26. I live alone. I wish I had chill loving parents 😞

The things (valid though) men worried about is unexpected pregnancies and having to pay child support or a woman baby trapping them. Those are real life issues.

Scenario:

A genie appears and grants you the wish of never being able to get any a woman pregnant and you'll be away from consequences and responsibilities. It's a permanent deal. You have the choice to accept it or deny it.

Would you still deny it and deal with those issues or accept being forever infertile?

I'm more of a tripper-upper than a faller-downer. 😂

"Hi! I would like to start by saying that, no, racism towards whites is not socially acceptable, but white people, as you've said, are the oppressors to POC. Racism, homophobia, transphobia, TERFism; they're all rooted in European culture, thus, prejudice originates from white people. Many LGBT+ POC have disdain for whites because they're voting for & enforcing laws that go against their right to have free will. Everyday, trans POC, mainly Black & Asian trans women, are hunted down by white people who believe they're doing the works of God, and the predominantly Caucasian government protects the murderer due to the lack of pigmentation in their skin. Also, fun fact, abortion rights were originally to protect white women that would've died if they've given birth and, here recently, were vetoed to persecute black women who needed them. Even though whites are not even close to being most of the world's population, they still continue to conquer and take away things that were never theirs to begin with."

Which one do you use in the bath and or shower to get clean bar or liquid soap or what do you prefer?

In my relationship we have mutual affection, respect and trust. I have compassionate love towards him, we spend quality time, shared common interests, have a good communication, have no arguments at all and I'm fond of him. After all infatuation fades eventually and you don't live out of that.

I don't feel passionate love for him. The infatuation stage never developed. I'm not infatuated (in love) with him.

I heard it's hyped up. Would you drive this?