Did my flirting go a bit too far?

[Anonymous]

I had some high school friends over for an afternoon at the weekend and after we had lunch I “accidentally” poured leftover soup all over a guy I like so he had to give me his clothes to wash them. My friends dared me to do it like out of a movie or something haha. He just had to sit there in his boxers waiting for the clothes to wash and dry while we watched tv lol. And it might have been a bit obvious I did it on purpose. I told him I didn't have anything that would fit him while he waited, when he asked. 😂

He seemed to find it funny, but he looked a bit embarrassed and red as well and mainly sat there awkwardly with a pillow across his lap for the afternoon. Do you think I went a bit too far?

Yes, went too far

No, it’s ok

[Guy13]

He's a guy... if he's played Sports he's putting on a "bashful" for you and is having a good time.

If he suddenly starts growing his hair long and starts asking you about piggy tails OR starts carrying pillows, briefcases, and/or satchels strapped across his body THEN you traumatized him...

[Paul_in_Indy]

I assume that he needed the pillow because he was aroused. Sounds to me like maybe you should’ve gone further; pressed the advantage.

[slatyb]

You are an adult. If you want to date him, ask him.

[Pohjolan]

Your flirting did not go too far because what you did doesn't count as flirting in the first place.

I hope you at least didn't heat it up too much.