BLIND DATE off of a dating app is it rude or smart to ask for some ID (e. g. just a health card)?

[Anonymous]

You just started talking, with no rapport & NO attempt by the other person to build a rapport. They pushed to meet quickly & when on the phone, for one, spoke of sex. You are NOT an easy person after cheap sex & told them this a few times but still NO attempt to build rapport.

Rude

Smart

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+1 y

I'm probably going to cancel but I just want a consensus to see what people think.

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+1 y

He got so agitated by the request - claiming nobody had before (probably as the way he spoke he'd known mostly cheap women / whores / prostitutes) that he actually blocked me. Pathetic individual.

[Fireguy17]

It sounds to me they are just looking to hook up, they really don't care much about you as a person, just if you would have sex with them.
My suggestion is that anyone you come across that doesn't take the time to get to know you and you him, just move on.
Don't waste your time.
If you are using a dating site, you may want to try a better one.
Something that costs money to join.
They try to weed out those that are just looking for an easy target, and you can report those that are like that.
Because of the cost it helps weed them out, and most people on those sites are looking to get into a relationship.
I met my wife on eharmony, or there is another one it's just lunch.
There are others, it might be worth it to check them out.

[OddBeMe]

Smart. I’d say be slick in how you ask. But he’s already asking for sex…