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Hi, I am 18 years old I have a strong feeling that my mom is a toxic person. in 2021 my mom have been acting very toxic to me every since my sister went to collage, she keep telling me "I am here for my sister" every own and than.(no, she doesn't mean like a sibling) to me it sounds like am my sister slave or maid, and that's the only reason I am live. let me explain why I believe so
1.) she makes me do MOST of the choices
2.) call me MORE than my sister (, even though my sister is in the SAME room as her)
3.) every time my sister doesn't do her chores I have to do them or help her with them, but I don't get help.
4.) they both always team up against me in arguments. (Even went they are wrong)
5.) my mom would tell my sister to do something forget (because my sister will never respond to her) she calls me multiple times, or bang on my door to wake me up after she told my sister to do it. even to this day she have been doing this!!! Am trying to find a job to do online and make money so I can move out. this have destroying my mental health, and even made me have more anxiety.
I will be happier one day, just not in this house.

Yesterday was pancake day in the UK. People everywhere were stuffing themselves silly with pancakes and a whole host of toppings. You can always tell when pancake day is close because the shops are full of extra lemons and packs of pancake mixes.
But how dumb do you have to be to not know how to make pancakes from scratch?

I've got zero respect for anyone who buys a packet of pancake mix.

What’s the requirement?

Check it out or nah?🤣 they should've never done the 3 days one week and the 2 days the next weekend off. Now I'm lazy but this new client is excellent experience. I have the option to commit for a month then back to the 3 days off or commit permanently

Owners and players can't decide how to split up their billions and now games are being cancelled. MLB is so tone-deaf. Most of us can't relate to the amount of $$$ owners and players enjoy. Pandemics, insurrections & wars have all been going on and these assholes can't figure out how much insane wealth they should get to play a game? Are you pissed about that? Or are you angry about something else with baseball? VOTE!

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pretty much a few months after I turned 18, my dad started telling me that I needed to start buying more of my own food. I had a part-time job at the time and still do.
He said I would always get three free meals a day though, but I needed to start buying my own snacks. Fair enough.

But now he's telling me I need to start buying my own milk, basically the only thing we can eat for breakfast is cereal and oatmeal (unless I buy something else). I bought my own cereal, but how am I supposed to eat it without milk? Doesn't the milk kind of tie in with the three meals a day that I get for free, like my breakfast? Little by little he's starting to make me buy all of my food.
I'm trying to save up for a lot of things right now like a car and my insurance I'm going to have to start paying soon, I have very little money to buy my own groceries. If it was just the milk it would be okay, but he keeps adding on.
I am so hungry most days. I go to bed hungry because the ramen noodles I bought aren't that filling for dinner 🥺
It's not like I'm a 30-year-old still living at home. I'm literally 18.

The term is generally used for a woman but is it possible for a gold digger to be a man?

I don't mean a gigolo that charges older women for his sexual services but a man that's in a long-term relationship for her money/wealth... meanwhile making the girl believe he loves her but doesn't.

My ex boyfriend owes me over $1000 and I doubt I'm the only women he has scammed and stolen from. He wanted to take over half of my future business and at some point kept pressuring about my father's living will. I thought that was weird.

He acted like one of those cruel women that wants to drain a man's hard working money. I can fully understand why more men are afraid of committing to us, afraid of the legal and money issues. He knew my family are wealthy than his and wanted to do that with me. This shocked me to be honest.

Is it just as bad when a man steals our money too?

Many women want a family oriented man to have kids with. Meanwhile more men would be just happy with a forever live-in girlfriend that have sex every single day.

If both were straight forward (no lying nor stringing along anyone) with what they're looking for, what is harder to find:
- A family oriented man to settle down with and have kids. She doesn't want to be a girlfriend forever.

- A woman that would be excited/happy about being a forever live-in girlfriend and never wanting kids. She doesn't care about a proposal nor kids... she's happy with just you and sex forever.

And what did you get pulled over for?

Yesterday I basically got pulled over for the first time. Really the cop just flashed his lights and talked to me through his window but still was the first time that's ever happened to me.

Unless they're the father/mother of your children, there is no other reason to communicate with them. There is nothing to talk about.

If a boyfriend dumps me and wants to keep me as a friend, I'll interpret that as getting demoted to the lowest position on a job; then dealing with the humiliation and insult to your own ego/self-esteem. The guy would likely feel the same way if I did that too. So I think blocked permanently if that's not someone you'll have children with is the correct way. Exes are not meant to become your friends. That's what I believe. How about you?