In your opinion: How soon is too soon to spend the night at someone's house that you're seeing/dating?

[bannacookies]

Less than a week

2-3 weeks

A month or more

[ohshee]

I really don't care what society says so that goes out the window I believe you know exactly when to do it something inside of a tell you so I'm not going to say first week second week third week I'm not going to say anything today far as I'm concerned if I'm going out with somebody that means I already like them I've already known them we already passed some sort of relationship weather is just a deep friendship or whatever but we have known each other in the past somewhere and like I said everybody has morals values and ethics so I guess it's up to each individual if I went out with a girl and she wanted to spend the night the very first night I would say sure haven't asked her if she wanted to spend the night in the spare bedroom or my bedroom and whenever she said it wouldn't matter that's what we do but then I would mention sometimes I sleep walk

[AndrésC64]

I think it depends on the amount of time you spend together, not the number of days since you met. Having said that, I think you should wait at least a month before you spend the night. I'm talking about spending the night, not having sex. Those are two different things.

[IamAdonis]

Over a month before cuddling for the night? Nah …. I say sooner

[laurieluvsit]

It's too soon if you haven't established a good connection of trust.

If it is sooner than that then to me it is just a hookup.

[bones_20]

If both people aren’t 100% comfortable with it, then it’s too soon. But if they are, then stay as early as you want.

[NathanDavis]

it's about trust, and being comfortable with each other... not necessarily about how long it's been

[NathanDavis]

and something very important, perhaps the most important thing... both should be on the same page as well as to what "spending the night means" so again... trust, comfort and COMMUNICATION are a must

[IamAdonis]

Agreed!!

[jahaims]

In a sexual sense? Probably around the 6 month mark. Not really a set time but that is around when I would want to generally I think. Just staying over probably a month or so.

[krin_m]

If you are dating seriously, less than a week is fine. It really depends on your dynamics.
TBH, I have done it (in my younger days) even for a one night stand. Either spent the night at her place or she spent it at mine.

[Kabluie]

Never too soon if sparks fly

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I would say at least a month or so

[pizzalovershouse]

I wouldn't stay not less seeing some one

[DWornock]

When about to be engaged.

[Smf1989]

My ex spend the night last than a week of dating.

[exitseven]

I say aa month.

[IamAdonis]

… It can’t be a ‘set time frame’ … it’s a feeling, when she feels ready for it …