Questions

Some people say, nobody can steal your partner unless your partner allows it, and others say that someone can deliberately pursue someone they know is taken.

At the end of the day though, who carries the responsibility…the outsider, your partner, or both?

Are you more of a summer person or more of a winter person?

maybe fall or spring is more your thing?

I plan to get a new job and a studio room close to eachother 10-20 min drive. I used to work one hour away as I live with parents and they live far in the inland empire of you guys where that is located.

I like be in the city as I’m not married yet.
my parents don’t own a home & broke , live in a senior apt that’s tiny like a studio no ac. I don’t like living here , I have no room, & parents fight daily & I feel weird to live like this at 29.

I start school Jan , so in 2 years I’ll make $8-9k a month when I graduate.
I liked my current job which is why I drove there an hour daily , but I would spend $800 a month on gas which led me to not be able to save.

I can’t find cheap studios at moms far city. I have 2 part time job offers near by here but I found cheap studio room at city by curnet job & by a guy I was dating. We had issue where I lived too far & we had planned I live 20 min away to meet more. But rn we r not talking anymore. Still that city is in the city by the beach.
im conflicted. I don’t even know where I want live in 2 years when I buy my house. I do like how quiet isolated it is here but then it gives me anxiety and boring. I don't know what to do.