The problem is that you would never know you're dating this kind if guy... Why do you think he gets laid so easily? Because on the outside he is nice... On the inside he is a monster. What do you see? What does he want you to see?
It's tough to say. You can't really fully trust any body. I start off with a neutral template, I try not to prejudge others and just hope for the best.
I've read biographies on serial killers, how they were really charming and charismatic but murdered and did other things in private. You never know who you end up with, but I hope it's not one of those.
Actually, I'm usually more 'hard-to-get' the more attractive the guy is, since I want to stand out amongst the hundreds of other girls trying to get his attention. Also, the guy in the take isn't that attractive, looks like a girl to me.
@Bysshe Not necessarily. What I'm saying is, the more 'in-demand' the guy is, the more hard-to-get I play; even if I secretly do like him. This is because I don't want to act like all the other 'female fans' he has.
Seemed to be about girls desiring sex. Is it not? How they can be "shallow" and whatnot? How they can cheat too? Yeah? I think I got it. That's pretty basic stuff, really. "They"(Females) *are* people, you know. Big surprise, we as a human race are attracted to good looks (It typically means stronger genes and we're "genetically programmed" to desire these traits).
And about your comment - I dunno about that. My sex drive is on the low side of average and that seems to intrigue most of the opposite gender. Something about other guys just wanting sex or how it's refreshing to meet someone with goals and desires that take the front seat rather than sex... seems to keep them "interested", like they can't "catch" what they're after, so they can't become "content" or "bored" with "it". Which honestly is just silly - but understandable.
Most guys are this way too (*Gasp* People!), they will chase after something, if they can't get it they become more determined and desperate.
The take is about men not putting as much effort into getting women's affection when another guy can basically get the same for her for waaaay less. Only give your time/energy to women who show interest in you first. Don't be a GIRLS WHIPPING BOY.
Unfortunately, this is how manipulations happens. Something that you made mention of. "Showering with gifts". Giving someone something is a easy tell-tale that you're chasing, that you are interested, or at least care.. If they're interested or not, then they are usually grateful (you got them a gift, duh), but still aren't interested or the like. This just speeds up the chase. The gift-giver usually see's they're grateful, therefore wants to give them another because X, Y, or Z reason. However, the recipient still isn't interested, but when they show that they're grateful, the other person receives this as for the moment, they are. And they keep chasing that feeling.
The recipient makes the person feel in-debt to the other person, so they might spend more time with them, but they still aren't interested "in that way". The two generate a stronger friendship; the recipient feels the friendship is worth so much more than risking a relationship because X, Y, or Z.
[...]Then a relationship will usually never occur.
But yes, personality matters. But you can't see personality and appearances is literally what we're "programmed" to go after. So in some cases, in different people, and different views of morals, things weigh differently.
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He looks like a damn faggot to me. Personally, I'd stay the fuck away from him
"His goal is to get mediocre grades and just smash as many girls as possible." Nah, I'm out. I don't date this kind of guy.
But this all sounds pretty pathetic..
The problem is that you would never know you're dating this kind if guy... Why do you think he gets laid so easily?
Because on the outside he is nice... On the inside he is a monster. What do you see? What does he want you to see?
It's tough to say. You can't really fully trust any body. I start off with a neutral template, I try not to prejudge others and just hope for the best.
I've read biographies on serial killers, how they were really charming and charismatic but murdered and did other things in private. You never know who you end up with, but I hope it's not one of those.
Actually, I'm usually more 'hard-to-get' the more attractive the guy is, since I want to stand out amongst the hundreds of other girls trying to get his attention. Also, the guy in the take isn't that attractive, looks like a girl to me.
So a guy who's barely attractive to you would have a better chance of getting a date?
@Bysshe Not necessarily. What I'm saying is, the more 'in-demand' the guy is, the more hard-to-get I play; even if I secretly do like him. This is because I don't want to act like all the other 'female fans' he has.
So a guy with fewer girls interested in him would get a date more easily?
you mean difficult. you're a "difficult" woman. its not a compliment just because you reframe it
So much ignorance and misogyny. So little braun matter.
It is not looks, it is high status as an alpha male that counts most of all. Women want men that are willing and able to dominate.
I refuse to be on Fb so thats out of the equation 😀
Oh, wow, this is pathetic.
Couldn't have said it better.
Lol
True
I love that this post is kinda made by a man to support men and yet most of the people finding this pathetic are men :P
LOL Are you sure you're a male? You sound like you're bitching.
Anybody who has gone from skinny to muscular will see this for themselves.
Is sex actually good enough for you to get this stressed?
"ALL BS Games constructed if they think your not attractive enough."
I agree most for the most part with this statement.
Uh, yeah. Girls are people too. Shocking..!
You miss the point of the mytake. Good luck in your goals in showering women with gifts as they give it up for free to guys like this.
Seemed to be about girls desiring sex. Is it not? How they can be "shallow" and whatnot? How they can cheat too? Yeah? I think I got it. That's pretty basic stuff, really. "They"(Females) *are* people, you know. Big surprise, we as a human race are attracted to good looks (It typically means stronger genes and we're "genetically programmed" to desire these traits).
And about your comment - I dunno about that. My sex drive is on the low side of average and that seems to intrigue most of the opposite gender. Something about other guys just wanting sex or how it's refreshing to meet someone with goals and desires that take the front seat rather than sex... seems to keep them "interested", like they can't "catch" what they're after, so they can't become "content" or "bored" with "it". Which honestly is just silly - but understandable.
Most guys are this way too (*Gasp* People!), they will chase after something, if they can't get it they become more determined and desperate.
The take is about men not putting as much effort into getting women's affection when another guy can basically get the same for her for waaaay less. Only give your time/energy to women who show interest in you first. Don't be a GIRLS WHIPPING BOY.
This was the point of the take.
Unfortunately, this is how manipulations happens. Something that you made mention of. "Showering with gifts". Giving someone something is a easy tell-tale that you're chasing, that you are interested, or at least care.. If they're interested or not, then they are usually grateful (you got them a gift, duh), but still aren't interested or the like. This just speeds up the chase. The gift-giver usually see's they're grateful, therefore wants to give them another because X, Y, or Z reason. However, the recipient still isn't interested, but when they show that they're grateful, the other person receives this as for the moment, they are. And they keep chasing that feeling.
The recipient makes the person feel in-debt to the other person, so they might spend more time with them, but they still aren't interested "in that way". The two generate a stronger friendship; the recipient feels the friendship is worth so much more than risking a relationship because X, Y, or Z.
[...]Then a relationship will usually never occur.
But yes, personality matters. But you can't see personality and appearances is literally what we're "programmed" to go after. So in some cases, in different people, and different views of morals, things weigh differently.
Whatever. He looks like a nobody.
I detect butthurt.
This is hilarious. You should be off anon too.
lmao so what stop being so salty
Ah shit PUAhate. com is leaking again
You guys spend way to much time on the internet xp
cool story bro.