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I have cheated. However, I am not a cheater! (Page 5)
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I totally understand but still if you would love him in anyway you would stay and that 3 hours / week is more than enough if you're serious, loving him.
You should just break up with him, simply and not cheat, but you're young and I totally understand at least don't try to do that mistake when you'll get older.
You're right, I should have just broken up with him. Unfortunately, I chose to do the cowardly and immature thing. Thanks for your comment x
Sometimes relationships die. It happens a lot.
You feel hurt, rejected, confused, and angry. So you find someone else to turn to. Someone who understands, who seems to sympathize...
Who you are determines what happens next.
I hope in the future you will have the strength to walk away. Cheating is for cowards who are afraid to leave the safety of a relationship that may have lasted a long time, but is ultimately broken beyond repair.
Be brave.
Thank you sweetheart I appreciate this message. :) I know that in the future, if this happens, I will be taking the high road and ending things instead of looking for what I feel missing from someone else... Thanks again x
No problem. I hope you find what was missing and your heart will be whole.
not be defined as in labelled a "cheat"
Reality check most people who you tell this story to will see you as a cheat no escaping that and if you get into a relationship with a guy and he hears of this he will have trust issues.
Most normal couples fight so that is no way an excuse to cheat, unless you were a 100% sure that is the last fight and you are breaking things off.
You would really have to prove yourself to any new guy to escape your label.
Thank you for commenting xx
I agree with this, dont let it define you, just take it as lesson learnt and move on from there. It is so true no one is perfect, sometimes people judge and forget that they themselves are not perfect. You're so young though just be careful with meeting guys on apps and be safe :)
Thanks lovely. xxx <3
Whenever people make MyTakes like this one, it's always people who come comment on how you're this and that. Ultimately, you have to know what you are for yourself, you can't let strangers tell you this or expect them to be on the same page as you. I commend you on being honest and being brave enough to write this. That I'll give you.
Its good you aware of this mistake and willing to change... but to say "I have cheated but I'm not a cheater" is abit senseless. its like saying I have murdered but I'm not a murderer.
Eh, I've heard that analogy about 45 times on this thread. It doesn't hold much power to it. Thanks for commenting xx
If you had titled this differently you would've had better inputs.
Cheating is not a mistake, it's not an accident. Cheating is a choice.
Never said it was an accident. Choices you make in life can be mistakes. Mistakes that hurt you and others around you. Thank you for your input xx
@Dandues wish i could give you a trophy your words are golden
to be honest no matter what is was a choice also not to seem sexiest it takes women a lot more to get reild up sexualy then men so she actually put more thought into it then she might admit
Actually you are, if you cheated that makes you a cheater but that does not necessarily mean you will cheat again, regardless what you did was wrong and that won't be forgotten, there is no excuse for cheating.
i murdered someone but i'm not a murderer! no, confused little girl, you are a cheater.
of course he had trust issues later he was dating a cheater.
Jesus Murphy... When will you uninspired, clichéd people stop using the piteous murderer analogy? Thanks for your input, anon xx
you are welcome. its not piteous dear, its the truth. its the exat, logical and mathematical truth. and if you want my opinion the problem of the relationship was not even the few hours a week. it had deeper rooted issues.
Well, I'm glad I have an anonymous middle-aged man to turn to with my relationship problems. Thanks, darlin' xx
middle aged is your mother ;P get your facts straight at 25 you are not middle aged.
Aweh, I knew I'd strike a feel with that comment! Sorry, pal. xx
D. E. N. I. A. L. You did cheat on the person who was under the belief (that you gave them) that you were loyal to them both emotionally and physically, so yes, you cheated, which by definition makes you a cheater. Even if you don't repeat that behaviour, you are one, because you did do that. All you're trying to do is deny your past actions.
I killed a man.
But I'm no killer, I ain't perfect.
Eugene you are not defined by your mistake you are only human an nobody is perfect
@Nicolás25
True.
@Nicolás25 Hahahaha you bastard lmao
@Nicolás25
Well, at least I'm not a killer %)
Just think of all the people you might have killed but didn't. Looked at from that perspective, statistically you are like 99.99999% not a killer.
@Tromba
Damn, I need to catch up o_O
Poor choices are not mistakes. I wish women would stop excusing their poor choices and bad judgement on anything other than what it is.
A mistake would be something done without predetermination. Without a process.
You actively and consciously made one bad choice after another. These are not mistakes as much as you want to try and make yourself feel better. They are poor choices.
How can you say the guy seduced you if you were on an app looking for company?
you are a cheater. A repentant one, perhaps, but a cheater all the same. Accept what you did and learn and grow from it
I am learning, and I have grown from it. I'm still trying to get over the hurt I caused myself and him, but it gets easier with each day. Thank you for your comment x
cheers. You're a teenager. You'll get over all this negativity. Just remember not to commit the same crime again.
I definitely won't. Thanks again, sweetheart xx
cheers... Happy whatever you folks celebrate after Halloween
thats like saying i killed someone but im not a killer
Well, I'm glad to see that you think a 16 year old cheating in a relationship is equivalent to ending someone's life. Good on you! Thanks for commenting xx
Wtf kind of logic are you using?
https://i.imgur.com/xHmOYhY.gif
CHEATING ISN' RIGHT._.
You can't brush it under the carpet like that... you cheated, you made a bad decision/judgement, just learn to deal with it and learn from it rather than denying it.
I've cheated plenty of times too.
I didn't mean for it to sound like I was brushing it under the rug. Have a good night xx
It's 08:26 about to go to work lol
I go running, but I am not a runner. You are defined by your actions, and frankly, yours suck.
Thank you very much for letting me know that cheating was wrong. I almost forgot... Thanks for commenting! xx
You're still a cheater. It's kind of hard to "accidentally" cheat on somebody.
You have to own up to it. You met a guy on whisper so you knew you were doing something suspicious. Now you have to live with that guilt, and the only way to make it better is to really understand what is so messed up about it and sincerely admit what you did to the people you hurt because of it.