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I have cheated. However, I am not a cheater! (Page 6)

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  • Princessofpersia
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    Yoda Age: 27
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    That's like saying "I raped someone, but I'm it a rapist" however in glad that you are changing ur life

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  • SlightlyCrazy
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    Yoda Age: 28
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    No one's perfect. But you cheated, your a cheater. Is a killer who only killed once and felt really bad about it not a killer?

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    • militarygirl509
      militarygirl509
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      Great analogy, I haven't heard that 50 times on this post! Thanks for commenting xx

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    • SlightlyCrazy
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      Didn't read the other ones before I posted. I have plenty others though. Your welcome:)

      Reply
  • The_Empty
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    "I may have killed someone, but I am NOT a murderer!"

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    • Victoria963
      Victoria963
      +1 y

      Please do not call me that! I know I had the choice to NOT kill him, but I did! Should I be judged for it?

      Reply
    • LolaStalla
      LolaStalla
      +1 y

      @Victoria963 yes

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    • Random_chick_2384
      Random_chick_2384
      +1 y

      I refuse to be defined by my mistake. I was just planning on beating her up for weeks, but when I was with her I got excited and killed her. This doesn't mean I'm a murder. Nobody is perfect.

      Wow I'm such a bitch. 😂

      Reply
  • MrBurger
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    Xper 5 Age: 29
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    You are still a cheater!
    It doesn't mean that you always cheat, but you cheated so you're a cheater.

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    • NormalUser
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      Haha, true enough, I bet your definition of 'cheater' is way way different than hers :P

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  • Anonymous
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    Cheating is a choice.. not a mistake. Maybe it would be better to define yourself as " disloyal".

    Nobody is perfect, but not everyone is disloyal. Some people are strong enough to have control over their emotions and desires. Obviously you are not one of them. Cheating is your potential because you failed to have the willpower to stop yourself...

    There's no reasons for cheating, just excuses... to lift the burden of guilt or to shift the blame elsewhere

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  • HairyKnees
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    But you did cheat on him so you literally are a cheater? Lmao

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  • rcmp1234
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    what kind of post is this... you are a cheater... enough said.

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    • militarygirl509
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      I'm glad you think so!! Thanks for commenting xx

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  • Anonymous
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    I don't have a problem with the fact that u cheated, I think the issue is when men or women do not own the fuck up to their mistake and they make excuses as to why they cheated. Trying to justify cheating is not owning the fuck up to a mistake.

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    • militarygirl509
      militarygirl509
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      I was not trying to justify it, I was telling my story. I added in my thoughts and my feelings, into MYtake. Mine. Thanks for commenting xx

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    • Anonymous
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      I never said you were

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  • Crazyced
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    Explorer Age: 39
    +1 y

    Sounds like a copout.

    And not trusting someone that proved they can't be trusted can't be called having 'trust issues'.

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    • Crazyced
      Crazyced
      +1 y

      Also funny how you said you require more then a few hours a week with your SO, yet you plan on enlisting in the army. How would you have managed that? Away from him, surrounded by men. We can see the picture.

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  • Anonymous
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    sure. YOU won't define yourself as a cheater. but YOU ARE A CHEATER. simple as that. you are what you do and did. that's the way the world works.

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    • militarygirl509
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      I'm glad you think so, anon. Thanks for commenting, dear. xx

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  • Maxemeister
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    You cheated however u r not a cheater.

    i2.kym-cdn.com/.../d6f.jpg

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    • YaBaba
      YaBaba
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      Lmao

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    • Maxemeister
      Maxemeister
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      @YaBaba Was the only time I ever found the right usage of this image lmao

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  • Anonymous
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    I'm not trying to undermine you but you have cheated on somebody, which means you were a cheater. You may not be now, but you were.
    But my question is, why would you? I know things weren't working but why didn't you just break up or go on a break?
    I know it would've been difficult, but why didn't you resist or explained that's not what you wanted?

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  • Lonewolf_1296
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    Xper 5 Age: 41
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    I hit my girlfriend once. I'm not a woman beater, it only happened once and her stitches were already removed. Get over it!

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    • militarygirl509
      militarygirl509
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      Awesome. Thanks for your input, sweetheart. xx

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    • Lonewolf_1296
      Lonewolf_1296
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      You're welcome.

      Reply
  • Prof_Don
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    Master Age: 40
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    2.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

    You're a reformed cheater. But you're still a cheater. That doesn't get exsponged

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  • EmiliaRose2355
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    Xper 7 Age: 35
    +1 y

    Yeah, you're a cheater. Stop kidding yourself. Trying to justify yourself doesn't make you not a cheater. Just don't do it again, nobody decent will ever commit to a person who could have infedility issues at the end of the day.

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  • BackInGame
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    I loled hard at title. didn't read any further text.

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    • militarygirl509
      militarygirl509
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      There could be words in there that you might not have understood... Good choice... xx

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    • BackInGame
      BackInGame
      +1 y

      good luck future single mom.

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    • militarygirl509
      militarygirl509
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      Thanks, babe xx

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  • Northeast106
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    Xper 7 Age: 40
    +1 y

    Actions speak louder than words... just saying. Not only that, but you cheated because you felt lonely because the guy works? Also, trust is something that is earned, and to be fair you fucked that one up yourself.

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  • Anonymous
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    He didn't "ha e major trust issues because of what you'd done." You violated his trust and you failed to earn it back. The fault there was entirely yours- he had no "issues."

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    • militarygirl509
      militarygirl509
      +1 y

      The use of the term "trust issues" was completely subjective. I didn't mean that that he was in the wrong, or had no reason not to trust me. I know that I broke his trust, and I will be forever remorseful. Have a nice night xx

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  • mishiii
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    Xper 6 Age: 35
    +1 y

    Damn girl you make a big deal out of nothing. Stop putting yourself into a corner. Go on with your life

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    • militarygirl509
      militarygirl509
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      Thanks for your comment xx

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  • PizzaGuy22
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    Xper 7 Age: 28
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    LMFAO nice try

    by the way I hope you meet the love of your life and he leaves you

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