So while some people may not want to admit that the 80/20 rule does exist. We see evidence of this through Tinder: Girls on Tinder.
In our daily lives and even in the perception that a lot of women have that all guys are regularly sleeping around with tons of girls in their 20's.
The reality is only a subset of men (20%) are doing this consistently and regularly while others are still virgins or only get sex from their girlfrineds.
Women get the impression that all guys do this because they are all chasing after a small clique of men who have a harem of girls all hovering over them and consistently sleep around with tons of girls.Women get the impression that all men must be as good as Chad Thundercock (seen above) and only want to sleep around, and not form committed loving relationship with girls in their 20's due to their experience with these men. It falls in line with girls calling "ALL GUYS ASSHOLES" after getting pump and dumped by an asshole.
Many of these guys (Chad) eventually find a hot girl who they actually like and form loving committed relationship with them or continue to sleep around with the next hot batch of teen's/20 year olds.
While men who have little to no experience end up with the following fate:
1) Men who give up on love/relationship with women and focus on other aspect of their life that make them happy.
2) Guys who take verbal cues from Chadd and reinvent themselves as players into their 30's and go after either women in their early 20's for sex and/or relationships.
Or some may play on desperation of women wanting to settle down in their 30's and put on a show of good provider to trick women them into sleeping with them. (This group rising as well but not as much as 5),3))
3) Other guys become bitter, misognistic about women and some may even join MGOW because of it.
Also rising but not as much as porn addiction due to negative stigmatization associated with it or not being very well understood.
4) Other become ensnared by women who entice them with sex and kindness into raising other men's kids, or wifing them up
With so many men boycotting marriage this group is becoming smaller
https://m.cnsnews.com/news/article/barbara-hollingsworth/bachelor-nation-70-men-aged-20-34-are-not-married ). In terms of men wifing up women.
5) With the rise of cam girls and internet pornography many men have settled for a virtual/fake relationship with a woman.
Offering to spend thousands of dollars on random girl online to be nice to them and show them love/affection that real girlfriend would. (This group is becoming increasingly larger and I believe will make up majority of young men in the future).
Hypergamy is a funny thing. Female hypergamy tricks women into chasing dominant, handsome, and/or rich men for relationship.
What it makes women forget is why would this guy commit towards you when he has so much free pussy being thrown at him ? Many women get white knighted by men/and women that they are perfect and that kind of reinforcement really make women delude themselves into thinking they are special and the rich/popular chad thundercock will pick her over all other girls because she was special. The reality is Chad uses girls as a cum dumpster and once he's done with them discards them.
The effect this has is as followed:
1) Rise in single mothers and drain on social resources.
Usually try to ensare the guy she would not have considered as a lover in her 20's as a partner in her 30's.
2) Bitter, pessimistic women who now become guarded and have a negative view on men and relationships due to their experience with alpha males in their youth.
3) Women who have given up on love like men and are content with living a single life.
Telling themselves they never wanted children and are just happy having a career, lifestyle, girlfriends and occasional hookups/short term relationships.
4) Women who eventually settle for guys they thought they were too good for and make their LTR/husbands.
They have married life and give up their pursuit for alpha males. Until they divorce said husband around their late 30's, early 40's and head back into the dating scene as cougars.
Overall I think in this millenial generation the only people who win out are Chads and the hot girl.
I believe as we see this generation of 20 year old approach 30's we will have an increasing rise in men from 5), 3) and 2). While for women I believe we will have an increasing rise in women from 1) and 3).
What do you guys think ?
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