When women are in their early twenties and late teens, they are use to being in relationships or hooking up with the most attractive and/or richest men. Although I hate ratings, let's say men 8-10, are getting together with most of the women with a 5-10 rating.
This can't work in the long run, because people partner up 1-1, so those 8-10 men end up married to 8-10 women, or women of less attractiveness who exhibit character traits that they desire in a long term partner. i.e. Girl's who are not only pretty and good for a fling.
So usually all these 5-10 girls get knocked out of LTR commitment from these guys in place of girls like this:
And/or:
Girls who are smart, kind, loving and loyal that's been with them as they were growing up or liked them before they got money.
What happens with all these women 5-7/10?
They spent their twenties with men 8-10/10, and now they're left with their equals, men 5-7/10, so they feel like they're settling, or stepping down.
At the same time, men feel like they're dating up, because they never received attention from these women before. Their prior history leaves this skewed perspective.
The 5-7/10 women won't just immediately start dating their own "tier". They will swarm the 7-men. Those men who will mostly ignored in their 20's, but now gets attention from loads of women.
Eventuelly it will balance out, but not before the "slightly more attractive than average" men take advantage of the situation.
In short, average women in their twenties get attention from great guys. As people begin to settle down, average women are only left with average men, and they're left wondering where all the good men have gone.
Good men in this case being the 8-10/10 men.
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