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5 Ways You Could Cheer Up Your Man/Woman When He/She Is Upset

5 Ways You Could Cheer Up Your Man/Woman When He/She Is Upset



You should be patient


The first step to make him/her feel better when he\she is upset is by being patient. When he/she is down, he\she will be generally annoyed and irritated. Every little thing will ruin his\her mood. Minor things will make him\her angry. At such times, he\she might be harsh to you because he\she knows that you, of all the people, will understand him\her and his\her moods. Therefore, it is very important that you be patient when he\she is upset if he\she gets mad at you, or fights with you, don’t fight back and ruin his\her mood even further. Stay calm. If he\she does something that really makes you angry, talk about it after he\she is feeling better.


You could offer to eat out


Whether he\she admits it or not, food is the best therapy. When he\she is upset, ask him\her to eat out with you. Even better, take him\her out on a date. No matter how much he\she insists that he\she isn’t angry, get him\her something to eat or go out and eat something with him\her. My guy is a big fan of chocolates. Whenever he is upset, I get him chocolate drinks or chocolates. It does instant wonders, and he returns to his normal self. Lol, most the time it can help.


5 Ways you could cheer up your man\woman when he\she is upset


Try to become little more romantic


One thing that surely heals everything is love. When he\she is upset, become overly loving towards him\her. Do not fake the excessive love, but generally show him\her that you care a lot about him\her. Take care of him\her. Monitor if he\she is eating and/or sleeping properly. Become flirtatious with him\her. Joke and tease him\her. Be extremely naughty and adventurous. These things will distract him\her because physicality is the best way to release negative energy. Just understand that he\she will have a bit of crazier demands.


Compliment him/her


When he/she is upset, you can give him/her occasional ego boosts by complimenting him/her.Then again, don’t fake or lie, but look for genuine things in him/her that are worth appreciating. His/her clothes, his facial hair, his/her hair, his/her shoes etc. are all the things that can be complemented. Notice them and show him/her that you like what you see. When I know my guy is upset, I start with complimenting him and then switch to flirting. This makes him smile and works almost every time.


Motivate him/her to get better


When he\she is upset, he\she loses all his\her hope. He\she might not say it, but he\she doesn’t want to pursue something anymore. He\she is beaten to the ground. At such times, you have to motivate him\her. You have to encourage him\her that one setback doesn’t stop him\her from trying to reach where he\she wants to, or to be at his\her very best. He\she cannot stop being who he\she is just because something bad happened once. Just keep him\her going, because you know best why certain things are very important for him\her. He\she should be lucky to have you.


5 Ways You Could Cheer Up Your Man/Woman When He/She Is Upset


Ohh P.S. I know that SOME people would say "Or Just give him\her sex" so I might as well put that somewhere in here too! Hope this helps, and that I didn't screw up to much! Thanks for reading!

5 Ways You Could Cheer Up Your Man/Woman When He/She Is Upset
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