Not All Cheaters Are the Same, So Stop Judging Us Like We Are! (Page 5)

[Anonymous]

Fuck everything else, it's a huge lack of respect and that lack of respect alone is enough to leave somebody over. Forget that they lied, forget the betrayal, they don't even have a basic level of respect for the person enough to not go fuck somebody else. If they can't do the basics, like respect, don't expect anything else.

[Kylesar]

In the words of Spoken Reasons (The Hoe Manual):

"Once a woman has been caught cheating, her resume is completely ruined for potential good man references... You're out the ball game. You're outta there!"

Unless that [cheater] man is rich, this applies to both sexes. Period

[nikki_24]

A cheater is a lying, selfish scum bag. No excuse for it. End of story.

[Weber17]

You still see it in black and white. I clearly said there is no excuse just to remind you.

[Toad-1]

Because when you cheat it is pretty much black an white...

[PrincessofNohr]

Sorry, but stats argue otherwise. Studies show over and over that people who cheat once will likely do it again. Maybe there's one in a thousand who won't, but I won't hedge my bets.

[selmo93]

I agree. I mean people are labelled from stuff they did in the past yet doesn't work for other things. Like say they stole as a child. Doesn't mean they're branded a thief for the rest of their life. Shouldn't define them for past mistakes

[Prettygurl12]

Cheating is a choice and like it or not, it's a choice that I will hold against and judge you for for the rest of your life. It cannot be overlooked.

So sorry, but you'll be judged and treated like all other cheaters no matter what you say.

[CheerGirl38139]

I applaud you for having the guts to write this. I haven't read the comments, and I probably won't, because I know how most of them are going to go... and reading them will be an exercise in frustration.

[Anonymous]

Yes you are. If you weren't you would have been honest and moved on without the partner.

Don't cheat, It's not a hard rule.

[Anonymous]

Didn't even bother reading your take, being in relationship with someone means you're committed to him which means not to go around fuck with others boys. If you do that you're cheating, it is not a mistake it is not a incident aight?

[BaileyisDarcy]

Commiting yourself to a message board means knowing what you're talking about. How about reading shit before commenting on it.

[Weber17]

If you read it, you'd know its not about the act of cheating. Its about the reaction of the cheater and how they choose to progress after they have made the choice of cheating.

[Anonymous]

I'm not even going to bother reading this bollocks past the title - that alone pissed me off! A cheater is a cheater. End of. Yes you are all the same, why? Because you cheat! What a stupid fucking pointless piece of shit thing to write about

[BaileyisDarcy]

What a pointless comment on a post you didn't even read.

How do you know it wasn't in reality about puppies with just an attention grabbing title?

[Weber17]

If you read it... its not about the act of cheating. Its the person that were discussing. Just because you cheated once doesn't mean you're that stereotypical cheater for the rest of your life.

[Amanda2]

I cheated once, and while I was fully aware of it. I was insecure in the relationship, at the end of the day cheating is a horrible thing to do and it can have dire consequences.

[Relentless_Hippie]

A cheater is a scum bag. End of story.

[Weber17]

I'm not a scumbag for fucking up once as a teenager.

[Relentless_Hippie]

You were a scum bag while it was happening though. You're a former cheater, not a current one. But still it was a scum baggy thing to do. It shows selfishness on your part.

[LoloWaye]

I will never date anyone who has cheated before, just know. Hopefully they will find someone that will give them a chance but I'm never going to out myself in the position to find out.

[LoloWaye]

I meant *no

[LoloWaye]

And *put

[Anonymous]

You're attempting to justify cheating, which is as despicable as the action of cheating itself.

[Weber17]

I'm not justifying the act of cheating. I'm justifying that I'm not a bad person because of the act, and I should not be judged by my past action if I have proved to the people I love and care about that it was a mistake of the past and something that I have learned and grown from.

[Opinion Owner]

Is a murderer a bad person?

[Anonymous]

Cheaters have many things in common, they're all selfish and gutless for a start.

[BaileyisDarcy]

Well... no...

Did you even read this?

[Weber17]

Maybe the action they took to cheat in that moment makes them selfish and gutless, but that doesn't mean the person is. Everyone can be selfish or gutless about anything at any given moment. But that doesn't mean you're always that characteristic. Yeah cheaters may have things in common, but they're not all the same person :/

[ikissedtheskyonce]

@BaileyisDarcy lmao why do you keep posting on everybody's comments is so fucking annoying

[BaileyisDarcy]

@ikissedtheskyonce Because I want to, because I can and because :P

[BaileyisDarcy]

@ikissedtheskyonce

link the name properly please ><

[RiseofArtemis]

If you cheat your next thing to do it buy a gun load it and place the tip of the barrel against your head and pull the trigger. Counts for both genders.

[Outofthegrey]

All cheaters are pieces of human shit. You deserve harsh judgement because what you did is unforgivable and it makes you a piece of human shit.

[madhatters4]

as a person who's been cheated on i can't certainly attest that you can't paint all cheaters with a broad stroke

[ObscuredBeyond]

In other words, there's a difference between losing faith or faltering in it, and being a total slimeball. Maybe life will give you another chance.

[yololoyo]

Great! I guess it now gives me a reason to cheat if it's not meant to be hurtful

[Weber17]

Great to know you didn't understand where I was coming from and picked out one sentence to manipulate.