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Not All Cheaters Are the Same, So Stop Judging Us Like We Are! (Page 6)
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Yes, they are - they all try to justify their cheating.
I'm not justifying cheating. I'm justifying that I am not a bad person because of it.
All cheaters should have the option to be chemically castrated or just put down. Causing life long pain to another person is not a mistake. Forcing society to accept your sociopathy is an insult to family and community.
I love how this was like "Hey not all cheaters are the same!" as if she were saying "Hey not all body types are the same!"
No bitch but you're still a fucking cheater
Sorry I would never trust a cheater and would never take them back. That's just me. People can do what they want.
Cheaters are cheaters, and you all fucking suck. Kick rocks.
Kick rocks?
What, so they can break more windows?
This sentence strikes me as funny for some reason XD
@BaileyisDarcy lol, I always tell people to kick rocks with no damn shoes on but I thought the last part would have been a little too mean.
Women like you are the reason so many men no longer trust women. Cheaters are all the same and will never change.
Thanks for you opinion but a mistake as a 15 year old sure isn't going to stop me from cleaning up my act and finding my happily ever after as an adult.
if it occured such a long long time ago, consider it like this. Not every single person with a bad credit history would remain to have bad credit history; if their financial position for the last couple of decades shows great promise, which means the person HAS learned their lesson. then yes, I agree that cheaters should not be 'eternally judged' for one act.
if it is, however, closer to the present, like if the bad credit history only occured last year whilst applying for the loan, and there is no or little upward trend in the person's behaviour (or there isn't simply enough time to judge if the person has changed or not) then i believe the bank has the right to deny the person on that basis alone.
@123cheesecake This is a PERFECT analogy! Your mind works wonders. Thank you for sharing, I will always keep this in mind when the topic comes up!
15 wow... cheaters start early. Yeah you make mistakes as a kid but 15 and cheating all I can say is wow
Cheaters are still cheaters to me. No matter the reason, it's a bad choice and degrades you as a person
if you are in a monogamous relationship and you cheat on your agreements there is no justification, you are a moron.
I didn't say there was justification. Nor am I a moron... read a little better.
never said you were a moron. cheating is simply not ok.
"Making a mistake does not define who I am!!!"
Mistakes are EXACTLY what define us.
do you openly tell any guy two speaks to you that you're a cheater? if you won't cheat again, then keep it to yourself.
Cheaters are even worse when they want sympathy. . Seriously? Are we supose to feel bad for you? Smh
I don't want any of your sympathy. I fucked up and I fucked someone's self worth up. I am clear on how bad I screwed up. Thank you. I don't want you to feel bad for me at all either, I do enough of that for myself over the mistake I made. Neither sympathy nor "feeling bad for me" is what I asked for. I asked for a simple understanding. You're supposed to understand that in order for people to move on, you have to come to terms. No you don't have to forgive a cheater. You don't even have to tolerate one. But before you go shoving them down because of a past decision, think about "have they grown the fuck up? Is it all in the past now? Have they learned from their mistakes?" Cause I know myself that high school me is long gone and I have most certainly grown the fuck up.
Thank you for reading.
How am I supose to understand that? I think that cheating is one of the things i'll never understand in this world, its seriously fucked up.. Just no...
Don't understand cheating. Understand that people can make mistakes and change as an effect.
You Just asked me for "simple understanding ".. And I understand that people make mistankes, but some are just unforgiveable in my opinion.. if I met a guy Who told me he cheated I would run for the hills
An understanding that I'm not a bad person because of it.
So you're 21. Lets put my scenario into your life for a moment, just to help you understand that I'm not a bad person. You meet a guy, same age as yourself, super nice, good looking, great family life etc. Yeah a few quarks here and there. You go on a couple dates and he tells you. " so we've been on a few dates and I thought it'd be important to tell you that Six years ago when I was 15 I cheated on my girlfriend. There was this girl that approached my while I was at a party and I said no to what was happening to late. It was a foul call and I made a mistake and learned my lesson the hard way."
Are you going to run, or understand that he was still young and had some growing up to do, he knows his fault and proves to be a well accomplished, put together young man now...
It seems like you're just trying to make an excuse for cheating.
I'm not trying to make and excuse for cheating. I'm trying to say that just because I cheated, doesn't mean I'm the stereotypical scum bag cheater.
Doesn't make you a scum bag, just a person who did something bad. Some people are gonna judge you for what you did. Deal with it.
Cheaters are horrible people and deserve to go to hell.
Bullshit. As a cheater myself it just seems to me you want to play the victim. You are a cheater end of, regardless of circumstances you fit into that category and you will be lumped together with other cheaters bad intentions or not because you all have one thing in common. You cheated. I really do feel your post was pointless. And maybe that you're frustrated with yourself for cheating and trying to make yourself feel better about it.
Cheating is cheating, plain and simple. It doesn't matter what the reasons are, you still end up hurt the person you supposedly love.
That is what I have said in my post. Thank you for clarifying what a cheater is, and how I hurt someone I loved.
Cool Story Bro. Thanks for the novel. Would buy 10/10
You have 2 options. Cheat or don't cheat. There's absolutely no grey areas. Stop making excuses for being a dick.
Thou shalt not commit adultery ! Sins of the flesh. Yes you will go to hell. Hell is forever. No Tylenol , beer, whiskey, pot or cocaine to stop the constant pain you will endure for eternity.
Keep this in mind: Cheaters tend to think everybody else cheats too. Meanwhile, liars tend to think everyone else lies too.
I really like it when people comment without reading the OP's post. Great fucking job guys.