You're Good Friends With Your Ex? ...What? (Page 2)

[SlightlyCrazy]

I statues close with mine
She's my best friend and I have been in other relationships
She treats me like her brother

[reuserious]

No way. I tried it once. But it didn't work. I think ıt is impossible to stay close friend with your ex

[isjusti]

What was the reason that didn't work if i can ask? You still had feelings, or arguing, or causing problems to a new relationship or?

[reuserious]

Nope, she had still feelings to me. And we had already tried twice before

[bente2]

Uh, you can very mich so stay friends with an ex.

[isjusti]

are you talking from experience or?

[bente2]

Yes, and from what I've seen. I've had an ex whom is still my best friend to this day, no hard feelings. Most of my friends still go about with their exes as friends. But I'm young, so I might have to adjust my opinion later on in life.

[singlebee]

@asker - you are gonna listen to a 15 year old? lol

[bente2]

@singlebee again, age doesn't define anything. You don't know what I'm like, how I look, what I've been doing in recent years. It's not your age that defines you, it's the way you act. I wish more adults could see this, instead of bashing teenagers for being young. It's really not my fault that I'm 15. So please do kindly fuck off.

[isjusti]

When you are young you dont have the necessary experiences to judge on some issues. You also think you know it all, we all been there. An opinion coming from experiences is more valid than a theoretical one, so age does play a part on the validity of some answers. Is not really bashing anyone , just talking

[singlebee]

See listen to the opinion owner KID!
You shouldn't even be in a relationship that young...

[singlebee]

*I mean the my take owner

[bente2]

Again, y'all don't know me. Sure, experience teaches things but that doesn't mean anyone with experience uses common sense.

"You shouldn't even be in a relationship that young" lmao, maybe where you're from. Maybe in your conservative mind. Not where I live. AGE DOESN'T DEFINE WHAT THE FUCK SOMEONE SHOULD DO.

And I'm a know it all because I'm young? Look who's talking. I'm done here, always being discriminated and invalidated because of my age yet expected to act like an adult, even when no one treats me as if I matter. Bye.

[isjusti]

i personally talked to you very nicely and politely, the way you reacting isn't making you any favours. I did not invalidate your opinion, i just said perceptions change with experience. Part of being mature person is to accept different opinions and have a dialog without getting upset

[chriss]

she is 15 and very smart. you can stay friends with your ex trust me so many divorced couples do it. its all about how the relationship ended. if the person didn't cheat you but it just didn't work out then you can remain friends but to actually do it you would have to move on from your ex and then it will be possible to remain friends. you might grieve for a year but once you are over the person its possible

[99percentangel]

I couldn't have said it better myself.

[isjusti]

thank you

[Marinepilot]

Ex's are ex's for a reason.

[Anonymous]

Oh grow up.