So this is really for the girlfriends out there worrying about that ex that might still have feelings for your guy.
For the girlfriend out ther worrying about your guy being colse friends with his ex
There are several conditionals here:
- if they are still friends chances are that she has feelings for him, maybe not overly romantic, but still she feels protective of him , even more if she was the one to broke it up with him.
- If they hang out with the same group of friends and you not, chances are they are being teased about being a couple, which the ex would FAKE to be annoy about, but will love it inside
- If he met you after their relationship ended, like u were the gf just after her, she just considers u a rebound and is just waiting u out
- If u used to be friends, and she told u everything about the break up, and u ended up in a relationship with the guy then she feels the right to not respect your place as his actual gf
- If he doesn't tell u he hangs out with his ex ocassionally just the two of them, u should get suspicius
- If he freely admits that she was a important person to him, that influenced in his character, be aware that he is not going to ever forget the ex
- If their relationship ended terribly to the point were they werent able to stand each other, then realize that if they were so injured then they had strong feelings
- If he freely acknowledges that she was his 1st love, remember that that is kind of hard to forget
- If the ex was at fault for the break up, and then was the one mending fences, remember that she cares enough for the guy to swallow her pride
- If they reminisce about how they used to be, then they are mostly over it. But if they prefer not to discuss it chances are theay are still sensitive about it
- If they overcame their differences and became friends, realize that they put some effort to not be strangers and thus still care for each other
And well this is from the point of view from a girl who has being harangued by his ex-boyfriend's new girlfriend on the grounds that it is not natural for us to be such close friends
A little bit of backgrond info... I broke up with the guy, I knew he was in love with me but i wasn't ready for a relationship, so I severed all contact with him, blocked on fb, ignoring him, not openning the door to him (without any explanation whatsoever), we didn't talk for a year, his actual gf used to be a friend of mine who went after him after we broke up. Later we became friends as i felt guilty of what I did to him, and got pretty close but his gf wouldn't have our platonic friendship so we separated a bit. I didn't mind him having a gf my problem was when she demanded that our friendship ceased to exist.
And for me(the ex) having feelings for him I certainly do... i just dont know which kind
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