Disregard my earlier comment, I misread your post. It's debatable. Women can stay alone for longer because they can still have casual sex any time they want.
How? most normal guys if your decent looking can get sex pretty easily too. Unless your just hideous. It works the same way for girls, if your decent looking you'll get sex pretty easily but if your hideous then you won't.
@Yoloxt23 you get triggered way too easily. I *could* probably get laid any time I wanted, but I'd have to scrape the bottom of the barrel. So it's not necessarily something I want. Besides, I'm in a relationship.
yeah men chase women because we want sex more than women, but we dont need it, not for survival. Sex isn't a need. Women need men because they are less capable of doing things for themselves than men are, women are relient on men for resources and security while the opposite isn't true. It was more relevant back in the days when we where living primitive lifes in tribes, but it is still true to a large extent, most of the soldiers and police force are men, still protecting women, and women rely on government welfare programs to a much larger degree than men do, and most of the tax money is paid by men.
Well I can't say for girls but I am a guy and I could go my whole life without girls. But thats because I never had a girl in my life, and at this point I dont think I ever will. Even kissing somebody is something I can't imagine since I was never even close to something like that. And yes its awful and depressing, but I have no choice about it, so...
Well, I asked a question, or something similar about this the other day. I really think I can go without a partner. ( '-')
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Not entirely true. I know people, both boys and girls who are happier being single because they think dating and being hurt caused too much headache or heartache as opposed to being single.
That could change down the road but some people aren't willing to put themselves in vulnerable positions as they don't wanna experience the pain again.
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I think it's the opposite- girls have closer friendships with other girls, and girls can get casual easier than guys can. Guys who don't have girlfriends will suffer from loneliness and not get to have sex that much (unless they get a prostitute). And I don't think girls can't deal with being alone, it's just a personality thing. Some people are more independent than others.
Men are biologically more independent than women are on average, significantly so. And men can deal better without a woman, there is porn and prostitutes, and also the older a man gets after his 20s, the easier it is getting casual sex from women around the same age, up until the tipping point age where sex drive usually dies out in both genders.
@alphadoggystyle I don't think men are "biologically more independent" than women. Men also need companionship with other people, including other men, and usually only get emotional intimacy from their romantic partners. Maybe men mature later than women and don't realize they need love until a later age, but this doesn't mean they are more independent. This is where I disagree with the author of this post.
It doesn't matter what you think, men are factually more independent than women, its biology. Men might mature later than women but in the end we turn out more mature than most women. And we dont need emotional intimacy to the same extent that you do, we mostly just want sex and companionship, but we can deal better without that than women can.
@alphadoggystyle It doesn't matter what I think? Oh ok, It doesn't matter what you think either. What in men's biology makes them more independent than women? There's nothing there. You're making it up.
@alphadoggystyle I just read your replies to other people. Your argument for why men are more independent doesn't make sense. We're talking about needing companionship, not needing money or resources. Women seeking money and resources from a man is not the same thing as wanting a man for company. She could be cheating on him or not care about him that much and still get his money. Similarly, men want a woman not only because he wants to have sex with her, but because he also likes her as a person and wants her company. Or are you going to tell me men only want to fuck women and want nothing else to do with them? Well that's your own misogyny talking. You're just another sexist moron anyway. Why am I wasting my time.
what you think doesn't matter, because what you are saying is based on your opinion and nothing else. What i said however does matter since it is based on fact. I already explained the biological reasoning why men are better than women at being independent. And you didn't have any counterargument you just avoided it.
My argument makes perfect sense, you just claim it doesn't because you dont want it to be true, but it is based on fact. Our physical needs influence our mind and we have adapted to have a mental need of the things our body needs, so since we need food to survive our bodies adapted our brains to make us want food and reward us with dopamine whenever we got to eat. This is the same thing, womens physical need for protection and security, in addition to sex made them mentally relient on men more compared to the opposite. Men only really need women for sex and nothing else, which is why it is much more common for men to have sex with women without caring about them or their company. Men are designed to spread their seed to ensure their genes survive, so we are even designed to a degree to want to get away from women after we have had sex with them, many men report wanting to get away from the woman after orgasming, of course if there is already feelings involved its different.
I mean, anyone could be alone forever I guess, and that includes girls, I just don't know why they would want to. I certainly don't want to be alone forever.
Not being in a romantic relationship doesn't mean you're alone though. People have their friends, family, and pets. You can be happy without being in a romantic relationship, lol. You can still have fun and be social.
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the thing with being single and sexless is whether you are so by choice or by lack thereof. If you are so by choice, its fine. What sucks is when you are so by lack of choice.
by the way, for me at least, when we say someone is *forever alone*, that means they are single and sexless by lack of choice.
Men and women are equally bad at being alone. There isn't a sex that is more capable of avoiding human contact, it's a basic human need really... what mounds of evidence do you have that states that women are "more social" because I call bullshit.
No, men are biologically better suited for independence and deal with loneliness better than women. Women need men more than the opposite, this is expressed in the traits women primarily find attractive in men, security and resources, compared to the traits men primarily look for in women, youth and beauty. The fact that women want those traits in a man is the result of evolution and sexual selection, since women where to weak and vulnerable to protect themselves and their babies, and to gather resources themselves. As a result they evolved mentally to be dependent on others to a higher degree than men as well. Also women where always part of a tribe and would never be left for dead, while men being expendable due to infinite sperm would always have to prove useful otherwise they would become outcasts and had to survive on their own.
women are the weaker sex, both mentally and physically. There is nothing to debate here as it is an established fact. I dont need to force myself to believe anything as it has already been proven many times in many ways. But keep being in denial if that makes you feel better. It won't change anything though.
So... that's why lonely guys kill themselves more than women do. Women feel lonely and can express their feeling because it's allowed. But guys tend to pretend they can handle the loneliness and try to be independent.
Guys dont usually kill themselves just for loneliness, its usually also because their kids and a lot of their wealth was taken away from them through divorce etc. Also in case you didn't know, women attempt suicide more often than men but fail to complete it or go through with it completely, while men go through with it more often, but that still shows women are more unhappy than men are, for whatever reason. Men can handle loneliness better than women and we are more independent on average, its biology.
This is because if you don't have a thick perfect body or muscular shape no one cares about you. It's because love doesn't actually exist
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I could go without a man in my life. I was a single mother for 9 years without a man around me. I kept busy, was happy. Now i am with someone and tbh wish i was single again.
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It's actually 500x harder for a man to be alone then a women
That isn't true.
Disregard my earlier comment, I misread your post. It's debatable. Women can stay alone for longer because they can still have casual sex any time they want.
@Kirah no not really most people don't even need sex. It's just emotional.
How? most normal guys if your decent looking can get sex pretty easily too. Unless your just hideous. It works the same way for girls, if your decent looking you'll get sex pretty easily but if your hideous then you won't.
@Yoloxt23 you get triggered way too easily. I *could* probably get laid any time I wanted, but I'd have to scrape the bottom of the barrel. So it's not necessarily something I want. Besides, I'm in a relationship.
@Kirah You can, but there are consequences to your slutty actions!
@Kirah I'm never getting married, EVER!
nope, its the opposite, men are less dependent on women compared to the opposite. this is fact.
@alphadoggystyle no it isn't men usually chase women not vice versa
yeah men chase women because we want sex more than women, but we dont need it, not for survival. Sex isn't a need. Women need men because they are less capable of doing things for themselves than men are, women are relient on men for resources and security while the opposite isn't true. It was more relevant back in the days when we where living primitive lifes in tribes, but it is still true to a large extent, most of the soldiers and police force are men, still protecting women, and women rely on government welfare programs to a much larger degree than men do, and most of the tax money is paid by men.
Of course we are lying but our hearts are to precious to get hurt again... rather be alone than be with someone and feel lonely
@Brokenheartedx men can also be with someone and still feel lonely, women aren't the only ones.
@TheBigGiantHead900 The post wasn't about men it was about women. If it was about men I'd type the same thing as well..
Just women give their heart away more easily than men
@Brokenheartedx oh ok.
Well I can't say for girls but I am a guy and I could go my whole life without girls. But thats because I never had a girl in my life, and at this point I dont think I ever will. Even kissing somebody is something I can't imagine since I was never even close to something like that. And yes its awful and depressing, but I have no choice about it, so...
Well, I asked a question, or something similar about this the other day.
I really think I can go without a partner. ( '-')
Not entirely true. I know people, both boys and girls who are happier being single because they think dating and being hurt caused too much headache or heartache as opposed to being single.
That could change down the road but some people aren't willing to put themselves in vulnerable positions as they don't wanna experience the pain again.
I think it's the opposite- girls have closer friendships with other girls, and girls can get casual easier than guys can. Guys who don't have girlfriends will suffer from loneliness and not get to have sex that much (unless they get a prostitute).
And I don't think girls can't deal with being alone, it's just a personality thing. Some people are more independent than others.
Men are biologically more independent than women are on average, significantly so. And men can deal better without a woman, there is porn and prostitutes, and also the older a man gets after his 20s, the easier it is getting casual sex from women around the same age, up until the tipping point age where sex drive usually dies out in both genders.
@alphadoggystyle
I don't think men are "biologically more independent" than women. Men also need companionship with other people, including other men, and usually only get emotional intimacy from their romantic partners. Maybe men mature later than women and don't realize they need love until a later age, but this doesn't mean they are more independent. This is where I disagree with the author of this post.
men don't care about men as much as you think we do
It doesn't matter what you think, men are factually more independent than women, its biology. Men might mature later than women but in the end we turn out more mature than most women. And we dont need emotional intimacy to the same extent that you do, we mostly just want sex and companionship, but we can deal better without that than women can.
@alphadoggystyle
It doesn't matter what I think?
Oh ok, It doesn't matter what you think either.
What in men's biology makes them more independent than women? There's nothing there. You're making it up.
@alphadoggystyle
I just read your replies to other people. Your argument for why men are more independent doesn't make sense. We're talking about needing companionship, not needing money or resources. Women seeking money and resources from a man is not the same thing as wanting a man for company. She could be cheating on him or not care about him that much and still get his money. Similarly, men want a woman not only because he wants to have sex with her, but because he also likes her as a person and wants her company.
Or are you going to tell me men only want to fuck women and want nothing else to do with them? Well that's your own misogyny talking.
You're just another sexist moron anyway. Why am I wasting my time.
what you think doesn't matter, because what you are saying is based on your opinion and nothing else. What i said however does matter since it is based on fact. I already explained the biological reasoning why men are better than women at being independent. And you didn't have any counterargument you just avoided it.
My argument makes perfect sense, you just claim it doesn't because you dont want it to be true, but it is based on fact. Our physical needs influence our mind and we have adapted to have a mental need of the things our body needs, so since we need food to survive our bodies adapted our brains to make us want food and reward us with dopamine whenever we got to eat. This is the same thing, womens physical need for protection and security, in addition to sex made them mentally relient on men more compared to the opposite. Men only really need women for sex and nothing else, which is why it is much more common for men to have sex with women without caring about them or their company. Men are designed to spread their seed to ensure their genes survive, so we are even designed to a degree to want to get away from women after we have had sex with them, many men report wanting to get away from the woman after orgasming, of course if there is already feelings involved its different.
nothing i said makes me a moron, what i have said is factual, while you are a moron for being in denial just because you dont like the truth.
No, why should she be lying. She can also mean what she says.
I mean, anyone could be alone forever I guess, and that includes girls, I just don't know why they would want to. I certainly don't want to be alone forever.
Not being in a romantic relationship doesn't mean you're alone though.
People have their friends, family, and pets.
You can be happy without being in a romantic relationship, lol.
You can still have fun and be social.
the thing with being single and sexless is whether you are so by choice or by lack thereof. If you are so by choice, its fine. What sucks is when you are so by lack of choice.
by the way, for me at least, when we say someone is *forever alone*, that means they are single and sexless by lack of choice.
Men and women are equally bad at being alone. There isn't a sex that is more capable of avoiding human contact, it's a basic human need really... what mounds of evidence do you have that states that women are "more social" because I call bullshit.
No, men are biologically better suited for independence and deal with loneliness better than women. Women need men more than the opposite, this is expressed in the traits women primarily find attractive in men, security and resources, compared to the traits men primarily look for in women, youth and beauty. The fact that women want those traits in a man is the result of evolution and sexual selection, since women where to weak and vulnerable to protect themselves and their babies, and to gather resources themselves. As a result they evolved mentally to be dependent on others to a higher degree than men as well. Also women where always part of a tribe and would never be left for dead, while men being expendable due to infinite sperm would always have to prove useful otherwise they would become outcasts and had to survive on their own.
@alphadoggystyle... okay "alphadoggystyle" keep viewing women as the "weaker" sex... whatever you want to force yourself to believe :)
women are the weaker sex, both mentally and physically. There is nothing to debate here as it is an established fact. I dont need to force myself to believe anything as it has already been proven many times in many ways. But keep being in denial if that makes you feel better. It won't change anything though.
Hey! I'm not lying. . . that's the way I genuinely feel right now.
So... that's why lonely guys kill themselves more than women do.
Women feel lonely and can express their feeling because it's allowed. But guys tend to pretend they can handle the loneliness and try to be independent.
Guys dont usually kill themselves just for loneliness, its usually also because their kids and a lot of their wealth was taken away from them through divorce etc. Also in case you didn't know, women attempt suicide more often than men but fail to complete it or go through with it completely, while men go through with it more often, but that still shows women are more unhappy than men are, for whatever reason.
Men can handle loneliness better than women and we are more independent on average, its biology.
Most women who successfully go alone forever typically wind up as the crazy cat lady stereotype as housecats become their only companion.
This is because if you don't have a thick perfect body or muscular shape no one cares about you. It's because love doesn't actually exist
I could go without a man in my life. I was a single mother for 9 years without a man around me. I kept busy, was happy. Now i am with someone and tbh wish i was single again.
hahahahaha...
We all know nothing is basically what I got from this mytake. True, but slightly depressing.
I agree, with this. I beleive guys do this as well.
If a Girl Says She Can Be Alone Forever, she is just making sure you understand that you will not be getting out of the friendzone.
Alone does not equal the same thing as being single. I know a lot of people in relationships who have told me that they feel alone.