@Nyx_85 You wrote: "If you don't want to be in the friendzone, just be forthcoming with your feelings no matter what the consequences are." My point is that you can be friendzoned whether you express your feelings or not. Your feelings are irrelevant. You can be friendzoned at ANY TIME FOR ANY REASON!
No you can't be friend zoned. It doesn't exist. If you choose to stay friends with someone you are romantically or sexually interested in that's your fault.
If there is a friend zone it's a term that people made up to deal with their feelings of being unwanted. It's easier to think she unfairly 'friend zoned' you then to accept that you just aren't desirable to her.
@Nyx_85 Bullshit! Guys are given the "I'm not interested in you romantically, but we can be friends" line all of the time. That designation has NOTHING to do with the guy or his feelings. If I guy is STUPID enough to stay around and take that shit, then that IS his fault. However, when a person friendzones you, they don't give a shit about your feelings. That is their decision... not the person being friendzoned... The problem with guys is that they keep hanging around!!!
They don't give a shit about your feelings... because they don't want to fuck you? Or because they don't just end things completely and stop all contact? Which one is it?
@Nyx_85 Yes, rejection is rejection. PERIOD. They don't give a shit about your feelings... because they don't give a shit about your feelings. They are setting the conditions and rules... not the person being zoned. It's up to the person being zoned as to how to respond. If a chick tells me that "I don't want to be romantically involved with you, but we can be friends." I have been given ONE choice. I have to either accept being friends... or move on. THOSE ARE THE CONDITIONS THAT SHE SET. I either ACCEPT IT or MOVE ON. This is not rocket science. If you go to a store to get something and the store doesn't have it, you simply go to another store. I'm not going to hang around waiting to see if the first store gets the item in stock. I would be an idiot hanging around waiting when all I have to do is go to another store. You zoned me. I don't want to be your friend. I wanted to be romantically involved with you. You made the decision to zone me. I'm out!
@Nyx_85 and the OO. FZ is when you already told her about your interest, she declined you and you still are friends with that person. In case of oo, you immediately quit fz after telling and then letting go, so you can say you never were in fz
But if someone tries to FZ you but you decline their offer of friendship doesn't the mean that no FZ actually occurred? Only the attempt at FZ-ing? I mean there has to be two willing participants doesn't there.
You're right. Even if you express your feelings, you could still remain in the friend zone, that's why the rest of my sentence, I said (CAPS for emphasis): "If you don't want to be in the friendzone, just be forthcoming with your feelings no matter what the consequences are. IF YOU CAN'T DEAL WIHT SOME OF THESE POTENTIAL CONSEQUENCES, JUST STAY AWAY"
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The place is here, the time is now in a town called perception... you've just entered the friend zone
Well written great take.
I like the quote
Not the one from Max, is it?
I like the question quote No one can friend zone you without your consent Im not sure if it was a quote but I like it
Oh! I see, you mean the title? It's the shorter version which was edited by G@G before it was promoted. It like how it turned out too.
I will never be a friend with women. Pussy is a must for me.
Of course. I thought this was obvious.
To you it might be obvious, but to many unfortunately it is not.
Yes, they can. Your permission is not required.
You CLEARLY don't get the point...
@Nyx_85 You wrote: "If you don't want to be in the friendzone, just be forthcoming with your feelings no matter what the consequences are." My point is that you can be friendzoned whether you express your feelings or not. Your feelings are irrelevant. You can be friendzoned at ANY TIME FOR ANY REASON!
I didn't write that...
No you can't be friend zoned. It doesn't exist. If you choose to stay friends with someone you are romantically or sexually interested in that's your fault.
If there is a friend zone it's a term that people made up to deal with their feelings of being unwanted. It's easier to think she unfairly 'friend zoned' you then to accept that you just aren't desirable to her.
@Nyx_85 Bullshit! Guys are given the "I'm not interested in you romantically, but we can be friends" line all of the time. That designation has NOTHING to do with the guy or his feelings. If I guy is STUPID enough to stay around and take that shit, then that IS his fault. However, when a person friendzones you, they don't give a shit about your feelings. That is their decision... not the person being friendzoned... The problem with guys is that they keep hanging around!!!
Rejection is rejection. The 'friend zone' won't even exist unless YOU accept it.
They don't give a shit about your feelings... because they don't want to fuck you? Or because they don't just end things completely and stop all contact? Which one is it?
@Nyx_85 Yes, rejection is rejection. PERIOD. They don't give a shit about your feelings... because they don't give a shit about your feelings. They are setting the conditions and rules... not the person being zoned. It's up to the person being zoned as to how to respond. If a chick tells me that "I don't want to be romantically involved with you, but we can be friends." I have been given ONE choice. I have to either accept being friends... or move on. THOSE ARE THE CONDITIONS THAT SHE SET. I either ACCEPT IT or MOVE ON. This is not rocket science. If you go to a store to get something and the store doesn't have it, you simply go to another store. I'm not going to hang around waiting to see if the first store gets the item in stock. I would be an idiot hanging around waiting when all I have to do is go to another store. You zoned me. I don't want to be your friend. I wanted to be romantically involved with you. You made the decision to zone me. I'm out!
@Nyx_85 and the OO.
FZ is when you already told her about your interest, she declined you and you still are friends with that person.
In case of oo, you immediately quit fz after telling and then letting go, so you can say you never were in fz
But if someone tries to FZ you but you decline their offer of friendship doesn't the mean that no FZ actually occurred? Only the attempt at FZ-ing? I mean there has to be two willing participants doesn't there.
@Nyx_85 lol, you compressed my para.
@lazermazer You just compressed your own para...
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graph.
Didn't really answer the question.
@Nyx_85 hahaha, that lame joke really made me smile, yes it was lame, lol
@lazermazer I'm a dad in disease.
OMG *DISGUISE
Damn you autocorrect.
@Nyx_85 and that tooo, lol
You're right. Even if you express your feelings, you could still remain in the friend zone, that's why the rest of my sentence, I said (CAPS for emphasis):
"If you don't want to be in the friendzone, just be forthcoming with your feelings no matter what the consequences are. IF YOU CAN'T DEAL WIHT SOME OF THESE POTENTIAL CONSEQUENCES, JUST STAY AWAY"
I don't think we're in disagreement here.
Oh my, I wound up there all by myself
Interesting...
Intresting outlook.
Thank you
Interesting
good topic