Do you, go at your own pace. Whatever makes you happy and what you want out of life.
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Sucker. :/
When guys tell you they love you or promise you the world, tell them "show me".
Listen to your friends if you too easily fall for guys.
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Still... in the end, one can only blame him/herself for the partners he/she chose. Some people "get swept away" by idle promises way too soon.
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I'm on total hiatus, I don't even date or flirt with guys
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If it makes you feel a little better im 0 for 9 in 32 years... and thats not cool to admit and well talk about in general. Hang in there, keep your head up as much as you can, your better then that ms.
If you want damnation, meaninglessness, false sense of power, maybe an STD, or to get pregnant with a trophy child. Morality and its need don't magically disappear or become irrelevant, just because some page fell off a calendar.
People are assholes mostly. im sorry to hear about that, Loyalty is very rare these days and a very expensive gift, you can't expect that from everyone
By being caring and affectionate? i don't think so. Sure no ones perfect but can say i am a loving girlfriend and no way brought this on. Maybe if i did anything wrong it was trusting them and getting attached to fast but apart from that..
What he's saying is its on you to either pick up on those red flags (although the family one seems stupid to be) or ignoring them. You decided to ignore them and got, what you got. That's where you were wrong.
That too but the other big issue is her ignoring those warning signs like allowing herself to be lied to (and lying to the others in order to get what they want), walked over, treating others like dirt etc... Not having a backbone on her own unlike the lady @RJGraveyTrain has.
@Unit1 I do have a backbone and do demand and need respect. But it can be hard when you're emotionally invested in someone to be just like byeeee, Life doesn't work like that anyone that thinks it does has not been in love.
Nein. I'm being dead serious. Ok. I may never had a relationship in my life and was not as invested in anyone but i would not begin a relationship in the first place if the other person seems no good. That means if she even gets upset about something as stupid as a Facebook like i gave to a random girl, then that's where i would avoid dating one.
@Unit1 It was months into it before lots of them changed so i'd never start a relationship with someone treating me bad? also you've had "zero" relationship experience so i don't really get your point. but all you've said is you think i'm a bitch and weak? i don't really get what you're trying to achieve because i don't care about your opinion anyway just more curious to what you're on about because you're making little sense.
First: I never said, that you're a weak bitch. I said, that you did not have the courage to break up with bad boyfriends. Just in other words.
Second: Learn to comprehend a bit better what i said instead of getting fired up.
Ja, love is blind but this is why i don't think, that someone should depend on somebody else so much. Because someone else will always decide for you regardless. I learned this from my parents relationship. But if you don't care about my opinion then i see no point in trying to help you.
@Unit1 "Because i LOVE women but i don't feel like going after bitches" sorry but since we were talking about me i'm obviously going to assume that was aimed at me. I'm not fired up i'm completely calm lol, but don't get what your point is you've had no relationship experience so nothing you could say would help me because i know more than you about the subject because i've had relationships not just observed and made assumptions.
Fair point princess. That's why i said i have zero experience with women and relationships. I'm trying to explain how i would go about that. But the main point I'm trying to establish is to be simply responsible. That's it. Own up your things and break up when you have to. I see you did it 4 times, so that's not an issue. But if things like him becoming cold, pulling away, lying in order to get what he wants, treating others bad and other such behavior then I'm saying its time to wake up and stand up and confront. No buts.
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I still think id like to be in one but other things are in more need of attention and they have to be right / on my wave length
Do you, go at your own pace. Whatever makes you happy and what you want out of life.
Sucker. :/
When guys tell you they love you or promise you the world, tell them "show me".
Listen to your friends if you too easily fall for guys.
Still... in the end, one can only blame him/herself for the partners he/she chose. Some people "get swept away" by idle promises way too soon.
I'm on total hiatus, I don't even date or flirt with guys
If it makes you feel a little better im 0 for 9 in 32 years... and thats not cool to admit and well talk about in general. Hang in there, keep your head up as much as you can, your better then that ms.
I don't like relationships after dating twice either. Bleh, I'll just get an arranged marriage once I grow up. I'm done with guys already.
wtf :O
@Politicial_dude what?
I feel your pain. I seem to be genuinely more committed to women.
Dont waste your youth, go for fuck buddy!.. you maybe emotionally trainwreck, but still physically good..
Omg i’m so there. So over the lazy communications and low effort
So this is why you didn't post in like forever. I'm sorry
It's 2017 and there's no point in being in a relationship with a guy. friends with benefits, one night stands are better than commitment.
If you want damnation, meaninglessness, false sense of power, maybe an STD, or to get pregnant with a trophy child. Morality and its need don't magically disappear or become irrelevant, just because some page fell off a calendar.
There is no sense of power. Damnation and meaninglessness don't occur because I don't care. The rest? YOLO
That's the first time I read a mytake. It was really good.
Wish there was an option to delete
I had same experience. I am lesbian now and found a girl that ❤️ me for who i am 😍
I’m sorry this happened to you. Stay strong
I'm very sorry this has happened to you!
Sorry to hear about that.
Nice take by the way
People are assholes mostly. im sorry to hear about that, Loyalty is very rare these days and a very expensive gift, you can't expect that from everyone
I agree with you decent guy.
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*brofists* 👊
I enjoyed reading this myTake
If 6 people dumped you either you choose very bad, or the constant is you.
Time to be honest, and learn.
i wasn't dumped by 6 people, i've had 6 boyfriends i left 4 of them.
but they changed and started treating me bad.
It's like you got a job and you got mistreated or fired. It could happen once, but the sixth time cannot be an accident.
So you're suggesting its me or something else?
The way you behave somehow is creating the circumstance.
By being caring and affectionate? i don't think so.
Sure no ones perfect but can say i am a loving girlfriend and no way brought this on.
Maybe if i did anything wrong it was trusting them and getting attached to fast but apart from that..
Being caring an affectionate is good, so that's not the problem.
What he's saying is its on you to either pick up on those red flags (although the family one seems stupid to be) or ignoring them. You decided to ignore them and got, what you got. That's where you were wrong.
@Unit1 I don't know, it's really up to her to figure it out.
Likely simply you are letting people to walk all over you.
That too but the other big issue is her ignoring those warning signs like allowing herself to be lied to (and lying to the others in order to get what they want), walked over, treating others like dirt etc... Not having a backbone on her own unlike the lady @RJGraveyTrain has.
@Unit1 Yeah, but can happen the opposite. If you look at those signs constantly probably you will always find reasons for not being with someone.
https://youtu.be/vJG698U2Mvo
@Unit1 I do have a backbone and do demand and need respect.
But it can be hard when you're emotionally invested in someone to be just like byeeee,
Life doesn't work like that anyone that thinks it does has not been in love.
Yeah, ok. I'm not believing that tho.
@Unit1 Why?
Because i LOVE women but i don't feel like going after bitches, who are no good for me.
@Unit1 Are you trolling? i don't even know what the hell you're on about.
Nein. I'm being dead serious.
Ok. I may never had a relationship in my life and was not as invested in anyone but i would not begin a relationship in the first place if the other person seems no good. That means if she even gets upset about something as stupid as a Facebook like i gave to a random girl, then that's where i would avoid dating one.
@Unit1 It was months into it before lots of them changed so i'd never start a relationship with someone treating me bad? also you've had "zero" relationship experience so i don't really get your point. but all you've said is you think i'm a bitch and weak? i don't really get what you're trying to achieve because i don't care about your opinion anyway just more curious to what you're on about because you're making little sense.
First: I never said, that you're a weak bitch.
I said, that you did not have the courage to break up with bad boyfriends. Just in other words.
Second: Learn to comprehend a bit better what i said instead of getting fired up.
Ja, love is blind but this is why i don't think, that someone should depend on somebody else so much. Because someone else will always decide for you regardless. I learned this from my parents relationship.
But if you don't care about my opinion then i see no point in trying to help you.
Depending so much, that your mood, day and everything is in charge on whoever you are depending on. It's a recipe for eternal misery.
@Unit1 "Because i LOVE women but i don't feel like going after bitches" sorry but since we were talking about me i'm obviously going to assume that was aimed at me.
I'm not fired up i'm completely calm lol, but don't get what your point is you've had no relationship experience so nothing you could say would help me because i know more than you about the subject because i've had relationships not just observed and made assumptions.
Fair point princess.
That's why i said i have zero experience with women and relationships. I'm trying to explain how i would go about that.
But the main point I'm trying to establish is to be simply responsible. That's it. Own up your things and break up when you have to. I see you did it 4 times, so that's not an issue.
But if things like him becoming cold, pulling away, lying in order to get what he wants, treating others bad and other such behavior then I'm saying its time to wake up and stand up and confront. No buts.