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"Remember, you don’t have to go all the way." Why bother being a bad boy at all? Focus on studying, constant more regular sex comes later in life.
won't come regular sex into your life if you don't do something about it.
beside that life isn't all about sex.
if you want to attract a woman who has the trait of being confident, independent and smart, these are some ways to get her attention.
i never cared about the guys who call themselves the "nice one" cos they're boring, lack of confidence and they don't bring me to life. they don't have an effect on me, they don't give me a life change, a difference from my daily routine.
no, it`s not all about sex but this post is
rofl. if this post is about sex, then you have some serious reading & understanding skill problem lol 😂
Goodtake. All true.
That tinder chick has it down lmao
@Tony_1693 There are some fat ugly studs... if they are rich and famous af lmao, but yeah she's right
I actually do a little more than half these things. So I guess I'm a hybrid. There are times I am The nice guy But other times I am the bad boy.
Or you're just a normal person who doesn't fit entirely into one box? Lol.
@Kkaos exactly.
Even if i stay as a forever alone, i want to stay as a nice guy. I don't want to change myself for a stupid who prefers a guy who will make her sad in long term instead of a guy who will give her peaceful in a long term.
the above things fits for nice guy. nothing written above changes you an asshole.
don't get me wrong i am not talking about never saying no or being led by a girl but i don't like putting myself first. i tend to treat a female like she is my queen and putting herself first. that's my character and , it is out of my control.
you can always find a woman who likes that, that you put yourself under her. question is, how they'd treat you in the long term?
but this behavior isn't for a confident woman who wants an equal partner and not someone who serves her. for me, a guy, who tries to make me feel as if i were a superior queen to him, is nothing - i couldn't respect him. and there's no relationship without respect. i wouldn't feel you masculine. that's my big red flag.
why don't you respect a guy who values you too much?
cos it makes me think he finds himself worthless at some point. what is totally unattractive.
my man values me a lot. tells me I'm cute and smart and funny. he's totally head over heels that I'm a good chef. but he says and shows me that he's really happy n feels lucky with me on a normal lvl and not with a blind adoration.
Look i am not talking about being someone's slave but you said put yourself first, i am not that kind of person because if i put myself first, i'd feel myself as an arrogant man and i would hate being the arrogant in her eyes. I just want to respect my partner put herself above with me. I am that kind of person.
i see what you mean! in this case, this "put yourself first" doesn't means you get everything n leave nothing to your woman - to give you an extreme.
it means don't forget to care about yourself, your needs are just as important when you were single.
it's the same when the woman just starts to live for the guy & the relationship n stops to go out have fun with her friends, as example.
I understood what you said If a woman disrespects me, i wouldn't like it but i am kind of man who enjoys pampering a female by giving her compliments, flowers e. t. c. if i find her attractive and i don't like forgetting her and always focus on my desires like a selfish person. I also enjoy caring about her wantings, problems e. t. c. i enjoy making her happy too. I just dont want to be a selfish person. Do you think these features are turnoffs?
But of course i want to care about myself too. That doesn't mean i will forget myself. I just want to love passionately and being loved passionately
looks like your earlier message gave a different view of what you really wanted to say. but giving gifts to your girlfriend and give her attention doesn't means you handle her like princess. it just means you're in a normal healthy relationship.
the treating like a princess is, that you let her use you, you jump for every wish, accept her nagging you about bs, etc. in my dictionary it means these.
my man does the things for me what you just described. but it doesn't makes me feel treated like a royalty. it makes me think, omg i have a really great man next to me.
Ok i think we misunderstood each other a little bit. by the way you sounds like a very clever woman, your man is lucky to have you:)) ( i enjoy giving that kind of compliments:)
I agree with this conversation and it clarifies a lot.
ty 😁 i heard it a few times here. you know there's no problem with a honest comment.
Yw, yeah you are an intelligent woman so it is normal i am not the only man who said this to you here;) are you a psychologist? According to your profile you studied psychology and your comments sound like a psychologist's comments so i wanted to ask this.
You forgot the part about when they get bored with fucking you they move on to fucking someone else (while maybe still fucking you) without a second thought.
rofl you can do that whatever what's your personality. it's not about fukboi guide.
believe me, a smart woman can see your only for fuk intentions and sends you home before you get into her bed.
Wrongo. Because he doesn't necessarily have only for fuck intentions. He's passionate, remember? Until someone else comes along he wants to fuck more, which is going to happen because he's a bad boy and follows his own whims. And smart women can be quite naive.
I'd call them more of savage than bad. I'm into nice guys but a little bit of savagery is always great. No harm if he isn't though.
@LunaJ It did take a whilw to read the entire take 😂 but was worth it. I find it well written and very informative and accurate. ☺
this is bull, i got 10/14 and I'm no badboy because I'm a goodboy
you didn't understand it's about how the guys who don't get attention could get it from women.
it's not about to go villain, or the dude who sells drug on the corner.
This is a really really immature take. Surprised the writer is older than me
immature. being confident is immature. you made my day lol 😂
That's got nothing to do with being a bad boy at all lol.
it's about what attracts women. I'm getting bored how many guy says "oh it's not bad boy" i pointed out it's a mindset what women like. and yes, the typical bad boy in books, movies, looks like this
it's about what attracts women.
Then title your mytake appropriately, FYI again bad boys in real life are nothing like that I should know I was in a school full of them and they're not even like that in the movies.
you have to create a title what hits it off at the start. whatever how great your text is, if the title not makes it look interesting, you won't get many reader.
i gonna quote you "it's about what attracts women." here's my title: Traits Women Love
its not about real bad boys, you know it well, its about why women are into that fictional / imaginary character.
Uh huh.
Most women just have bad taste in men. Bad boys get rewarded with lots of sex just for being confident, yet if a really nice genuine guy lacks confidence women will brush him off. Women are the problem, not nice guys.
you are the problem cos you can't work on your personality, all you can do to blame others for your problem.
nope refusing to admit your the problem i for one changed who i was for me i dont see women doing that but thats the point women want men to bend to what they want without doing a damn thing about themselfs
@troychapman - you really meet the no brain low quality women then. that's all i can say.
i dont think so everyone has their strengths and weaknesses i wouldn't say they are stupid just different to what your describing
@troychapman you just said they're unable to change or at least notice their bad trait. what comes to conclusion that they're stupid
meet the no brain low quality women then your words not mine
No this is spot on. Thanks for sharing.
thanks for finding it useful 😊
Fuck off, I am not being some persona just to turn you on, I'd rather be myself
yeah you're totally yourself without a normal personality and unique opinion. good job, you're welcomed in the asshole group with this comment
Yea whatever. At least my "normal personality" is honest instead of a face I wear
you're just a disrespectful asshole. you don't even understand what this article says. enjoy to stay alone cos your behavior will not be accepted by any normal person
Ha! Ok miss I have a kid but probably has no significant other in the picture. Would you prefer "I respectfully disagree, I'd rather be myself."?
This has nothing to do with "being a bad boy". It's just being a person.
a person women find interesting in a long term.
Yes. But it's genderless. I define bad as criminal or at the very least inhuman behaviour.
When people, men or women, say that I'm a good guy, I take it as a compliment.
Bad boys aren't about "Long Term" though. This guy is right, these are "confident guy" traits. You like confident guys and that's fine.
Dating a "bad boy" is fun and it's exciting, but if you're going in for that, you're also going in for being woken up a 4am by his place being raided, the constant calls that he's been arrested, the news that he's beaten this guy up, that guy up, burned down that building. Wondering if he's going make home in one piece when he's out (whenever one of my ex's friends used to call me, my first thought was to hope he was still alive) wondering if he's ever cheated on you...
There is a huge difference between a confident guy and a bad boy. There isn't really a "legal" way to be a bad boy.
@AperolSpritz First at all, I'm very surprised about your nickname, I thought only here was drunk.
Second, I agree with pretty much anything you said. I would never date a woman known for being mean or an assohole.
Haha- It's a way of life:)
I don't see the appeal in dating an asshole either. Some people might see it as a challenge, but there's nothing appealing about someone being a douche.
That's one of those really big misconceptions about bad boys/girls... that they're bastards or bitches through and through when that's actually not true. Get them behind closed doors and there's a whole 'nother side to them. That's part of the appeal - that they're really charming as people.
Some of the best people I've known haven't had the best track record lifestyle-wise.
My relationship with my ex was really unstable I barely knew what was what from one day to the next, but he's my eldest daughter's dad and he's a great dad, anyone who saw him with her wouldn't think he got up to half the stuff he does. He's a great guy to know, he just does dangerous stuff... A lot of people are like that.
4 and 6 are what I resent the most but oh well, i'm sure women hate and resent many things about guys that they can't change or control as well, there are times I hate having a penis
Basically nice guys have low self esteem. Actually no one likes people with low self esteem, girls or guys.
Why aren't all the pussies flocking to me yet then?
Because this woman as every other has no idea what she is talking about. A fish can't teach you fishing.
@ManUnbound Exactly.
i tell you why lol 😂 cos both of you is just a disrespectful asshole 😂
LunaJ If we were a disrespectful asshole we'd be flocking with women. Ex wife is now with an ex convict. Not surprised.
As for what he said, you completely didn't understand it. It was sarcasm. We don't care to attract women. He was merely mocking you. Thirsty blue pill men might want to be validated by women, but for the stage of consciousness i am now, that's only a sign of weakness.
So like say no for the sake of saying no? Like what if i actually agree with her, should i just say i don't?
its not that. you know, some people can't say no when they actually feel like to. i e, you're at work, college asks you to do something instead of him, when your shift is just about to end. you had plans for after work. you want to reject it, but you're just unable, you feel like that'd lead to a conflict.
I think you're throwing me off, but it sounds like you're saying i should ditch work and school to hang out when asked.
nope man 😁 i don't know how you came to that conclusion xD
you asked about saying no.
you never met those type of people who're unable to stand up for themselves n always doing what others tell them?
and i said in my example, you had a previously arranged program.
I'm 14/14 and still am a nice guy. This has ZERO to do with being a bad boy.
it's about what attracts most of the women.
it's not about those guys who are selling drugs on the corner. those are just humans not to value.
term bad boy is used in many cases.
this list not makes anyone asshole, abusive etc but points out that confidence, self esteem, honesty and respect is the key
@LunaJ
Well I guess we all got different interpretations when it comes down to the term 'bad boy'.
that's totally possible. 😁
but here 1) the word "bad boy" was used as a marketing/journalist trick , it partially covers the bad boy image you can see in books, movies. as someone mentioned, Damon from TWD.
So 12 out of 14 is me... is that why they like me huh? Interesting.