How To Be A Bad Boy: Wild And "Legal" Bad Traits Women Love (Page 3)

[dontknow12]

So basically you're describing a guy who's confident in himself. That's what I got from reading this.

[Helena26]

Yes girls like a guy who is confident and looks like he can kick some ass and protect her. its really not about girls loving bad boys. We don't like them because they are bad. We like them because we mistake their bad behaviors for strength and ability to protect us

[dontknow12]

@Helena26 Yeah but if you really want a strong guy who can kick someone's ass then you need to find a guy who actually can rather than someone who just looks like they can. Trust me I see these big strong guys get taken out all the time because they never learned how to fight the right way.

[Helena26]

U r right, but many girls are very shallow they judge the book by its cover and when they found out about how much of a jerk this bad boy usually they are already in trouble

[dontknow12]

@Helena26 How do so many of you fall for this guy at first? Is he usually nice in the beginning or something?

[Helena26]

Yes none of these guys ever would pick up a girl while acting like a jerk when he meets the girl he will treat her so nice. But he can't hide his true self for too long. But when he starts to show His true self the girl is already blinded by love and will start to ignore a lot of the red flags. Many of those guys are players too and knew a lot of girls so they know how to sweep a girl off here feet in the beginning they are real predators good at hunting and alluring a prey.

[Helena26]

And same as guys, girls are really weak when it comes to sex. they can give up a lot of their dignity for a guy who is good in bed. So the bad guy usually control the girl this way. They are usually good in bed again because they are players (think of the character Christian in 50 shades of grey despite his fucked up personality Anna liked him because he was good at sex) and therefore the novel is so popular among women

[dontknow12]

@Helena26 Has this happened to you before?

[Helena26]

A lot :( unfortunately I don't learn a lesson and every time I get fooled. But maybe because I am very shy and those guys are most of the times the type of guys that approach me. Without me doing any effort to impress or seduce. They have no problem with worrying about talking with a girl and no fear of rejection and they wouldn't show me they Care if I am shy or not popular. They make me think that whatever I am he wants me.

[dontknow12]

@Helena26 Yeah that's the thing. I see a lot of women claim that deep down inside they want that nice shy guy to have the confidence to approach them but of course they almost never do. So it seems like the only guys who approach women are assholes.

[Helena26]

True, nice guys wait a lot before they make the first move. Most of the time because its important decision for them as they are more serious about the girl, while they are still thinking the bad guy would have already made the move. And they are very shy they avoid giving attention to the girl , not good at first impression despite they can be amazing people. while the bad guy lavish her with attention and compliments. No girl ever hate to be with a nice guy. as we don't want to be with a guy that abuse and hurt us. Its just the matter of what's available for us at the time we were waiting

[dontknow12]

@Helena26 Yeah nice guys do take a long time to make a move. It's that fear of rejection that they're sensitive to.

[PrettyKitty31]

Nailed it! This is exactly what women mean.

[ArabianPwincess197]

Lol not all women look for bad boy traits

[LunaJ]

and who said all does?
a confident woman who's independent, does.

[freakyzeaky]

Don't confuse confidence with boorish.

[ManUnbound]

@freakyzeaky she can't even tell Lisbon from lesbian.

[BMW12]

THE BEST THING I HAVE EVER READ ON MY LIFE

[LunaJ]

i appreciate that you found it useful 😊

[es20490446e]

Basically self respect.

[Jayson101]

I am a bad ass already I didn't need this advice

[timidmale]

I don't have the confidence to approach women.

[yulbsari]

Interesting take...

[disgustingweebtrash]

Thank you

[castratedwhiteguy]

Good advice!

[Decentguy]

Nice take !

[Sabretooth]

it's a facade

[Sabretooth]

you stand up to to em... well, best not do so on a clean floor-heh!

[Tohru]

No thanks