It's great that you've realised it so you now know how you could improve your chances of getting a lady (which I'm sure you will!). Hopefully other men can get themselves out of the whole they've dug for themselves and come to the same realisation. :)
Yep, you are right, no one owe anyone but his mother and father anything, so if you are a forever alone you have two paths to go:1-Give up and stay the same way,2- Identify the points in which you are lacking and try your best to improve on them by as much as you possible can at the moment, and improve even more on them in the future if you can.
You sound like you have very little self-respect. You will never see a girl chiding other girls for wanting good things in their lives. Even fat girls want good things in their lives and feel like they deserve to have them. Get some self-esteem before you tell other people what they are able to get in life.
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Nice take dude! Finally another guy to relate to that gets it! Now another thing to keep in mind, it can be difficult to be this enlightened. Many women dont praise but actually roll their eyes at this sort of thing. So not to be negative here, but do not ever forget that men and women should EQUAL. That means pushing for equality, yet calling out BOTH on issues.
Thank you for this. So insightful and well written. I applaud you for your capability to self-reflect like that at your young age. Not many people do that.
Well, I don't agree with that. I think he should do what makes him happy, not what he thinks will make women happy. If he does what makes him happy, then others will come to him.
Doing what you think will make others happy is just setting yourself up for a non stop cycle of trying to make others happy, and they will always want more, and it will be impossible for him to ever succeed at that task.
The paragraph starting I'm still a virgin. The whole thing is about him trying to make others happy. And the one before that is exactly the same. This is nothing more than him trying to make women happy, so that he can be happy. And the thing is he will never succeed at that, unless he is happy and loves himself, only then will others be able to love him.
I might be reading too much into it, but don't think so. I still see him not happy with his life. So, he's changing in the hopes that he makes others happy, and they in turn will make him happy.
I don't think he will ever be happy, until he makes himself happy.
@martinxcv Unsurprisingly many of you did, but many (guys) also appreciated his words. So my expectations were actually exceeded. I'm glad to see that even on a site as full of negativity and bitterness as GaG there are still many people with a positive attitude.
You accepting it is not surprising is progress and it is not going change, mainly get worse regardless of the amount of brainwashing and grooming by femiextremists. The only way it will change is with a major shift in attitude by women towards men or certain types of men.
An excellent, soul-searching take and one that needs to be heard by more than one fellow on GAG, judging from the negative questions regularly asked. I wish you the very best for finding a woman who enriches your life. ~JSmith
This is brilliant! Well done for speaking about it and realising all those things by yourself. Your positivity and attitude now is great, I do think it's both men and women too, we all come In different shapes and sizes :)
White knight mode only attracts internet likes. Unfortunately in the outside world things work quite differently.
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Good luck and I wish you well on your journey
Post Note: I found myself angry after a divorce and knew it would not serve me well. It's better to deal with our own stuff separate from others and then release it.
"Before I begin let me tell you a little about myself; I am a 23, 6’, 300lbs man who has never been on a date with a girl let alone have a relationship or sex." amoretalks.files.wordpress.com/.../...spicious.jpg
Dude are you out of your mind? Dont you have any self respect? No one has to "hate women". But putting your balls in a box and handing it over to women is also not something you should do. You should see things as they are.
Thats good that you realized this sooner than later. If you're just genuinely nice, you will notice the difference in how people treat you. Always remember, women aren't objects or this weird different species, they are humans.
If you just really realize that relationship needs more than sex, and companionship. I could give sex and sit next to a guy every night and still not be happy. I need to value the time together and really appreciate the person for just being... and love requires more than what you can get in a relationship but what can you give and are you willing to suffer for it?
Good job working on improving yourself. Do it for yourself though, not women. But also do it in hopes you find a woman, if thats what you want.
I am bitter, and divorced, however I dont think anyone owes me anything. On the contrary, I don't want anything from anyone. Thats because I don't trust a single thing, or person, and feel almost gullible that I actually thought there was a moral woman in my arms. Boy was I wrong! I am slowly moving on though.
I've never been one to blame women as a group for me being lonely and bitter but I've tried the positive attitude thing and it didn't work out for me. In all fairness I'm now of the frame of mind that there must be something fundamentally wrong with my personality.
Wimmin are lesbos anyway... nyah !! Seriously though , bitter = caustic , it will eat away at you over time !! I'm a single , FT working , dad and accept that my situation will keep me single , my children will always be first.
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It's great that you've realised it so you now know how you could improve your chances of getting a lady (which I'm sure you will!). Hopefully other men can get themselves out of the whole they've dug for themselves and come to the same realisation. :)
Yep, you are right, no one owe anyone but his mother and father anything, so if you are a forever alone you have two paths to go:1-Give up and stay the same way,2- Identify the points in which you are lacking and try your best to improve on them by as much as you possible can at the moment, and improve even more on them in the future if you can.
You sound like you have very little self-respect. You will never see a girl chiding other girls for wanting good things in their lives. Even fat girls want good things in their lives and feel like they deserve to have them. Get some self-esteem before you tell other people what they are able to get in life.
Nice take dude! Finally another guy to relate to that gets it! Now another thing to keep in mind, it can be difficult to be this enlightened. Many women dont praise but actually roll their eyes at this sort of thing. So not to be negative here, but do not ever forget that men and women should EQUAL. That means pushing for equality, yet calling out BOTH on issues.
Thanks it was a very nice opinion and hope you can find your special someone soon. I am sure there will be one waiting
Thank you for this. So insightful and well written. I applaud you for your capability to self-reflect like that at your young age. Not many people do that.
Let's hope many men will read this.
They are reading it, and yeah, not seeing it the same way he is.
@Landshrk0068 No surprises there. But if it manages to open only one guy's eyes, it's a success.
Well, I don't agree with that. I think he should do what makes him happy, not what he thinks will make women happy. If he does what makes him happy, then others will come to him.
Doing what you think will make others happy is just setting yourself up for a non stop cycle of trying to make others happy, and they will always want more, and it will be impossible for him to ever succeed at that task.
@Landshrk0068 I agree, but I don't see where he's doing that.
Then I guess we are reading it differently. But that's okay, everyone will have their own option.
@Landshrk0068 Can you point out some specific things he said that made you think so?
The paragraph starting I'm still a virgin. The whole thing is about him trying to make others happy. And the one before that is exactly the same. This is nothing more than him trying to make women happy, so that he can be happy. And the thing is he will never succeed at that, unless he is happy and loves himself, only then will others be able to love him.
@Landshrk0068 Hm. I couldn't find a single sentence in there saying so.
I might be reading too much into it, but don't think so. I still see him not happy with his life. So, he's changing in the hopes that he makes others happy, and they in turn will make him happy.
I don't think he will ever be happy, until he makes himself happy.
@Landshrk0068 I see what you mean. It reminds me of guys that workout just to attract women, as opposed to doing for themselves as a primary reason.
@Truthatanycost Yeah, that's what I was trying to point out, I guess I just didn't explain it well.
Oh we did and duly mocked ridiculed his appeasing and arse licking. And neurophobis
@martinxcv Unsurprisingly many of you did, but many (guys) also appreciated his words. So my expectations were actually exceeded. I'm glad to see that even on a site as full of negativity and bitterness as GaG there are still many people with a positive attitude.
You accepting it is not surprising is progress and it is not going change, mainly get worse regardless of the amount of brainwashing and grooming by femiextremists. The only way it will change is with a major shift in attitude by women towards men or certain types of men.
@martinxcv I have no idea what your gibberish was supposed to say. Anyway, it's funny to see so many triggered butthurt meninazis. :D
An excellent, soul-searching take and one that needs to be heard by more than one fellow on GAG, judging from the negative questions regularly asked.
I wish you the very best for finding a woman who enriches your life.
~JSmith
This is brilliant! Well done for speaking about it and realising all those things by yourself. Your positivity and attitude now is great, I do think it's both men and women too, we all come In different shapes and sizes :)
White knight mode only attracts internet likes. Unfortunately in the outside world things work quite differently.
Good luck and I wish you well on your journey
Post Note: I found myself angry after a divorce and knew it would not serve me well. It's better to deal with our own stuff separate from others and then release it.
"Before I begin let me tell you a little about myself; I am a 23, 6’, 300lbs man who has never been on a date with a girl let alone have a relationship or sex."
amoretalks.files.wordpress.com/.../...spicious.jpg
To All the Bitter and Lonely Women Out There: Nobody Owes You a Thing!
No one owes anyone anything.
@Aemiliaaurinko You got that right.
Dude are you out of your mind? Dont you have any self respect?
No one has to "hate women". But putting your balls in a box and handing it over to women is also not something you should do.
You should see things as they are.
Thats good that you realized this sooner than later. If you're just genuinely nice, you will notice the difference in how people treat you. Always remember, women aren't objects or this weird different species, they are humans.
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If you just really realize that relationship needs more than sex, and companionship. I could give sex and sit next to a guy every night and still not be happy. I need to value the time together and really appreciate the person for just being... and love requires more than what you can get in a relationship but what can you give and are you willing to suffer for it?
Who else grabbed some popcorn as soon as she/he saw the title? 😂😂
*reads opinions from bitter guys while eating popcorn*
I didn't. I corrected and pointed to the horizon.
Me! I am actually munching some cookies here. Cheesecake too. You want some?
@desidoll Yeah sure! thanks :)
'reads opinions from femiextremists drooling at the mouth at this pathetic piece of feminist appeasing and arse licking.
Good job working on improving yourself. Do it for yourself though, not women. But also do it in hopes you find a woman, if thats what you want.
I am bitter, and divorced, however I dont think anyone owes me anything. On the contrary, I don't want anything from anyone. Thats because I don't trust a single thing, or person, and feel almost gullible that I actually thought there was a moral woman in my arms. Boy was I wrong! I am slowly moving on though.
I've never been one to blame women as a group for me being lonely and bitter but I've tried the positive attitude thing and it didn't work out for me. In all fairness I'm now of the frame of mind that there must be something fundamentally wrong with my personality.
Are you looking for serious relationship that would lead into marriage?
Serious relationship yes though I'm not bothered about marriage since the important bits need sorting before hand.
Wimmin are lesbos anyway... nyah !! Seriously though , bitter = caustic , it will eat away at you over time !! I'm a single , FT working , dad and accept that my situation will keep me single , my children will always be first.
I'm single and looking for serious relationship that would lead into marriage..., are you on hangout or WhatsApp?