Never settle for less than what you deserve-NEVER!

Grneyedjenn
Never settle for less than what you deserve-NEVER!

I was being naive. Before I even met this guy who I spoke to on the phone online he was acting shady. My texts would get not get returned, then he would text me a day or more later telling me he was having issues in his apartment and he’s been “meaning to contact me” I believed that but it was bs because if something is important to you, you will make it happen! No excuses.

I didn't want a texting buddy so I was just going to cut him loose but then he was eager to meet me. Again, I was naive because we didn’t go on a real date. Issue in his apartment he couldn’t leave but yet he was out with his friend earlier. We connected or rather he made it seem that way and we jumped into what I thought was a relationship. It wasn’t. I would go from spending Twice a week with him, to once a week, to him not planning ahead when he would see me and I quickly saw that this so called relationship was BS. My texts wouldn’t get a response at times for hours, my phone calls would most go unanswered whereas the first week he would pick up every single one. We would make tentative plans and he wouldn’t follow up and would text the next day, he would say he will call and never did.

One night he was drunk and we were on the phone. He exoected me to jump up and go see him. When I wouldn’t he was like fine, but as the night progressed he kept texting me and asking me same thing and then got disrespectful. I was supposed to see him the following day, but he gave some BS work excuse. I of course knew he was lying. He NEVER works late. So I called him out on his behavior, and disrespect toward me and brought up the fact that he never wants to take me out. He says some BS about how he shared his bed with me-like that’s something special lol.

First, he said I was being nasty (I wasn’t! I was just being direct and expressing my feelings) then he tells me to lose his number and have a nice life! I wanted to talk about it on the phone but he didn’t pick up my call. Texts me that he’s with his boss and will call me tonight which he didn’t.

Then I get these texts that he is ambitious and busy going after his dreams for his future family and children can have a good lifestyle and that his relationship might have to take a backseat. He’s 45 and chasing a pipe dream now. I think it’s a load of crap if you ask me!

I attenpted one one last time to talk to him and he replied to my texts but again no follow up. I am going no contact. If and when he asks to hang out? Kicking him to the curb! I’m sure one night when he’s lonely and has a need to fulfill he will, but I won’t degrade myself!

Never settle for less than what you deserve-NEVER!
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