It's me again.
Lately, I don't know why, I've gotten many messages mostly from females asking me how to be confident and careless like I am.
First of all I want to say that I really thank all of you for the compliments on my behaviour, I never expected that people in this site would actually appriciate an attitude like that especially considering how much hate I've received in the past.
But now to answer your question, there isn't a guide on how to be confident.
What I've understood in my 16 almost 17 years of life is that people will hate no matter what.
No matter what you do or how you behave or how you look , there will always be someone or some people that will hate you and try to make you feel bad for what you are.
And sadly there isn't really a way to avoid that.
If you believe to yourself then you will be called by some 'overly-confident', 'arrogant', 'attention-whore'.
If you don't believe to yourself then you will be called by some a 'looser', 'pathetic', 'weak'
If you like how you look or who you are then you will be called by others 'too full of yourself' , 'irritating'
if you don't like how you look or who you are then you will be called by others 'annoying' , 'failure' ----
---My point is that you can't have the best of both worlds.
I wish I could be a Chameleon so I could change and fit in every situation and make everyone happy, but that is impossible...
Though even if it was possible people would call me two faced..
I hope you see my point.
Why this whole thing happens though?
I don't really know...
I guess people tend to hate on others so easily because it takes the minds off their personal problems or they just dislike others that have accepeted themselves because they are jealous of them.
Either way, you do you.
You can't satisfy everyone and believe me it's really tiring to even try to achieve that.
And since people will judge you anyway, why don't you be just yourself?
Have fun and be who you want to be.
After all, as every and each one of you who remembers 2010 tumblr kids and what they used to say...Be yourself cause everyone else is already taken.
They complimented me for my careless
That's it for today babydolls.
Till next time, stay sassy.