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Why Are Guys Jerks? Why Do Girls Only Date Jerks? (Page 2)
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We don't only date jerks. You just label every guy we date who isn't you a jerk to justify your dating failures.
The evidence to the contrary is pretty strong
@villageidiot I agree with you. I've seen it in my own country.
I don't think you really read what he wrote. Or at least comprehend it.
No one goes willingly to bad boys. They were all nice at the start. The niceness was never real in some cases.
@Warmapplecrumble In my country, some do, or so it seems. The most attractive guys here seem to be the roughest, while the nice guys and the Christians seem to be the least popular.
@Dchrls78104 some bad boys might be nice in the house and pretend to be bad outside so no one messes with them.
Some good boys might be bad in the house and are nice so people think they are nice people.
We don't know what happens behind closed doors. But I've seen things I shouldn't have.
@Warmapplecrumble True, but some girls knowingly go with such jerks, thinking they could change the jerk by being with him or even (I've read about this one) by having a child with him.
@Dchrls78104 yeah my mum did that. She realised he didn't change. I got hurt in the process.. no one cared.
@Warmapplecrumble In my country many girls do this. The guy may promise or flash lots of money, which is attractive to the girl. Then the guy gets shot to death and the girl is left with only a child to take care of, to show for all her trouble.
@Dchrls78104 in my case... they both cheated.
And had me.
Then resent me become I am a reminder of what they could have had if they didn't cheat.
._.
Dad cheated on step mum because he was bad boy and my mum liked the attention, and holidays and god knows what else.
@Warmapplecrumble Which brings us to the main reason girls go for bad dudes: selfishness, with a dash of stupidity. In my country the sons tend to grow up without positive role models or values, copy their fathers' ways, and end up similarly. Many don't expect to live past age 25.
@Dchrls78104 its horrible. I wish to break cycle. Lets hope I didn't choose a man that represents my dad.
@Warmapplecrumble I hope so too.
I would never choose a girl like that, either.
@Dchrls78104 if there is a god I hope... he makes sure at least I break the cycle :I for the future of my DNA
@Warmapplecrumble Oh, there is a God. He can help you find a guy worth worth your time, who is different from those you seem to have known.
I still await a girl worth my time; I am different from aforementioned guys.
@Dchrls78104 well I seem to have given up on God *-* ..
@Warmapplecrumble I haven't. He has saved me from many heartbreaks and unhealthy relationships which could even have been fatal for me.
@Dchrls78104 I was born into it the heartache... maybe I am child of devil lol
@Warmapplecrumble
1. Before Jesus was born, his mother's fiance, Joseph, threatened to end their relationship because he thought that she had cheated on him and become pregnant. God Himself sent an angel to Joseph to straighten the matter out, and Joseph and Mary married. You know the the rest of the story.
2. Dave Thomas the founder of Wendy's was an adopted child.
3. Woody Harrelson's father was a career criminal and murderer who was seldom around in his son's life.
These persons overcame the handicaps of their birth and upbringing, and so can you. You are not a child of the devil, you are a beautiful, precious child of God. He will judge all wicked persons.
@Dchrls78104 thanks :)
Wanna bet?
Supposedly nice guys finish last, I'm an older guy, and I'm also judgmental, so I am very specific in the types of girls I like, I'de like to believe I'm a good guy, but I am not always nice. I'm very different to my partners than say a stranger.
Why do the good guys go after the “bad bitches” and girls with no personality?
That should answer your question.
Because they like the "excitement" the bad person brings. The good person does not provide such and is "boring".
@Dchrls78104 Yes that is true... for the dimm witted!
@Dchrls78104 The same can be said for girls who go after the "jerks". I myself don't like bad guys. I like good-quality guys. Good guys, just like good girls, can still be exciting. In fact, I find more excitement from being with a guy who has his life together, is a gentleman, traditional romantic, goes out of his way to make me happy and makes me a priority than being with a "bad guy" with a long criminal record, has no goals/aspirations, has no manners, is disloyal, probably has at least one STD, looks ghetto and trashy, etc.
@OpinionOwner You seem to be a rarity. The "bad bitches" I have seen to be more common. They are generally of a silly, foppish, and puerile mindset. I consider myself too old for them. Fortunately, they don't want guys like me anyway. I am one guy who doesn't need the kind of "excitement" or anything else that these have to offer. Peace and quiet are more valuable to me than glitz and glamour, lots of money, or a beauty queen.
"What we can see is temporary.
What we can't see lasts forever."
I trully believe that guys are shallow jerks that are only interested in looks...
They all want to date someone better looking than them. Even overweight guys
Wauw, you didn't comprehend one thing in the whole take.
You might want to reread what he wrote.
it's funny how 2 girls upvoted my answer and 3 guys downvoted it.. Of course guys always defend each other lmao
@villageidiot he may be right but there are very few "nice guys" actually nowadays. Most guys all they care about are a girls' looks. They don't care about her intelligence, personality, humor, education etc.
Sigh.. It's funny how likes is a preacher of truth.
"In short, both sexes create the monsters they lament about later. Men and women both need to check their privilege and be careful about the focus of hatred, because that which they hate is ultimately their own doing" - We can keep defending our own gender, and mock/blame the other. But it isn't really beneficial for either of us, nor a great way of improving.
@Stokes Are you serious? An ugly girl will be treated like rubbish by every single guy, regardless of their attractiveness or "status." If an ugly girl even asks for a pen from a guy he will get all creeped out and think she was hitting on him when she wasn't. It's all just down to male entitlement.
Even some of my closest male friends act this way and they're the nice type of guys.
Women choose guys by looks...
Those guys learn that they can be jerks because they'll always get another woman.
Those other nice guys resent being rejected for bad men... especially when those same women bitch about the guys they keep choosing.
Deep down, women like to be treated like shit. They love guys with the confidence to treat them that way. Most guys aren't capable of treating women badly, so they don't get laid.
Girls only like you if someone else does. It's like they don't think for themselves when it comes to liking someone. Actually it's probably more from their nature of hypoagency.
assholes have a tendency to be really confident, which i presume is something that woemn like, and they are nice in the beginning.
and guys get what they want by being dicks, so why change?
sad jerks know nothing about life they think they do?
I suddenly became much more attractive when I quit being "nice"
Interesting, thank you
Nice guys finish last straight up bro
And that's why you are labeled a douchebag in society. Because you had a self-absorbed and entitled attitude in high school and you never learned the error of your ways. gtfo bro
Loser bro
@TheBigSoftie how am I entitled?
@villageidiot haters gonna hate 😚
Cool beans.
Jerks are more tempting
Thank you.
Where dumb
Interesting myTake
Nice.
Pretty good take.