I thought about writing one about the right and WRONG way a woman should reject a man. In my experience most women approach this from a female perspective and don’t understand male ego. In those situations guys are more angry about disrespect than losing out on a potential relationship. If women understood male ego better there would be fewer problems.
Well, that sounds fine too, I know that the friendzone hurts though - if you never really surround yourself with the opposite sex, you avoid some problems. So in the end, it boils down to whether you want to be helpful or just another incel/sexist/man who claims all types of feminism are bad. Bob's friendly and helpful. Be Bob.
Most guys know they are not entitled to intimacy/sex for just being nice to women. We are not really angry about not getting laid, we are angry about being disrespected.
Just assuming a guy is okay with being upfront about your position is where most of us get angry. We get exploited.
I’m for egalitarianism. That is true equality (and responsibility) between sexes. For some reason women go ballistic when they hear that phrase. But look it up.
Why would I get angry at that? I'm educated, but thanks anyways. I'm not looking for intimacy at all, which is why I don't go near men who want that, out of respect. Only ever had three guys trying to break my spirit and get me into bed regardless so my experience has been that almost all men respect me. ME. Not women in general. I can only make statements about myself, which is what I stated in the first paragraph :)
Yeah this conversation went off on a different angle. But just because you are educated doesn’t mean you are experienced. You are only 18 and have your whole life in front of you. Your experiences will change your viewpoints for better or worse as you get older
@KrakenAttackin First, well make sure to pick a better woman next time because not all of them are like that. Second, you don't have to take the abuse. You can stand up for yourself, set boundaries and voice your needs. If that does not fix it, well just leave then.
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Good take. DM me if you want to hear what men really want to hear.
I'd love to hear about your insight on this topic in a take of yours :)
I thought about writing one about the right and WRONG way a woman should reject a man. In my experience most women approach this from a female perspective and don’t understand male ego. In those situations guys are more angry about disrespect than losing out on a potential relationship. If women understood male ego better there would be fewer problems.
Spot on correct. TBH, women know when they are being shitty and cruel to a man.
@KrakenAttackin yeah I’ve met women in their 30s who still assume men are going to be okay with the friend zone. Fucking insane.
Well, that sounds fine too, I know that the friendzone hurts though - if you never really surround yourself with the opposite sex, you avoid some problems.
So in the end, it boils down to whether you want to be helpful or just another incel/sexist/man who claims all types of feminism are bad.
Bob's friendly and helpful.
Be Bob.
Most guys know they are not entitled to intimacy/sex for just being nice to women. We are not really angry about not getting laid, we are angry about being disrespected.
Just assuming a guy is okay with being upfront about your position is where most of us get angry. We get exploited.
I’m for egalitarianism. That is true equality (and responsibility) between sexes. For some reason women go ballistic when they hear that phrase. But look it up.
Why would I get angry at that? I'm educated, but thanks anyways.
I'm not looking for intimacy at all, which is why I don't go near men who want that, out of respect. Only ever had three guys trying to break my spirit and get me into bed regardless so my experience has been that almost all men respect me. ME. Not women in general. I can only make statements about myself, which is what I stated in the first paragraph :)
Yeah this conversation went off on a different angle. But just because you are educated doesn’t mean you are experienced. You are only 18 and have your whole life in front of you. Your experiences will change your viewpoints for better or worse as you get older
Together forever never ever apart cause you are my heart and not just a part , made it together
I want to hear from her I love you , advice , to listen and support both ways by the way.
How about "I'm here for you"? Or a simple yet effective "I love you"?
That's a dangerous sentence to throw at a woman. Once she knows she has you by the balls she is often tempted to abuse you.
@KrakenAttackin First, well make sure to pick a better woman next time because not all of them are like that. Second, you don't have to take the abuse. You can stand up for yourself, set boundaries and voice your needs. If that does not fix it, well just leave then.
Agreed, although it took me awhile to learn your wisdom. Bravo to you for knowing this at an early age.
@KrakenAttackin Well thank you!
Hmmm. In my experience what women really like to hear is, "Get whatever you want." or "Here's my credit card."
When men puts you before everything that means all in the world..
"You're the best thing that ever happened to me"
Yeah definitely should be a part of the list :)
Just remember, women give the absolute worst dating advice. Do you want the advice of the fisherman or the fish?
I think you did a great job talking about this subject. Great job young lady.
Or just be honest and kind and a nice person in general
I would like for a girl to tell me that she's ok with me having relationships with other girls.
That's not what this take is about but okay
I liked it when they appreciate, it's make you feel awesomeness in your mind.
Think of a relationship, as if it was an interview, guys, and girls even
You always tell them what they WANT to hear, not what they SHOULD hear
that's how people work. You never actually tell them the truth
I'm sorry you feel this way
That's how it is
God bless you... you are so right
If only this would go both ways...
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Good take
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