How to mend a broken relationship!

[akanetuk]

Believe me, every body is in one form of relationship or the other and this spans from work, family, friendship and love relationships. Once in a while we encounter characters or habits that contradicts the role of engagement. I have seen here on GAG several questions on how to make up and make things work again. First it takes courage and boldness to own up a mistake, it also takes another level of courage to approach a friend who have erred. So parties should have this form of courage. Shouting at each other doesn't solve any problem. Put pride aside, and put on respect when approaching an erring party. It should be like more of a discussion, speaking and listening. Let your intentions be known and how you felt about what happened, listen and consider the other person perspectives just in case it was not his or her fault. Communication brings out intentions and let others know how you feel about certain actions. Present options to help instead of just putting blames. If communication or agreement can't be reached then there will be need to pause and continue when things changes for good.

[DellBell]

It depends... if they are not narcissistic or toxic... you could sit down with them have a adult conversation with them, spend more time with them... don't shout at one another, listen to each other, try to understand where the other person is coming from... show them that you are grateful to have them as part of your life and show them that you care... help them out with things, support them and basically show respect..


Unfortunately when it comes to narcissistic and toxic people..

That's a different story... let's start of with narcissistic people... they see others as nothing but objects as sad as it is... they want to see what they can gain from others and sometimes if they feel that they no longer advantage to the narcissistic person... there is no way of improving a relationship with a narcissistic person...

As for toxic people they are unhappy and negative people... only will put you down... you can try to help them become positive and that... help to get improve a better relationship

[akanetuk]

on point

[DellBell]

I made a few mistakes my boyfriend was talking to me at the same time... I meant to say that a narcissistic person will basically drop you if they feel you are no longer advantage to their life... also I found out that the more you know about narcissistim... the more they try to make you look like your the crazy one etc... until they basically cannot win anymore so they leave to find another supply that have no idea...

As for the last bit when it comes to toxic people I was meant to say help improve a better relationship... if they are still negative and that though... it's probably best to get rid of them out of your life doesn't matter if they are family or not either

[websterII]

I think you have to reflect on yourself to see if there is anything you dislike about yourself.. hopefully your in pain cus of this break.. and the good tihng about pain is it is a motivator for change. but to change you have to do it because you believe in it.. that that's the way forward. if you blame the other person you excuse yourself absolve yourself. . and blame the other.. if you do the blame game you prob should not get back together. ALso in the end whatever you two decide to do it's mutual.. if you broke cus one person didn't love the other anymore.. which is totally possible ifyou went so far as to break in the first place.. then it's over.. and if it is.. you can just bluntly ask the other person if it is.. then accept their decision and move on with your life.. mourn a little bit.. then reflect on what you did wrong.. so you dont do it in the future.. then wipe the proverbial crap off your shoes and move on. keep in mind too.. that your break mght have been over a stray sock on the flooor.. but you gotta look past that.. most breaks happen cus of resentment.. and resentment is tiny stuff or big stuff.. but can be a sock on teh floor.. and the problem with resentment is it builds and builds. over the years even.. it's like not taking the garbage out for years.. then one day you decide to take the garbage out? too late.. it's over.. onc someone falls out of love.. and it's just teh straw that broke the camels back.. prob not something you would have even got upset over while still infatuated.. but once it's broke it's broke. your lucky ifyou survive hte first break.. but you should let it be a warning sign.. this could all be over tomorrow.. a relationship is HARD WORK.. take nothing for granted.. show every day how much you cherish your partner.. dont worry about what theyd o for you.. if yoru doing it right and they love you.. it will probably be reflected back.. but remember a gift is ony a gift if it is given with nothing in return.. and no expectation of anything.. we all make mistakes.. but making them twice is such a terrible shame..

[opnbuk59]

Pride put pride aside pride is past of what keeps people grounded confidence where you draw your last strength when needed, but mending a relationship that's dependent on what and how it was broken in first place, if say your married your spouse is always gone or had no time for you always on phone later you find out that she was seeing someone else all along you got lies infidelity broken home to some these are unforgiven sins and mending it is completely out of the question dissent matter the situation i must admit it does take a bigger person to be able to out so aside to try and send a broken relationship starts with talking openly honestly and putting in behind you over your both satisfied with conclusion you both reached and begin to move forward not saying it's going to happen in one session but taking about the issues head on openly honestly is always best way not trying to be slick clever accuse just vice what's really bothering you and move on together seriously but either way there's closure,

[christabel1]

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[BlessedDaddy]

Well written and I agree.

One thing:. There also. Comes a point where it's best to walk àway. Some people will never change their behaviour, only their words. In many ways it takes more courage to let them go, grieve and move on.

[akanetuk]

very true

[platinumsad]

I feel like I needed to read this right now. At the end of the day, it's up to everyone to work on their own behavior and no one else can change it.

[Liam_Hayden]

The way to mend anything is simple:

LOVE

We don't have to agree on everything - heck, that would be pretty boring - but we need to be able to disagree while still letting the other know that love remains the same.

[davidboon11]

Yeah,, I feel the same. Ego is another thing people should nor have, it they are going to work out with a relationship

[KrakenAttackin]

Once broken it no longer has the same intrinsic value. Just move on.

[Shengning]

Sorry I don't know the answer. If I were you, I'd let it go.

[wewpet]

It all depends on yourself

[lightbulb27]

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[SecretGardenBlood65]

Good mytake

[kingvijjay]

HELLO

[OceanMelon]

Goodbye

[sensible27]

Marked.

[BillysBabe]

Interesting