First of all relationships are always worth restoring.
1. Think before talking to the person.
What was the reason for fights and quarrels? Are they not coming from your desires within you? You can not get what you want and so you quarrel and fight. Take you time for this step.
2. Always take the initiative.
Don’t wait for the other person to take the first step but take the iniative, even when the other person has hurt you.
3. Sympathize with their feelings.
Don’t we all want to be understood by the other? Don’t we want the feeling that people really listening to what we say?
4. Confess your part of the conflict.
Nobody is perfect and so admit you have made mistakes too.
5. Attack the problem, not the person.
Attacking the person doesn’t get you any closer to restoration so don’t! Are you bitter about what happend, well maybe you should go back to step 1 again and think about what happend and about yoru relationship.
6. Cooperate as much as possible.
Restoration doesn’t come easy so do you part to make this happen. A good advice is to do everything possible on your part to live in peace with everybody.
7. Don’t rush things!
Restoration needs time, it’s as simple as that. Rushing is maybe just like attacking the othe rperson and makes it much harder to restore a relationship.
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Great Take, @vekin!!! On a Roll again, My good friend!!
Good luck. xx
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Happy to help, @vekin xx
Very sound logic - My only gripe is the assertion that all relationships are worth restoring sometimes I feel that a relationship is so toxic be thankful you got away and sometimes relationships have gone through their natural course say if one person's feelings have changed, what is the point of the dumped person going back for more Probably a small minority but for the other vast majority BUT on the other hand if there is hope for the relationship, your take is an excellent guide.
there are surely exception on this rule that every relationship is worth restoring