Well mm I don't know if i fit this i kinda do and i kinda don't see if someone rejects me either A i keep trying or be i just move on, why bother getting upset with something that can't be change plus in the end there's always someone out there for some body, maybe you might have to change some things in order to attract that somebody but he/she is out there. So in short keep looking and if need be change your appeal and also ladies and gents try not to get angry when put in the friend zone cause it just makes you toxic and well no one likes toxic people. So instead just be friends and see where it takes you
Well you definitely thouroughly thought this out. I'm like to think I'm a good person. I'm not a typical nice guy. As the eagles said I'm looking for the daughter of the devil himself and I'm searching for an angel in white. I'd probably be the male equivalent of that. Just because I'm is good guy doesn't mean I might do something that would hurt you. Not physically. I'd try never to do it on purpose.. In other words I might say the wrong thing or be self centered and not think about how she felt but I would definitely not try to do it.. I'm a gentleman but I'm still a man
If you want to avoid the white nights, start out as friendship only. Nothing else for a while. This way, all cards are out on the table, faces up. If they're running a game, you'll know it soon enough if they start overstepping their boundaries despite what you tell them.
What if you genuinely care about the person you "rescued" they themselves tell you that you did even if you say you are worthless. .. And despite being friend zoned or worse still Brother zoned (Adopted, seen as a brother) you are still by their side not asking pressuring or even hoping for more just happy that they are safe, sound and alive who has no issues even if they were to leave and marry someone else... How does that person fit in?
I started out as the good prince charming type but was ignored so i changed into the confident asshole that women love to chase and fucked most of those who had me friendzoned, now i choose who see the prince charming i can still be and who sees the big bad wolf; it's not about what you show but how much of it you show.
Prince Charming complex is a direct result of taking advice from women and listening to what they say they want. Because women generally rate very high in Agreeableness they have a tendency to say what others want to hear rather than what they really feel. This means, while the intent isn't too be malicious, women by nature are effectively pathological liars when compared to men.
This is why you don't take advice on dating from women.
Where all the women you ever met talking to you at gunpoint? Oy reason I can think off for you to believe that they all simply say what they think we want to hear.
@DeltaCharlieEcho Understandable perspective. But if you're gonna take it from somebody, one of the men who have women all over them could help you. The Alphas. But... take it from them - it's not easy to pull off.
Funnily enough I have a question about the very thing you have said (hindsight Vs the truth), and the same girl who disputes pathological liars is under your opinion saying she understands it but.. 🙄 I just knew she'd be here lmao
@ChocoBrownieMonster 1) Feel free to provide proof of what you're saying as truth because you don't have any in reference to me. so therefore... 2) What a pathetic way to try to make me look bad and need backup this time since you can't accomplish it yourself, which is very well demonstrated in all of these pointless attempts of yours to argue these stupid things with me, of which there is PLENTY of proof :) Shall I provide links? Lol get a life dude
@Yads_Is_Back lmao you dispute a persons life experiences, next you'll be telling me to grow up. Youve basically advised these guys to get help from an alpha who gives zero fucks and makes little to no effort and still gets the girl.
@ChocoBrownieMonster The reason you don't even know what an Alpha is is very clear. And trust me, I've been thinking of telling you to grow up since you first started trying with all this. I've just been nice about it. If you don't see your own flaws and why you aren't successful with women even when everybody else can see it, again that's your own personal problem. Adios, dude. Find something worth your time because fussing at me all the time is getting you nowhere.
@Yads_Is_Back coming from someone who had me on her mind for about 3hrs, then wrote to me again 2-3 messages at a time and mentions me in her opinion on this topic... you can fool others but you won't fool me 😎
@Yads_Is_Back females don't get to define what determines an alpha status; it is a strictly male hierarchical designation and position. While women are a factor of the position, they are not a defining part of it.
Either way, that’s not the argument. I get that you guys don’t know anything about being Alpha lol I blocked ChocoBrownie. He’s been trolling me for a while now. So don’t expect me to have seen what he says
And if you want the explanation, it’s more sociological for us only because of our advanced psychology and ability to think and form societies and set our own standards, etc. Therefore it is still biological, and sexual selection always will be biological, but it’s more sociological for humans for this reason. You cannot say that reproduction and social selection is not at least somewhat biological. Natural Selection (biological) is basically an organism choosing a mate who is more likely to survive and reproduce. That simple definition is completely different for humans than any other species in the kingdom of Animalia. Our advanced psychological function and sociology is why. But the biological definition still applies. Just makes it less physical than other species who are more “survival of the fittest.” So yes, I know about it, and there’s the explanation for how you’re wrong when you say it’s entirely not biological
So yes therefore it IS biological, and it ties into sociology of course. Hopefully that explanation helped. So yeah, check your facts first. We learn something new everyday
@DeltaCharlieEcho dont waste your time on this troll, once she's lost all angles she'll block you and move onto the next guy she thinks she can manipulate.
... says the retard who doesn’t even know 7th-grade biology I’m blocking both of y’all. I got better things to do than talk to dumb miserable guys on GAG 😂
@KrakenAttackin There’s nothing that says you have to listen to us. But you’re the ones who COMPLAIN about everything - women don’t like me, I’m not good enough, boo-hoo 😢 - then have nothing better to do than this on a site like this and then y’all wonder why you’re not well-liked among women 😂it’s just funny to us watching you do it in the act and you don’t even realize it. You guys are hilarious. @chocobrowniemonster Anybody on here can see that you're the one who tagged me out of nowhere here. And you’re also the one who inboxed me the other day. Need I provide all evidence of posts and messages between us? You’re desperate and then when you can’t get what you want you run for backup
All of those. Posts where you have been trolling me lately, where either you commented on something I posted and strayed far away from the topic of the post just to fuss your pity story or either where I didn’t even post and you randomly tagged me because you have no balls and have to have backup. Notice your pattern, how you never did that until more recently. I guess I went to cut your testicles off and discovered that you didn’t have any... @KrakenAttackin@DeltaCharlieEcho Y’all should protect this guy as your little bro. He lacks testicles and I don’t even fight, so with as much as I run over him other women would kill him and feed him to animals. Protect your little brother for the time being while he has no testicles.
Alrighty, evidence provided. Bye, lame choco Now can you see why I’m blocking you? Grow some balls
@DeltaCharlieEcho and @KrakenAttackin and then you guys wonder why I bump heads with you guys. @yads_is_back just described it perfectly "But you’re the ones who COMPLAIN about everything - women don’t like me, I’m not good enough, boo-hoo " Thaty bullshit attitude you guys have I can't stand.
@ThisIsMyOpinion you agree with a girl who blocks, thinks of her next move, then unblocks to include a lie in a bunch of facts to manipulate the truth, then blocks immediately after. That is what you call a coward. And youve got a photo of you up weight training? because a girl told you to do that 🤣 fml. Last time i went to a gym i was the skinniest guy there and had come in there with a girl by my side, and all those freaks trying to look muscular were watching on as i had several girls all aggressively trying to approach me. You think your muscles will get you the girl? wrong, you're not alpha.
@ChocoBrownieMonster A few things... 1. I already saw both of them doing what she claimed multiple times! I am not just taking her word for it.
2. That weight is really light! It was the end of a dropset. If I wanted to show off I had better pics. If you look close I have a friend on the background. I miss him and the one that took the pic. We used to train the three together and now with the covid we can't. The pic reminds me of them and that is why I have it. 3. I am married! I already have the woman of my dreams. I don't need to impress any girls here. I think the guys that do stuff on sites like this one just to impress girls are a joke. All I say are my real opinions. 4. I don't buy that alpha-beta crap. I met many supposed alphas outside of the ring that once they were inside with me all their attitude got lost really fast. We are all alpha and beta sometimes. We clear?
@ThisIsMyOpinion tbh having experienced her behaviour they likely bounced off her, repeated what she did. I accept i did that too, she mentioned me in her opinion, i mentioned her in a comment. As for your picture, thanks for explaining, it's just the impression anyone gets when you put a gym photo as a profile pic, you mention you miss your friends i respect that. Gym is about meeting up with your mates too. To refuse to accept alpha and beta males are distinctly different, thats strange. If youve been around an entire group of guys you'll notice one or two are the only ones on a girls radar. The rest they dont get any girls. It's a natural phenomenon based on a womans perception of a guy interacting with others. By example, if a group of guys consistently chat shit and appear to not have a mind to do something in their spare time and there's a guy reading a book, reading the financial times, always planning his next move, able to know what he wants, who is interested in him and able to just get up go approach her smile confidently and say hello infront of all her friends, ease her shyness, ignore bullshit, defend himself against bullshit, be responsible and stand up to bullies and anyone threatening his social group. There is your alpha. The beta male? is the rest of the guys taking notes or unable to understand how he does it.
@ChocoBrownieMonster I never saw you do the crap I have seen them do. The entire "women are so evil. Men are have such hard lives today" crap. So I was not addressing you. So. ply agreed to her on that comment she made about them. About the alpha. I already saw girl go for the shy guy that was simply around, looking shy, not talking or interacting much. Why? Probably because he was the hot one. Some girls like those guys that take over the conversation, some like shy and cute guys, some like intelligent guys. Now if we are talking sluts? Yes they will flock around the biggest asshole in the room no matter how ugly, intelligent or moronic he is. But who the hell cares about those girls anyway?
@ThisIsMyOpinion i accept that, the shy guy is attractive, why? he is someone a girl knows she can manipulate. Because it's likely he has no experience. You need to be able to choose not be chosen.
@KrakenAttackin he pulled this shit in another one of my comments with absolutely no comprehension of how wrong and pathetic he makes himself look. He even tried to use the fact that he "is married" like it changes anything in larger scale data.
I'd be willing to bet that this dude is a bottom to his wife.
@DeltaCharlieEcho. Yeah, he is from Spain and has been married less than a year. He claimed to be an expert on women and lectures every man who will listen.
@ChocoBrownieMonster just because a girl chose you doesn't mean she did it because she wants to manipulate you. The shy guy might be way smarter than the loudmouth and not easy to manipulate. If anything the loudmouth that only sees pussy in front is way more likely to be manipulated.
@KrakenAttackin I have seen you bash women and say how hard men have it today countless times. I simp for guys! You make us look weak under girls thumbs.
@DeltaCharlieEcho you said that I had no understanding about women. I told you I was married and had sisters to show you otherwise. Simple as that. And don't worry I know neither you or @KrakenAttackin have the capacity to get good women. Mostly due to what you think they want and think.
@ThisIsMyOpinion lol keep telling yourself that champ. My ex was a former gymnast, my ex before her maked 250k a year, and my first ex was a highly ranked cam girl. But hey, I don't get quality chicks and the girl I have after me right now isn't 5'2 in amazing shape and isn't super sweet. But hey whatever, you're married so I guess you know what is real.
@ThisIsMyOpinion Again, whatever you need to tell yourself kid. I was engaged to the cam girl, I was engaged to the former gymnast, and the other one was begging me to move in with her and live for free. But hey, you're married to a subaverage female so I'm sure you know exactly what you're talking about.
@ThisIsMyOpinion My first ex was a high level cam girl in the earlier days of camming becoming prevalent, my second ex was a podiatric surgeon that was also a published researcher that made mad amounts of money from her writing that paid for a 400k house when she was 23, my third ex was a former gymnast who's parents both died of overdoses when she was in her mid teens so she went to live with her upper-middle class aunt and uncle and never matured beyond roughly 16 years old which I didn't realize 6 months after my breakup. The first ex was 5'1'' 95lbs, white, blonde, wore glasses, and was really sweet until she relapsed to pills. My second ex was 5'4" roughly 130lbs, dark hair, wore glasses or more regularly contacts, and was the most mature of my exes but was the child of divorce which was my reason for leaving her. My third ex was 4'11" 100-110lbs depending on the time of year and how much she was working out, arab features (was Lebanese second generation in the US), green eyes, brown hair, perfect skin, had the greatest personality when she was faking it; was the most violently aggressive person I've ever met when she was in a bad mood.
The ages were 22, 23, and 20 respectively when I started dating them.
But hey, keep talking about how you know anything about anything.
@ThisIsMyOpinion if you had any idea what I was talking about youd admit that you're a little sub boy for your girlfriend that uses you for supplementary income while she fucks the whole neighborhood in front of you.
@DeltaCharlieEcho that is why I put you on the same sack that I put @KrakenAttackin. You really think that you are the first guy that comes with that argument? "Oh he disagrees that women can't resist their "nature" and are actually capable of rational thinking so he must be for female supermacy, a feminist, a cuck, bla bla bla" heard it all before. Zero logic there. I have a different opinion than you. Simply as that.
@DeltaCharlieEcho On the other hand I labled you guys as much as you labled me. To me you two are butt hurts who were never able to get girls attention or have been really hurt by them in the past so your "revenge" is talk shit about them here. Pathetic as that is believing all the nonsense makes you feel like maybe it wasn't your fault. Maybe women are the ones at fault, all of them, not you. A sad defence mechanism. I am so sorry that she cheated on you, didn't want you or whatever, but that is no reason to start believing nonsense just to make you feel less guilty over what happened.
@ThisIsMyOpinion You're spending a whole lot of time talking to people that aren't even listening to be in any kind of relationship let alone married. You're not exactly proving your point here.
@ThisIsMyOpinion no, it really doesn't. I'm single, I'm allowed to waste my time as I see fit. You, on the other hand, are on a limited timeline with this commenting all day game. Soon your wife will get really friendly with your neighbor then she'll leave you to fuck him full time, and you'll get your pay garnished to fund her lifestyle.
@DeltaCharlieEcho I get that for lied to make sense to you she must be cheating on me. I get it. No way a guy that thinks like me has a hot and faithful wife. If I do that would make you even more of a failure, but sorry it's true.
@ThisIsMyOpinion lol, only a deluded fool like you could keep this conversation alive when I'm not even replying to a cat majority of your written responses.
@ThisIsMyOpinion Nobody can make you right. You have 0 people replying in agreeance to you, nor are you foundationally correct in any of your statements. But hey, keep wasting your time kiddo, I've gotta head to work.
I like the part about "nice guys" but I will never understand the deal about the "Friend Zone." No one ever gets sent to the friend zone. They voluntarily enter it and voluntarily remain there.
" “But she is only my friend, not my type, I did not feel the spark of attraction” is the usual speech when in fact, he only approached her for the adrenaline of the conquest. They say these girls don't fit within the princess patterns he possesses. The highest and out-of-reality patterns that he dreams of finding. All because of a simple emotional immaturity: the inability of having a real relationship."
I actually don't think there is such a phenomenon, because humans are all faulty, but I do believe some girls think that they sometimes have prince charming, sometimes she accepts that he is everything she that she dreamed about, sometimes not. Sorry if I missed something or its not applicable, I actually struggle to read every part of a my take.
It's hard to know how to handle relationships... Trying to be a good guy... It could either leave me with wrong expectations or confuse the girl or even worse, have her put me into the friend zone because I'm not boyfriend material 😞
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Okay, you pointed out something that can be taken to toxic levels, yes, but what do we do about it? What point are you trying to make here? Ideally, everyone is able to reconcile desire with reality, so how would than be achieved in relation to this phenomenon?
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The majority of guys here are misogynistic assholes. So dont be suprised if the guys in the comment section blame women for every shit and dislke your take
This is why you never be friends with a girl you like. She says just be friends you say no thanks. I didn't talk to you to be your friend, i talked to you to get to know you and see if i want to date you... friendship never entered the equation.
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you're right. I ever experienced this. save. conquer. abandon.
to me the nice guys are usually when they are nice and ever experienced abandoned but still being nice to the other girls and never had in their mind thinks women are all same. ♥️
Sounds kinda like me but the only difference and a damn big one is that I genuinely feel for others and even though it's not always the best idea I'd put them ahead of myself as I've been in down the trenches before and hate to see people like that
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Interesting myTake about an exceedingly rare phenomenon. Thanks for sharing.
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Well mm I don't know if i fit this i kinda do and i kinda don't see if someone rejects me either A i keep trying or be i just move on, why bother getting upset with something that can't be change plus in the end there's always someone out there for some body, maybe you might have to change some things in order to attract that somebody but he/she is out there. So in short keep looking and if need be change your appeal and also ladies and gents try not to get angry when put in the friend zone cause it just makes you toxic and well no one likes toxic people. So instead just be friends and see where it takes you
Well you definitely thouroughly thought this out. I'm like to think I'm a good person. I'm not a typical nice guy. As the eagles said I'm looking for the daughter of the devil himself and I'm searching for an angel in white. I'd probably be the male equivalent of that. Just because I'm is good guy doesn't mean I might do something that would hurt you. Not physically. I'd try never to do it on purpose.. In other words I might say the wrong thing or be self centered and not think about how she felt but I would definitely not try to do it.. I'm a gentleman but I'm still a man
I really appreciate your little note. Some people do not understand my takes are personal views.
It’s sad isn’t it that people have to be reminded of this isn’t it?
It’s called MY take for a reason people! *throws hands in air in dismay *
I still wrote a side note warning about the topic being something viewed from many points. But they still are destroying me.. LOL
If you want to avoid the white nights, start out as friendship only. Nothing else for a while. This way, all cards are out on the table, faces up. If they're running a game, you'll know it soon enough if they start overstepping their boundaries despite what you tell them.
What if you genuinely care about the person you "rescued" they themselves tell you that you did even if you say you are worthless. .. And despite being friend zoned or worse still Brother zoned (Adopted, seen as a brother) you are still by their side not asking pressuring or even hoping for more just happy that they are safe, sound and alive who has no issues even if they were to leave and marry someone else... How does that person fit in?
"But she is only my friend, not my type, I did not feel the spark of attraction"
This is a highly legit reason to friendzone anyone, male or female.
Interesting take.
I started out as the good prince charming type but was ignored so i changed into the confident asshole that women love to chase and fucked most of those who had me friendzoned, now i choose who see the prince charming i can still be and who sees the big bad wolf; it's not about what you show but how much of it you show.
Prince Charming complex is a direct result of taking advice from women and listening to what they say they want. Because women generally rate very high in Agreeableness they have a tendency to say what others want to hear rather than what they really feel. This means, while the intent isn't too be malicious, women by nature are effectively pathological liars when compared to men.
This is why you don't take advice on dating from women.
Where all the women you ever met talking to you at gunpoint? Oy reason I can think off for you to believe that they all simply say what they think we want to hear.
@DeltaCharlieEcho
Understandable perspective. But if you're gonna take it from somebody, one of the men who have women all over them could help you. The Alphas. But... take it from them - it's not easy to pull off.
Absolutely correct.
Funnily enough I have a question about the very thing you have said (hindsight Vs the truth), and the same girl who disputes pathological liars is under your opinion saying she understands it but.. 🙄 I just knew she'd be here lmao
@ChocoBrownieMonster 1) Feel free to provide proof of what you're saying as truth because you don't have any in reference to me. so therefore... 2) What a pathetic way to try to make me look bad and need backup this time since you can't accomplish it yourself, which is very well demonstrated in all of these pointless attempts of yours to argue these stupid things with me, of which there is PLENTY of proof :) Shall I provide links?
Lol get a life dude
@Yads_Is_Back lmao you dispute a persons life experiences, next you'll be telling me to grow up. Youve basically advised these guys to get help from an alpha who gives zero fucks and makes little to no effort and still gets the girl.
@ChocoBrownieMonster The reason you don't even know what an Alpha is is very clear. And trust me, I've been thinking of telling you to grow up since you first started trying with all this. I've just been nice about it. If you don't see your own flaws and why you aren't successful with women even when everybody else can see it, again that's your own personal problem.
Adios, dude. Find something worth your time because fussing at me all the time is getting you nowhere.
@Yads_Is_Back coming from someone who had me on her mind for about 3hrs, then wrote to me again 2-3 messages at a time and mentions me in her opinion on this topic... you can fool others but you won't fool me 😎
@Yads_Is_Back females don't get to define what determines an alpha status; it is a strictly male hierarchical designation and position. While women are a factor of the position, they are not a defining part of it.
It sucks, but really sucks. Get used to it.
Biology says otherwise. I’m used to the reality because it’s life
Either way, that’s not the argument. I get that you guys don’t know anything about being Alpha lol
I blocked ChocoBrownie. He’s been trolling me for a while now. So don’t expect me to have seen what he says
@Yads_Is_Back sexual selection isn't biological, it's sociological. But hey, I bet you know about that too don't you?
Yes I do. I’m a biochemistry major. That was a big part of the baby-level Freshman classes.
And if you want the explanation, it’s more sociological for us only because of our advanced psychology and ability to think and form societies and set our own standards, etc. Therefore it is still biological, and sexual selection always will be biological, but it’s more sociological for humans for this reason. You cannot say that reproduction and social selection is not at least somewhat biological.
Natural Selection (biological) is basically an organism choosing a mate who is more likely to survive and reproduce. That simple definition is completely different for humans than any other species in the kingdom of Animalia. Our advanced psychological function and sociology is why. But the biological definition still applies. Just makes it less physical than other species who are more “survival of the fittest.”
So yes, I know about it, and there’s the explanation for how you’re wrong when you say it’s entirely not biological
So yes therefore it IS biological, and it ties into sociology of course. Hopefully that explanation helped.
So yeah, check your facts first. We learn something new everyday
@DeltaCharlieEcho dont waste your time on this troll, once she's lost all angles she'll block you and move onto the next guy she thinks she can manipulate.
@ChocoBrownieMonster she's not a troll, she's just willfully retarded.
... says the retard who doesn’t even know 7th-grade biology
I’m blocking both of y’all. I got better things to do than talk to dumb miserable guys on GAG 😂
Women give the absolute worst dating advice.
@KrakenAttackin There’s nothing that says you have to listen to us. But you’re the ones who COMPLAIN about everything - women don’t like me, I’m not good enough, boo-hoo 😢 - then have nothing better to do than this on a site like this and then y’all wonder why you’re not well-liked among women 😂it’s just funny to us watching you do it in the act and you don’t even realize it. You guys are hilarious.
@chocobrowniemonster Anybody on here can see that you're the one who tagged me out of nowhere here. And you’re also the one who inboxed me the other day. Need I provide all evidence of posts and messages between us? You’re desperate and then when you can’t get what you want you run for backup
@Yads_Is_Back id like to see you prove that just to see what lengths you'd go to frabicating a lie
@ChocoBrownieMonster
Why do some guys like to wait a few days to text/call you after you give them your number? ↗
Are you one to play dating games/go by common dating advice games? If not, are you turned off by guys/girls who do? ↗
When a girl rejects you, why ask the reason if you can’t take it? Would you prefer her to lie to conserve your feelings? ↗
If nice guys are actually assholes, then if I'm an asshole, that makes me? ↗
All of those. Posts where you have been trolling me lately, where either you commented on something I posted and strayed far away from the topic of the post just to fuss your pity story or either where I didn’t even post and you randomly tagged me because you have no balls and have to have backup. Notice your pattern, how you never did that until more recently. I guess I went to cut your testicles off and discovered that you didn’t have any...
@KrakenAttackin @DeltaCharlieEcho Y’all should protect this guy as your little bro. He lacks testicles and I don’t even fight, so with as much as I run over him other women would kill him and feed him to animals. Protect your little brother for the time being while he has no testicles.
Alrighty, evidence provided. Bye, lame choco
Now can you see why I’m blocking you? Grow some balls
@Yads_Is_Back thats not your inbox love, so dissapointed
@DeltaCharlieEcho and @KrakenAttackin and then you guys wonder why I bump heads with you guys. @yads_is_back just described it perfectly "But you’re the ones who COMPLAIN about everything - women don’t like me, I’m not good enough, boo-hoo "
Thaty bullshit attitude you guys have I can't stand.
You make all guys look like desperate and bitter assholes!
@ThisIsMyOpinion you agree with a girl who blocks, thinks of her next move, then unblocks to include a lie in a bunch of facts to manipulate the truth, then blocks immediately after. That is what you call a coward. And youve got a photo of you up weight training? because a girl told you to do that 🤣 fml. Last time i went to a gym i was the skinniest guy there and had come in there with a girl by my side, and all those freaks trying to look muscular were watching on as i had several girls all aggressively trying to approach me. You think your muscles will get you the girl? wrong, you're not alpha.
@ChocoBrownieMonster A few things...
1. I already saw both of them doing what she claimed multiple times! I am not just taking her word for it.
2. That weight is really light! It was the end of a dropset. If I wanted to show off I had better pics. If you look close I have a friend on the background. I miss him and the one that took the pic. We used to train the three together and now with the covid we can't. The pic reminds me of them and that is why I have it.
3. I am married! I already have the woman of my dreams. I don't need to impress any girls here. I think the guys that do stuff on sites like this one just to impress girls are a joke. All I say are my real opinions.
4. I don't buy that alpha-beta crap. I met many supposed alphas outside of the ring that once they were inside with me all their attitude got lost really fast. We are all alpha and beta sometimes.
We clear?
@ThisIsMyOpinion tbh having experienced her behaviour they likely bounced off her, repeated what she did. I accept i did that too, she mentioned me in her opinion, i mentioned her in a comment.
As for your picture, thanks for explaining, it's just the impression anyone gets when you put a gym photo as a profile pic, you mention you miss your friends i respect that. Gym is about meeting up with your mates too. To refuse to accept alpha and beta males are distinctly different, thats strange. If youve been around an entire group of guys you'll notice one or two are the only ones on a girls radar. The rest they dont get any girls. It's a natural phenomenon based on a womans perception of a guy interacting with others. By example, if a group of guys consistently chat shit and appear to not have a mind to do something in their spare time and there's a guy reading a book, reading the financial times, always planning his next move, able to know what he wants, who is interested in him and able to just get up go approach her smile confidently and say hello infront of all her friends, ease her shyness, ignore bullshit, defend himself against bullshit, be responsible and stand up to bullies and anyone threatening his social group. There is your alpha. The beta male? is the rest of the guys taking notes or unable to understand how he does it.
@ChocoBrownieMonster I never saw you do the crap I have seen them do. The entire "women are so evil. Men are have such hard lives today" crap. So I was not addressing you. So. ply agreed to her on that comment she made about them.
About the alpha. I already saw girl go for the shy guy that was simply around, looking shy, not talking or interacting much. Why? Probably because he was the hot one.
Some girls like those guys that take over the conversation, some like shy and cute guys, some like intelligent guys.
Now if we are talking sluts? Yes they will flock around the biggest asshole in the room no matter how ugly, intelligent or moronic he is. But who the hell cares about those girls anyway?
@ThisIsMyOpinion i accept that, the shy guy is attractive, why? he is someone a girl knows she can manipulate. Because it's likely he has no experience. You need to be able to choose not be chosen.
@ThisIsMyOpinion When have I EVER said "women don't like me"? Getting a woman is not hard. Getting a moral woman is damn near impossible.
@ThisIsMyOpinion Also, you have a white knight, simp, attitude that I can't stand.
@KrakenAttackin he pulled this shit in another one of my comments with absolutely no comprehension of how wrong and pathetic he makes himself look. He even tried to use the fact that he "is married" like it changes anything in larger scale data.
I'd be willing to bet that this dude is a bottom to his wife.
@DeltaCharlieEcho. Yeah, he is from Spain and has been married less than a year. He claimed to be an expert on women and lectures every man who will listen.
@ChocoBrownieMonster just because a girl chose you doesn't mean she did it because she wants to manipulate you. The shy guy might be way smarter than the loudmouth and not easy to manipulate. If anything the loudmouth that only sees pussy in front is way more likely to be manipulated.
@KrakenAttackin I have seen you bash women and say how hard men have it today countless times.
I simp for guys! You make us look weak under girls thumbs.
@DeltaCharlieEcho you said that I had no understanding about women. I told you I was married and had sisters to show you otherwise. Simple as that.
And don't worry I know neither you or @KrakenAttackin have the capacity to get good women. Mostly due to what you think they want and think.
@ThisIsMyOpinion lol keep telling yourself that champ. My ex was a former gymnast, my ex before her maked 250k a year, and my first ex was a highly ranked cam girl. But hey, I don't get quality chicks and the girl I have after me right now isn't 5'2 in amazing shape and isn't super sweet. But hey whatever, you're married so I guess you know what is real.
@DeltaCharlieEcho and then you woke up!
@ThisIsMyOpinion Again, whatever you need to tell yourself kid. I was engaged to the cam girl, I was engaged to the former gymnast, and the other one was begging me to move in with her and live for free. But hey, you're married to a subaverage female so I'm sure you know exactly what you're talking about.
@DeltaCharlieEcho wasn't one of them a miss universe? Or a ball room dancing world champion?
@ThisIsMyOpinion False. The last thing I advocate is being under a woman's thumb.
@ThisIsMyOpinion My first ex was a high level cam girl in the earlier days of camming becoming prevalent, my second ex was a podiatric surgeon that was also a published researcher that made mad amounts of money from her writing that paid for a 400k house when she was 23, my third ex was a former gymnast who's parents both died of overdoses when she was in her mid teens so she went to live with her upper-middle class aunt and uncle and never matured beyond roughly 16 years old which I didn't realize 6 months after my breakup. The first ex was 5'1'' 95lbs, white, blonde, wore glasses, and was really sweet until she relapsed to pills. My second ex was 5'4" roughly 130lbs, dark hair, wore glasses or more regularly contacts, and was the most mature of my exes but was the child of divorce which was my reason for leaving her. My third ex was 4'11" 100-110lbs depending on the time of year and how much she was working out, arab features (was Lebanese second generation in the US), green eyes, brown hair, perfect skin, had the greatest personality when she was faking it; was the most violently aggressive person I've ever met when she was in a bad mood.
The ages were 22, 23, and 20 respectively when I started dating them.
But hey, keep talking about how you know anything about anything.
@DeltaCharlieEcho reading fiction online was never really a hobby of mine.
@ThisIsMyOpinion *pats you on the head*
Okay champ, maybe your mommy will get you mcdonalds after your done throwing your little tantrum.
@DeltaCharlieEcho. He is simp nation to the bone. We'll check back with him after his wife steps out on him.
@DeltaCharlieEcho you are the one trying to convince me of stuff and I am the one throwing a tantrum?
@KrakenAttackin once hell freezes.
@ThisIsMyOpinion She's already cucking you, I'm sure.
@DeltaCharlieEcho ir you had any idea of who you are talking about you would be laughing at what you just said.
@ThisIsMyOpinion if you had any idea what I was talking about youd admit that you're a little sub boy for your girlfriend that uses you for supplementary income while she fucks the whole neighborhood in front of you.
@DeltaCharlieEcho that is why I put you on the same sack that I put @KrakenAttackin. You really think that you are the first guy that comes with that argument?
"Oh he disagrees that women can't resist their "nature" and are actually capable of rational thinking so he must be for female supermacy, a feminist, a cuck, bla bla bla" heard it all before. Zero logic there. I have a different opinion than you. Simply as that.
@DeltaCharlieEcho On the other hand I labled you guys as much as you labled me.
To me you two are butt hurts who were never able to get girls attention or have been really hurt by them in the past so your "revenge" is talk shit about them here. Pathetic as that is believing all the nonsense makes you feel like maybe it wasn't your fault. Maybe women are the ones at fault, all of them, not you. A sad defence mechanism.
I am so sorry that she cheated on you, didn't want you or whatever, but that is no reason to start believing nonsense just to make you feel less guilty over what happened.
@ThisIsMyOpinion You're spending a whole lot of time talking to people that aren't even listening to be in any kind of relationship let alone married. You're not exactly proving your point here.
@DeltaCharlieEcho that goes both ways.
@ThisIsMyOpinion no, it really doesn't. I'm single, I'm allowed to waste my time as I see fit. You, on the other hand, are on a limited timeline with this commenting all day game. Soon your wife will get really friendly with your neighbor then she'll leave you to fuck him full time, and you'll get your pay garnished to fund her lifestyle.
@DeltaCharlieEcho you know that I can be here with a telephone right?
@ThisIsMyOpinion yeah, I'm sure she'll send you videos of her fuck sessions with the neighbor by telephone too.
@DeltaCharlieEcho I get that for lied to make sense to you she must be cheating on me. I get it. No way a guy that thinks like me has a hot and faithful wife. If I do that would make you even more of a failure, but sorry it's true.
@ThisIsMyOpinion lol, only a deluded fool like you could keep this conversation alive when I'm not even replying to a cat majority of your written responses.
You do realize you are also still here right? Congrats on insulting yourself
@ThisIsMyOpinion I knew you were a cuck, but now I know you're retarded
@DeltaCharlieEcho keep making me right.
@ThisIsMyOpinion Nobody can make you right. You have 0 people replying in agreeance to you, nor are you foundationally correct in any of your statements. But hey, keep wasting your time kiddo, I've gotta head to work.
@DeltaCharlieEcho so I don't have you or the Kraken agreeing with me here and that means that I am not right... Suuuuuuure.
Tell you what check this Take I made a year ago and learn a thing or two.
Embarrassed by my own. Guys, time to wake up! ↗
I like the part about "nice guys" but I will never understand the deal about the "Friend Zone." No one ever gets sent to the friend zone. They voluntarily enter it and voluntarily remain there.
" “But she is only my friend, not my type, I did not feel the spark of attraction” is the usual speech when in fact, he only approached her for the adrenaline of the conquest. They say these girls don't fit within the princess patterns he possesses. The highest and out-of-reality patterns that he dreams of finding. All because of a simple emotional immaturity: the inability of having a real relationship."
Are you saying that they had sex?
@Desconhecida
I actually don't think there is such a phenomenon, because humans are all faulty, but I do believe some girls think that they sometimes have prince charming, sometimes she accepts that he is everything she that she dreamed about, sometimes not. Sorry if I missed something or its not applicable, I actually struggle to read every part of a my take.
It's hard to know how to handle relationships... Trying to be a good guy... It could either leave me with wrong expectations or confuse the girl or even worse, have her put me into the friend zone because I'm not boyfriend material 😞
Okay, you pointed out something that can be taken to toxic levels, yes, but what do we do about it? What point are you trying to make here? Ideally, everyone is able to reconcile desire with reality, so how would than be achieved in relation to this phenomenon?
The majority of guys here are misogynistic assholes. So dont be suprised if the guys in the comment section blame women for every shit and dislke your take
Ignore it
Many men and women fake being nice to get their way in relationships. Sad but true. It happens.
These types are very unattractive to me, tbf.
I don't like the idea of needing to be protected and coddled throughout life, as if I have no agency.
This is why you never be friends with a girl you like. She says just be friends you say no thanks. I didn't talk to you to be your friend, i talked to you to get to know you and see if i want to date you... friendship never entered the equation.
you're right. I ever experienced this. save. conquer. abandon.
to me the nice guys are usually when they are nice and ever experienced abandoned but still being nice to the other girls and never had in their mind thinks women are all same. ♥️
Sounds kinda like me but the only difference and a damn big one is that I genuinely feel for others and even though it's not always the best idea I'd put them ahead of myself as I've been in down the trenches before and hate to see people like that
Interesting myTake about an exceedingly rare phenomenon. Thanks for sharing.