It depends on the way you broke up, if you broke up in a polite way or smth you could try and stay friends. But if you initially approached him/her because you liked her or loved her.. no you shouldn't.. friendship can turn into love but love cannot degrade. It better die than degrade
You can't stay friends with someone you harbor or used to harbor feelings for. It's weird, and there are good chances of things getting awkward and messy. Who's got time for so much drama?
Not true. My sister keeps in touch with a couple of her old boyfriends. It may help that they are all with other people now and don't live in the same area.
i saw that and i had to say something my x wife said that to me and we were married i was in shock about 10 minutes later her new boyfriend rings my doorbell i was so hurt i got dressed walked out never talked to her since
its unbelievable what women do anymore its extremely hard to trust them they will lie right to your face and use you till you got nothing left so hard to actually find someone that truly loves you
I agree with that some women suck up your energy and take whatever they can take from you without appreciating anything I lost many things for her but she never appreciate what I have done to her
I don't see how any of this is even debateable. Well done sir!
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Run if someone says we can be friends after a relationship then it's bad you will lose yourself and it will make you weak stand for what you want and say no.
I have been there and the most difficult thing is if you really loved that person and didn't imagine this would happen. I would say never stay friend with a woman you loved before
Just like divorces, women are usually the ones to break off the relationship. So telling the guy "we can be friends" is an effort to cycle him back to her "friend zone bench".
in my opinion if you take a girl on 5-7 dates I think you've invested enough time into a girl to say hey this was fun, but lets just stay friends. I mean no reason to just throw it all away.
If a girl has a guy go psycho/ballistic/postal on her once over a break up. she will use that as an excuse for the rest of her life to simply ghost guys rather than doing the honorable thing.
Somehow I feel ike i'm the only guy that doesn't call a girl 29 times. I may call 4-5 times over say a 5 day period and maybe text a few times, but nothing like repetitive calling some guys do where they continue to call repeatedly for like 15 minutes straight until she answers.
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It depends on the way you broke up, if you broke up in a polite way or smth you could try and stay friends. But if you initially approached him/her because you liked her or loved her.. no you shouldn't.. friendship can turn into love but love cannot degrade. It better die than degrade
You can't stay friends with someone you harbor or used to harbor feelings for. It's weird, and there are good chances of things getting awkward and messy. Who's got time for so much drama?
Not true. My sister keeps in touch with a couple of her old boyfriends. It may help that they are all with other people now and don't live in the same area.
I went and spent a weekend with one of them, and his new wife. Showed me around his city.
Your sister's great, Honey.
Most people aren't that... Self actualized.
i saw that and i had to say something my x wife said that to me and we were married i was in shock about 10 minutes later her new boyfriend rings my doorbell i was so hurt i got dressed walked out never talked to her since
I thought i had bad break up until I saw this
its unbelievable what women do anymore its extremely hard to trust them they will lie right to your face and use you till you got nothing left so hard to actually find someone that truly loves you
I agree with that some women suck up your energy and take whatever they can take from you without appreciating anything I lost many things for her but she never appreciate what I have done to her
Men and women can't be friends. I could never rely on or converse with a woman like I could a man and if I could id probably marry her.
Even though I had a bad experience I love it 😅 this made me smile 😁 thank you ✌️
I don't see how any of this is even debateable. Well done sir!
Run if someone says we can be friends after a relationship then it's bad you will lose yourself and it will make you weak stand for what you want and say no.
I have been there and the most difficult thing is if you really loved that person and didn't imagine this would happen. I would say never stay friend with a woman you loved before
Just like divorces, women are usually the ones to break off the relationship. So telling the guy "we can be friends" is an effort to cycle him back to her "friend zone bench".
No man should tolerate this.
It depends why and how you separated I have remained friends with two exes but none of the others
Chernobyl was supposed to be safe, too! What could possibly go wrong?
Great piece. Interesting pix!
People have issues.
makes me wonder why would they even do or go with that dirt in life. 🤷🤦
Imho you can stay on civilised terms, even help each other out now and again, maybe, but once it's over, it's over,
I definitely would not stay friends with someone who dumped me, especially if I still have feelings for them.
Lol stay friends. Bitch you jump off a cliff. The sooner the better.
Nope. Never wanted to be your friend in the first place. Bye. All the best. Have a nice life.
This stuff should never be forced, lol.
All the girls i've dated just disappear. Not sure if this is good or bad.
Disappear, like. . . the police are now searching for them?
No like oh he's calling and texting, block...
in my opinion if you take a girl on 5-7 dates I think you've invested enough time into a girl to say hey this was fun, but lets just stay friends. I mean no reason to just throw it all away.
If a girl has a guy go psycho/ballistic/postal on her once over a break up. she will use that as an excuse for the rest of her life to simply ghost guys rather than doing the honorable thing.
Somehow I feel ike i'm the only guy that doesn't call a girl 29 times. I may call 4-5 times over say a 5 day period and maybe text a few times, but nothing like repetitive calling some guys do where they continue to call repeatedly for like 15 minutes straight until she answers.
Good take, very informative mister!
Nice mytake I liked the photos too.
His reply: Go fuck yourself.!!