"Men aren't meant to be monogamous, it's not in their nature"...True statement or bull excuse? (Page 6)

[Ironco]

I'm a submissive man and I was married to a femdom. We both new what we where doing and had. I was her cuckold, I didn't mind her taking on lovers, she would always come back to me to "reclaim" what was mine.

We knew what we were doing and enjoyed ourselves. I feel like monogamy wasn't and kind of worked for us at the same time. From a certain point of view. If this even makes any sense.

[anylolone]

Neither men, nor women seem to be made to be strictly monogamous, both seem very keen on mate guarding.

Remember that for most of our existence we had no knowledge of how kids came to be. We had to figure out that sex was part of that, and how it was part of that.

[AkshiJanjua]

Most of of the men will be monogamous after marriage.
So the person is making false statements

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Right!!

[Gorge95]

Read the book sex at dawn and you’ll realize that both men and women were not designed for monogamy. This isn’t just men but because of societal narrative we tend to think it is.

[vald9inches]

I will have to give that book a read 😊

[inthewasteland]

Bull excuse.

Men who dislike female promiscuity like to appeal to biology but quickly fall back to moralisms when realizing promiscuous women aren't at an evolutionary disadvantage, obviously.

[JesseJayNeak]

Bull excuses. F-boys and players are not born but made

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Right!!

[Nobuttsfortoday]

Dunno what that means but nature made it so that bees wanna pollinate as much beautiful flowers as they can to spread their seed and increase and multiply their speciesGirls are flowers guys are beesSimple logic says we was made by nature to impregnate as many chicks as possible

[Unknownpleasures93]

It’s complete bs. People that think like this are ignorant.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Right!!!

[Weasel1983]

Hey honey how are you. To answer most just can’t do it

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Which is fine.. If you're honest and upfront and stick to like minded people there's men and women that don't believe in monogomy, why not dick to those that have/share your beliefs than to lie it deceive or force your lifestyle on someone who's not okay with that

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

*stick not dick🤦🏼‍♀️😂

[Weasel1983]

Monogonomus for me would be no right now since l don’t have the girl to be monogamous with

[Nata2496]

It's definitely an excuse. Monogamous, Biblical marriages have been around and have worked for thousands of years. It's only now that modernity is causing both genders to turn away from monogamy.

[genericname85]

it is a true statement but that's no excuse to cheat anyway.

[genericname85]

I mean if you are an individual that has such strong urges to be polygamous, just find a partner that wants that too and consents with having several partners. You have all the possibilities these days. No reason to cheat on someone who wants monogamy.

[Better_off_here]

that is just an excuse for a cheater to try to get away with it and i would not put up with it at all.

[BrunoW692]

I disagree. Most guys do want to be monogamous, and the ones that aren't have been jade and hurt in the past relationships when they were. I was there, and done that.

[Humbletallguy6ft6]

You know what... I definitely somewhat agree with this statement. Men that have bad history With monogamy Decide that being monogamous isn't worth it. To most men being monogamous isn't worth it unless the woman is monogamous as well. And she's a virgin.

[Babygirl_S]

I think it's true especially for men who have had too many sexual partners. Such men can never feel fully satisfied with one woman. They always find some flaw in her to cheat.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

So then it's in that "person's" nature, not all men's nature, and not because they're a man because they're a POS

[Babygirl_S]

I guess you're right.

[Hulk30]

honestly i think it's both but it really depends on the context in which it's put

[Anonymous]

People with options will mostly try to explore. Most women are crazy for attractive and rich guys. They get way more attention so will be hard to commit. Women will date them irrespective of their bad reputation. Jokes changed girlfriends every month still they got more, shy nerdy guys get not a single one... not even similar girls, that's what I have seen in school, college and later in life.
It's just what it is, I have no complaints.

[Not_Average]

False. If a man’s mission is to score women, then that logic would apply. If a man’s mission goes past that, then he just wants a loyal woman who’s down for him

[vald9inches]

I don't think anyone was meant to be monogamous our instincts and evolution says otherwise but monogamy was a human invention or maybe even a religious invention that some people enjoy

[Gorge95]

It was there to create order but it’s far from natural for anyone indeed.

[Nagahime]

What idiot came up with this quote?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

One I know in real life, but have also seen idiots on here say that shit too🤣

[FamilyGuy2020]

I tend to think that it is true, but we all have free will in that we have choices and self restraint so I choose self restraint and choice over Animal behavior