Yes, girls, all men cheat! Get over it

[Unit1]

You won't find a man, who does not have or do *any* of the following:

• watch p o r n
• looks at other girls
• talks to other girls
• compliments other girls
• finds other girls pretty
• has dreams involving girls
• has no obligation to apologize to you after you had a bad dream in which he cheated on you
• has female friends
• has a crush on a cartoon or anime girl
• loves girls and women overall, it's not like he only loves 1 woman and the rest stop existing to him
• keep his passwords to devices and accounts to himself
• have an AI girlfriend

In the wisdom of Andrew Tate (here at 6:51) the only man, who doesn't cheat is a man, who can't cheat and there are plenty of them contacting you and you don't reply.

You've got a boyfriend or husband? Now you know what to expect. I may have violated our "bro code" with that though, so take it or leave it.

[Anonymous]

You didn't violate bro code cause I wouldn't be with anyone THAT insecure. Most of the stuff you listed is only considered "cheating" by extremely insecure people who have no business being in a relationship.

[Unit1]

Here you go, a MHO

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks dude

[Finchie40]

Not all men act on it though , just because we have thoughts and fantasies or we notice a good looking girl , it does t mean we are going to act on it , if that was the case , every single one of us including females’ would be a cheater , and in a sense we all are but just because we think someone looks attractive and catches our attention it does t mean we are going to act on it , especially if I already have a loving caring partner at home or by my side , only selfish people act on it because all they care about is themselves and they don’t know how to resist temptations , if I couldn’t resist
Temptations, I wouldn’t be in a relationship with a girl period because I would be lying to her face that I actually loved and cared about her. And yes we all have made mistakes one way or another , but we can either choose to learn from those mistakes or continue making the same mistakes over and over, so it’s up to each and everyone of us to determine and decide what we choose to do , whether we want to choose that someone or not. Relationships don’t have to be hard , selfish people make them hard. If someone wants to live their life lying to their partner and stringing them along , they will never experience true love so if can’t be honest with your partner , don’t expect them to be honest with you , if you can’t remove selfishness for your partner, don’t expect them to remove it for you. When 2 people choose each other over everyone else in this world , and make each other their top priority through the good times and the bad times they will more than likely experience true love. Resisting temptations shouldn’t be hard to do , if you actually love and choose your partner.

[SueShe]

Every single person in a relation, every single one is a cheater in a way or another. Anyone that has ever watch pornographic content, that has manipulated his/her body without the full knowledge or approval of his/her partner has cheated on his/her partner emotionally.

And that would include flirting, making compliments or any other deviant thought about someone else than the partner he/she is with.

[Finchie40]

Exactly whatever you can do behind your partners’ back , pretty much makes you a cheater , especially if you know it’s going to hurt your partner’s feelings which makes pretty much every single one of us a cheater , so no matter what you do behind your partners’ back gives your partner a right to walk away from your lying selfish ass , Most of us just ignore it and don’t make a big deal about it unless they try to act on it or acted on it. I don’t mind a partner checking someone else out, we have eyes that see , but I will mind if she acts on it and lose all respect for her. Basically what you don’t want your partner doing to you , needs to be the same boundaries for you as well, Not the other way around if you want your relationship to survive and for love to continue to grow between you both. If you only choose to love yourself and what you think is best for yourself , don’t expect someone else to choose you the same. You can love yourself as much as you want to but that doesn’t mean someone else is going to choose you if you can’t give the same way you want to receive.

[LaurenM1997]

I agree on this

[AviatorTom]

And which of these bullet items is cheating? Inquisitive minds would like to know.

You could make a similar list for women, just change "girls" to "guys and "females" to "males" ... does that mean ALL WOMEN CHEAT?

[Unit1]

You're asking me personally which of these bullet points i classify as cheating?

I don't have the relationship experience to compose a list of non-cheating activities, that the girls do, that makes them all Cheaters.

[Apple1996]

If you get a gay husband he won't do any of those things you listed lol

[TonyMetal___86]

This man is talking crap, i never cheat and i'm not gay 😏

[Apple1996]

@TonyMetal___86 you are a good man then

[TonyMetal___86]

Thanks miss apple 😌🍏

[KennethNoisewater]

I am really think on how to word this without sounding too mean. I’ll try my best.


I was hoping this was a weird joke but I can tell your serious. You imply it’s cheating if some had done anything on your list in the past. You do understand that the past (prior to relationship) wouldn’t be considered cheating, right. Before the relationship doesn’t involve you whatsoever.
Then you say that dreams are cheating. That is bat shit crazy. I don’t even know how you came up with that but it’s truly crazy. Have you never had a dream ever, about anything. If you can remember it you can probably remember that dreams just show up and they do whatever they want. It’s fun. It’s like a weird movie that your in. Dreams are made up fairytales. You really really shouldn’t get mad at someone for having dreams. It’s crazy. And to top it off, you then imply guys are trash because they don’t apologize for having them. Again, crazy. I would never apologize for a dream in which nobody but me was apart of it.
Did an ex of yours have a dream one time and you lost your mind over it? Is that what happened? I want to know how you even knew he had a dream. How did you know? Are you a mind reader? Or did that dummy tell you he had one. If he actually told you that, he deserved the crazy that I’m sure you released. Because if I was him I wouldn’t tell you anything because you would consider it cheating.
I want to keep going on your list but it’s honestly bumming me out. I don’t personally partake in THC but I really think you should you need to calm down and enjoy life. It’s not all about trashing guys because you are unbelievably insecure. It’s not all about sacrificing goats just to drink their blood. Go smoke a joint and chill TF out.

[Unit1]

I have summarized this list of what "some pinks" constitute as cheating. But then again, perhaps those exemplars of pinks are the type, that form their opinion off from Tik Tok.
I know, it's a mature topic, not for the "simple minds" and i already struck some sensitive nerves, just as I expected.

[Anonymous]

I’m a man who will debunk / answer the following:

watch p o r n Not cheating and there are women who do that too
looks at other girls Not cheating, you can’t just blindfold yourself so you can’t glance at the female gender as a whole
talks to other girls Not cheating if it is just friendly / not flirtatious in nature
compliments other girls Complimenting isn’t cheating, if someone is wearing an outfit they put effort into it is nice to compliment the outfit then move on with ur day
finds other girls pretty not cheating
has dreams involving girls not cheating since it isn’t real and dreams mean nothing
has no obligation to apologize to you after you had a bad dream in which he cheated on you Agree with, men / women don’t have to apologize on bad things that happen in your bad dreams
has female friends having friends is not cheating
has a crush on a cartoon or anime girl having a crush on a cartoon / anime girl is not cheating
loves girls and women overall, it's not like he only loves 1 woman and the rest stop existing to him ? If she knows you are into dating multiple women at the same time then not cheating though trying to justify it after not telling her is cheating 100%
keep his passwords to devices and accounts to himself why the Hell would that be cheating?
have an AI girlfriend If he is bored and has no one to cuddle with then AI chatbots though if it is prioritizing the AI over the real deal then cheating

Oof, that was long and stupid.

[LaurenM1997]

Agreed

[Opinion Owner]

@LaurenM1997 Thank you for having a brain unlike the Scarecrow over here lmao.
Sleeping with someone else, trying to sneak around and flirt with other people also not setting the ground rules prior & during the relationship is 100% cheating everything else can be placed in the morale bin or just slight douche moves not cheating…. Just really stupid.

[LaurenM1997]

Absolutely

[SueShe]

Thanks for mentioning a number of those reasons why I remain single and celibate and thank you for including you in that category of people.

At least I know what to think of you next time you answer a question and state something that goes against your own rules.

This is called hypocrisy and I am pleased to see that you are a standing member of that type of behavior.

Your kind is exactly what makes me never want to be in a relationship. I don't need to have to vomit every time I see a man in my presence, knowing that he is a cheater by birth.

[Unit1]

what rules?

[errorgoodnameunfound]

Wait... You're not a fan of MGTOW... But yet you like Tate? I think occasionally he has OK advice more so for self improvement, but his whole crypto and university scam thing turns me way off.

Anyways, I don't know about the whole "all men cheat" thing as I immediately assumed the direct cheating definition until I read more. If ALL of that list is equivalent to cheating, then yah I guess so. But I don't think even half of those fit the typical definition.

This also opens up a can of worms where women say "if you can cheat, we can too!"

[Unit1]

What has Andrew Tate got to do with MGTOW? He aired his perspective on MGTOW as in "the right idea but horrible course" if summatized.

[errorgoodnameunfound]

Ah got confused. Sorry. I don't know Tate enough to judge too hard in all honesty. But both he and the MGTOW people fuck uo at times. Nobody is perfect.

[FreyaRed]

".. In the wisdom of Andrew Tate.."

Oh boy, really? XD

[Lliam]

Right? LOL

[lil_will_12]

the problem with this is your definition of cheating, which is insanely extreme and stupid. “Loves girls and women in general” so a man is cheating on you bc he is attracted to women? That would literally be the reason a man gets with a woman in the first place💀 “Dreams involving girls”? Thats so broad in general, and dreams can't exactly be controlled.

so in your definition, the only man who does not cheat is a gay man. Oh dont make me laugh💀

also im like 80% sure andrew tate is very sexist, based off of the things I've seen from him, just gonna put that one out there🤷‍♂️

[PeachyPie93]

None of those things are actually cheating lol
The only ones I don't agree with and wouldn't date a guy that did this is:
If he goes around online or IRL complimenting women
If we live together and he won't share his passwords
If he has close female friends..
Other than that I don't give two shits but also you can find all that shit out before you actually commit to someone.

[Shamalien]

How is looking at other girls and talking to other girls cheating?

There are plenty of men who can cheat (cheating being kissing / fucking / nudes) hell there are men that don’t even watch porn either. I know because I’m one of them. Any time I’m in a relationship all of the sudden girls are more interested and want to take me, but I’ve never given in.

I don’t fk with whores so any girl that wanted to make me cheat would immediately turn me off to the point I couldn’t do it even if I wanted to.

Just because you have no control over your desires and actions doesn’t mean all men are weak like you.

[Anonymous]

Not true...

I don't watch p o r n, they are too sleezy, I prefer my imagination
I'm single, so I can look at other girls
Being single also allows me to talk to other girls
As a single man, I can compliment other girls too
Again, I can find other girls pretty, cause I'm single
Of course I have dreams involving girls
It's not a problem for me to apologize in most situations
Ok, I have female friends, so what?
I don't have a crush on a cartoon or anime girl
When it comes to relationships, I can love only one girl
Most people keeps their privacy
I don't have AI girlfriend

That said, I'm a virgin, never been in a relationship, all of my loves were unrequited.

That just shows that girls don't really value the traits you listed here.

[Lliam]

None of that shit is actual cheating. And only children have crushes on cartoon or anime girls.
Cheating is having sexual contact with another women behind your partner's back or having an on-line, sexual relationship with a real woman. And there are lots of men who don't do that.
Lots of men believe in love and honor. Lots of men are loyal.

[Snuggle_Bunnie]

I mean so do u think it's ok for this to be a true statement... and how do u expect for women to react to such a statement... how would u feel if someone made the same statement about females...( knowing that u have a women) and how do u think u would react to ur women after seeing, reading, or even hearing such a statement... would u then become a " Not My Women"... person... u should be careful what u say and who ur putting into these categories... not everyone is a follower... we do have people who want to be leaders

[PreferNot2Say]

Women actually cheat more than men. The difference is women think they're justified when they cheat, so they don't consider it "cheating". The days of claiming men are the cheaters are done. It takes very little effort to research this fact, but some are too afraid of what they'll find out about women are the real cheaters.

[Sirenboobzilla]

A.) I refuse to acknowledge Tate's words as wisdom of any kind.

B.) None of those things listed can be labeled as cheating. Sure, some of those will make some women uncomfortable, but that's it.

[Anonymous]

I don't have a girlfriend, but that's just because all of my loves were unrequited.

However, i would never cheat on her.

I don't watch p o r n
If I were in a relationship, I wouldn't looks at other girls
I would talk to other girls only if they asked me something
I wouldn't compliments other girls
Even if I think other girls are pretty, I wouldn't cheat
I can't pick my dreams
I always apologize
Female friends are not cheating
I never had a crush on a cartoon or anime girl
If I would be in a relationship, there would be only one girl for me
Everyone has a right to privacy, that doesn't mean cheating
I'm single and I don't have AI girlfriend

[mistiQ]

Not all men cheat and majority of what is listed ain't cheating.

[Unit1]

Correct. At least someone gets the context here.

[Anonymous]

if a man is willing to put his time, energy, resources and investment into a woman and willing to take a bullet for her and no one else, that's above and beyond any loyalty

unless a woman is willing to take a bullet for a man, it just ain't the same

[MizzArtFreak89]

Whoa, somebody woke up on the wrong side of the bed this morning. lol
Get a grip