Yep. I have my boyfriend, and that's it. Lol, have you seen the movie the wedding ringer? That'll be me at my wedding, hiring bridesmaids cause I just don't trust anyone to be my friend.
I’ve experienced this my whole liFe. Didn’t know there were others that were other that experienced the same. Do you bother trying to break the pattern? Or just accept a life’s of solitude, in self protection?
Maybe I will be able to in the future. I doubt it, but who knows. As of right now, I just don't feel like it's worth it to let people in. They only hurt you in the long run. This is just how I feel tho. You're entitled to your opinion.
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Thanks for this take. I can really relate to it. I've had a lot of bad experiences where people have taken advantage of me.
You're welcome. And same here. That's why it doesn't pay to let them in.
Yep. I have my boyfriend, and that's it. Lol, have you seen the movie the wedding ringer? That'll be me at my wedding, hiring bridesmaids cause I just don't trust anyone to be my friend.
Lol no I haven't seen it yet. I literally have 2 friends. And I've had them since I was 11 and 13. No other friendships seem to last.
It honestly sounds like you suffer from a lack of insight then.
You'll need to explain...
Defining people mostly in terms of whether or not they're going to hurt you is a poor way to go through life.
I'm not defining anyone. I stay to myself. Simple as that.
Pain and misery are a part of life. Only by increasing our own perceptiveness of others can we really deal with it in a meaningful way.
I get that. But at this point I've dealt with enough pain and misery to last a lifetime.
I haven't even finished the first paragraph and I already give it a A+
This is horrible, though understandable advice. The goal of life is not to feel nothing.
Guard up = protecting myself from hurt.
Good take! My guard is up a lot but for good reason.
Thank you. Same here.
I’ve experienced this my whole liFe. Didn’t know there were others that were other that experienced the same. Do you bother trying to break the pattern? Or just accept a life’s of solitude, in self protection?
I'm not in solitude, I just keep people at arms length. I have a set group of friends but I don't trust anyone 100%.
Exactly! Never let your guard down. It's for your own good.
And as for me too. And I keep at it.
Sad, but true.
People will always hurt you. It's up to you to find those who are worth suffering for.
This used to be my motto actually. I've guess you can say that I've just given up hope on actually finding that person.
this post is just... so emooooooo i remember when i was in 9th grade
Lol well I'ma bit emo so I guess it shows in my writing.
That sounds like a much too depressing way to live. No advancement without adversity. No guys, no glory.
*guts
I'm guarded. Many always make comments on it. It's like nigga you ain't shit.
Lol. Yea people always have something to say about it.
Yeah seriously
About everything
Feed the homeless and people will say something bad
I agree. People are never pleased.
What a load of scaredy cat waffle this is.
Shut it.
If you can't learn to trust people you're going to have a very difficult and lonely life ahead of you.
Maybe I will be able to in the future. I doubt it, but who knows. As of right now, I just don't feel like it's worth it to let people in. They only hurt you in the long run. This is just how I feel tho. You're entitled to your opinion.
This take was a bit hard to understand :/
Why is that?
It's a bit tacky. I took me to reread it one more time to understand it.
But very good effort :)
Hmm. Ok. Thanks.
You have merely met the wrong persons.
Maybe so. But those people have ruined it.
Point taken.
Amen to that.
Lol thanks.
I agree