Why You Should Never Let Your Guard Down (Page 2)

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Prettykangaroos Follow
Yoda Age: 30

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Thanks for this take. I can really relate to it. I've had a lot of bad experiences where people have taken advantage of me.

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- CHARismatic110
  
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  You're welcome. And same here. That's why it doesn't pay to let them in.
  
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- Prettykangaroos
  
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  Yep. I have my boyfriend, and that's it. Lol, have you seen the movie the wedding ringer? That'll be me at my wedding, hiring bridesmaids cause I just don't trust anyone to be my friend.
  
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- CHARismatic110
  
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  Lol no I haven't seen it yet. I literally have 2 friends. And I've had them since I was 11 and 13. No other friendships seem to last.
  
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Roycaryn Follow
Xper 7 Age: 30

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It honestly sounds like you suffer from a lack of insight then.

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- CHARismatic110
  
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  You'll need to explain...
  
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- Roycaryn
  
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  Defining people mostly in terms of whether or not they're going to hurt you is a poor way to go through life.
  
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- CHARismatic110
  
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  I'm not defining anyone. I stay to myself. Simple as that.
  
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- Roycaryn
  
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  Pain and misery are a part of life. Only by increasing our own perceptiveness of others can we really deal with it in a meaningful way.
  
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- CHARismatic110
  
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  I get that. But at this point I've dealt with enough pain and misery to last a lifetime.
  
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dantheman1118 Follow
Xper 6 Age: 41

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I haven't even finished the first paragraph and I already give it a A+

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kheserthorpe Follow
Master Age: 50

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This is horrible, though understandable advice. The goal of life is not to feel nothing.

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- CHARismatic110
  
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  Guard up = protecting myself from hurt.
  
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Hannah591 Follow
Guru Age: 31

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Good take! My guard is up a lot but for good reason.

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- CHARismatic110
  
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  Thank you. Same here.
  
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Grassclock12 Follow
Xper 4 Age: 44

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I’ve experienced this my whole liFe. Didn’t know there were others that were other that experienced the same. Do you bother trying to break the pattern? Or just accept a life’s of solitude, in self protection?

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- CHARismatic110
  
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  I'm not in solitude, I just keep people at arms length. I have a set group of friends but I don't trust anyone 100%.
  
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Unit1 Follow
Master Age: 31

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Exactly! Never let your guard down. It's for your own good.

And as for me too. And I keep at it.

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- CHARismatic110
  
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  Sad, but true.
  
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grashopper Follow
Yoda Age: 35

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People will always hurt you. It's up to you to find those who are worth suffering for.

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- CHARismatic110
  
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  This used to be my motto actually. I've guess you can say that I've just given up hope on actually finding that person.
  
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e92brah Follow
Xper 6 Age: 33

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this post is just... so emooooooo i remember when i was in 9th grade

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- CHARismatic110
  
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  Lol well I'ma bit emo so I guess it shows in my writing.
  
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Sixgun77 Follow
Yoda Age: 49

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That sounds like a much too depressing way to live. No advancement without adversity. No guys, no glory.

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- Sixgun77
  
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  *guts
  
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Anonymous
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I'm guarded. Many always make comments on it. It's like nigga you ain't shit.

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- CHARismatic110
  
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  Lol. Yea people always have something to say about it.
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  Yeah seriously
  About everything
  Feed the homeless and people will say something bad
  
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- CHARismatic110
  
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  I agree. People are never pleased.
  
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TheWiseOwl Follow
Xper 7 Age: 37

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What a load of scaredy cat waffle this is.

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- CHARismatic110
  
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  Shut it.
  
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- TheWiseOwl
  
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  If you can't learn to trust people you're going to have a very difficult and lonely life ahead of you.
  
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- CHARismatic110
  
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  Maybe I will be able to in the future. I doubt it, but who knows. As of right now, I just don't feel like it's worth it to let people in. They only hurt you in the long run. This is just how I feel tho. You're entitled to your opinion.
  
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YourFutureEx Follow
Master Age: 31

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714 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

This take was a bit hard to understand :/

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- CHARismatic110
  
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  Why is that?
  
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- YourFutureEx
  
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  It's a bit tacky. I took me to reread it one more time to understand it.
  But very good effort :)
  
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- CHARismatic110
  
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  Hmm. Ok. Thanks.
  
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Noxifer626 Follow
Yoda Age: 26

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You have merely met the wrong persons.

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- CHARismatic110
  
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  Maybe so. But those people have ruined it.
  
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- Noxifer626
  
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  Point taken.
  
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Blacknailpolish Follow
Xper 5 Age: 33

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Amen to that.

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- CHARismatic110
  
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  Lol thanks.
  
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Anonymous
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I agree

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