myTakes: Relationships

Everyone ends up in one of these. You are even sometimes blinded by the ''joy'' they give you. Those relationships (dating or friendships) suck the life out of you, it's better to leave as soon as possible before you...

*taps mic* is thing on? Hey all! It’s been awhile since I’ve written a Take. I don’t really have an explanation for my hiatus other than life. I plan to start writing on a regular basis again though so stay tuned! The...

This topic has been brought up numerous times and I keep seeing how men are linking together women and money and keep saying how women want their money. I want to make this clear once and for all: It's bullshit! NO, we...

I had sex with my boyfriend on our second date. That doesn’t sound like a big deal I know, but I was a 21 year old virgin who wanted to stay that way until my wedding day. Instead of walking down the aisle pure, I gave...

I met the guy around six months ago, when I was in my second year of university. Some kids in my dorm were having a party, and both of us happened to be there. When I first saw him, there was an initial attraction, but...

You finally have the courage to tell your crush about your feelings yet you are being rejected. That really sucks! But you can deal with it, can't you? It might be because of wrong timing When we like someone, we think...

I see this as such a common question/topic and it's truly such a hard thing to go through. This can be vice versa for relationships, doesn't just aim at boyfriend! :) The real thing is, don't stop your boyfriend from...

I've been dating for about 20 years and one thing no one ever tells you is that it is totally OK to be single for the rest of your life. I'm writing this myTake partly because I feel like ranting, partly because some of...

They say that problems that arise in adulthood are actually deep rooted in childhood and to overcome your weakness you should trace it back in childhood and try to understand what makes you act the way you act. So that's...

I’ve found myself surrounded by friends, family and people in general, in relationships. I’m happy for anyone who’s in a healthy relationship, but I know it’s not for me. When I was younger, I imagined myself in a...

I feel the pain. The pain that I've put you through, the pain that is imprinted in my head. I feel my chest tighten every time when something happens. I have the want to punch something every time I disappoint you, I...

Can I say that you don't need to be excellent at Communication to actually communicate. Communication is the staple ingredient that builds a foundation for any type of relationship to successfully work. Communication is...

Life sometimes teaches us unhealthy coping mechanisms while enlightening education steers us towards positive coping mechanisms. What I mean to say in the dating world when somebody hurts us we learn to shut down, run...

Some of you might remember my previous MyTake. This is basically a sequel so grab your reading glasses and enjoy. My previous MyTake: 11 Reasons Why I Support Interracial Relationships Although I love interracial...

It seems like common sense to trust someone when they say to you, this is who and what I am, take it or leave it, but some of us can't or won't believe people when they tell you or the world who they are. Some people have...

Some people have everything; a family, wealth, popularity, beauty, real friends and a bright future. But these people can still be unhappy, and no one other than them can actually understand the reason, they...

Hi everyone- I am 27, and today I will tell you the story of my life, and how I have recently come to terms with the clear reason behind why I have been single almost my entire life. Yes, you heard it right. I have been...

Let me preface by saying..... Interracial are beautiful. 1) They are literally a sign that there is less racism in the world. It shows that the person respects who they are with and don't care about what others have to...

Girls, sometimes the "It's not you but me..." is the truth. I’m sorry if you’re a guy and happen to read this, but it’s true. Of course, there are other possible cases like family issues etc. But in the majority of cases,...

How to be a bad boy Bad boys tell us no , they make us step outside of our comfort zone , bad boys are risk takers. They challenge us. But if you’re genuinely a nice guy , being a bad boy will be quite a challenge...