Why People Who Have Everything Can Still Be Unhappy...

[Anonymous]

Some people have everything; a family, wealth, popularity, beauty, real friends and a bright future.
But these people can still be unhappy, and no one other than them can actually understand the reason, they actually attack those people by calling them "ungrateful".

Well the truth is that they do sound ungrateful, especially if we compare them to people that were unlucky in some things.

But every person has different problems, right?

Let me explain to you why these people can be depressed.

At some point of our lives, we have all practised the art of displeasure. It's a very useful term to describe anything and everything when one is supposed to be happy but is not. Of course the truth is, there’s hope for us all. There are billions of people on our planet and clearly some are truly happy. The rest of us bounce back and forth between happiness and unhappiness depending on the day.

Depression or sadness do not care about social status, money, beauty etc. Things happen to all of us that can trigger bad thoughts and negativity.

Not everyone has the same problems. Some problems you may have is debt or something that you really want to do but you can't because you do not have enough money, or your insecurities about clothes that you can't buy, or that you maybe have to work like a maniac to be able to survive, anything that you consider important. For a person that has everything, a problem may be that their family do not pay attention to them or that they feel trapped in their house or that none except the people that they know talks to them because they seem unapproachable. Yeah it's true, some problems seem A LOT more important than others.

A person that has everything is feeling even worse when he\she is sad, and the reason is that since they do have everything they don't know what they can do to become happy. And they can't open up because they are afraid of being judged.

So before you start judging you should understand that everyone is different.

A person that may have everything you desire and is still unhappy, is not always ungrateful. He/she may just have different worries and pains than you.

- T.S

[zagor]

Whenever Richard Cory went down town,
We people on the pavement looked at him:
He was a gentleman from sole to crown,
Clean favored, and imperially slim.

And he was always quietly arrayed,
And he was always human when he talked;
But still he fluttered pulses when he said,
"Good-morning," and he glittered when he walked.

And he was rich—yes, richer than a king—
And admirably schooled in every grace:
In fine, we thought that he was everything
To make us wish that we were in his place.

So on we worked, and waited for the light,
And went without the meat, and cursed the bread;
And Richard Cory, one calm summer night,
Went home and put a bullet through his head.

[Anonymous]

You are so right!

[MartinMarinov]

dont have time to read it all, but long term happiness comes from within, external happiness like money are short term and would make you happy at first, but with time it would pass away. Making a lot of money is great, having nice life, less worry and deppresion, but let alone it does not make you happy, you can choose to be happy or not. You can even be happy if you get drugs and know that you gonna die tomorrow. Emotions are beautiful think, but also just chemical reactions in your brain, which you have control over if you know how.

[Kuraj]

People who have everything are just spoiled and bored out of their mind so they create non-issues in their head to whine about.

They might have different worries and pains than other people, but it is only because they don't have all the other more important and real things to worry about.

[Odysseas]

Just be frugal, that's the trick to happiness... Less is more.

[Sabretooth]

because they have nothing

[Sabretooth]

i've got a whole lot of THINGS

[GayHowellMeme]

Cool.

[VanyaLove]

Perfect sis!