She opens up to me, bad sign?

[Anonymous]

Is it bad when a girl 'opens up' to a guy?
I. e,. Friend zone

[SweedyPie]

Opening up to you means she is comfortable enough with you to share the innermost parts of herself. i don't believe that qualifies as being friend zoned, it just qualifies you as someone she trusts deeply, which puts you in a position above other guys who might want to be with her. What happens next would depend on your reaction to her trusting you. Try to be there when she needs you, a crying shoulder or caring hug when necessary and after a while ask her to a date, maybe the traditional dinner and a movie, see if she says yes or no and if she says no, then you'll know she only sees you as a good friend. But right now, the scale is still 50/50, so no worries!

[Weirdstuff]

Boy-friend. As a boyfriend, you are a romantic parnter AND a friend. So being friends with her is an essential part of a succesful (future) relationship. If you weren't friends and don't talk to each other, have fun, do stuff together, ... wouldn't that be a weird relationship to build a romantic relationship on? So don't panic, she opened up to you because she trusts you! You want your (potential) girlfriend to trust you, don't you?

[Asker]

Very good point, thanks.

[coffeprince]

Sounds like she trusts you, just didn't say anything or do behave in a way that will make you more of a friend than a love interest.. if that's your concern

[Asker]

like what?

[coffeprince]

So when you listen to her, dont give feedback just be an ear, and maybe a hug is ok because that can be a comforting and touching gesture, buts not overly complicated. Also if you give her feedback thats what friends are for, I always want my friends thoughts on the matter.. but if its a guy I like I'd want some reassurance with a hug lol

[DreamHope]

It can be a good thing. I open up about personal things to the guy I like.

[Asker]

Interesting, thanks :)

[CantHELPhimself]

It's not entirely a bad thing. It means she trusts you, and feels comfortable with you. You just have to know how to act like a man who is boyfriend material, instead of a shoulder to cry on.

[UniqueXD]

Not all the time
It dies show she trust you and she confines in you so tgoes are good signs but it can go both ways :)

[Anonymous]

It means that she isn't afraid to let you see who she really is. It's a good thing! Don't worry about it.