Would you date or marry a transgender person?

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Girls: Would you date a transgender man like 

Guys: Would you date a transgender woman, like,  

It is post-op

MyThoLoGy · Accepted Answer

I'd believe its easier for a transgender female that became a man to find a female partner since the whole vagina thing is no problem. The thing is, it is harder for a transgender male that becomes a female to find a male partner because of the penis that I think is not removable, if yes then ignore this opinion. As I know, no matter how attractive the girl is, the big part is sexual relations to reproduce and all that is removed. However, once they find a way to turn their penis into a proper vagina vice versa then these men/women wouldn't have a problem whatsoever. The women shown look amazing, can't tell they were men. Until they are in sexual contact. Some people might say a relationship is more than just sex but don't forget, the girl or the guy who switched gender as well as the potential boyfriend/girlfriend's body will start to want to do its job which is to reporduce. This is the only thing that can come in the way. This is the reason why I wouldn't date a transgender yet. Until they have completely perfected the method. I would become friends and support that person because I don't dislike that person at all.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No way. Never. Far too many issues to go against their biology. If I found out later after married them I would divorce.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I feel awful saying so, but I would not. As a straight woman, I only find myself attracted to penises, so a man without one does nothing for me sexually. I probably wouldn't date a trans man if he completely transitioned either, because despite having a penis, from what I've heard, there are still a lot of complications with using it that take away from the attraction for me. Not to mention, I am very attracted to masculine men, and a lot of trans men still have an air of femininity about them that I just don't find myself attracted to. I know it sounds awful, but I can't help what I'm attracted to :(

RedRain · Accepted Answer

I dont think so. I'm fine with transgenders but I don't think I'd date one because I've never felt attratcted to them.

LittleSally · Accepted Answer

I have to be honest and say that would make me feel uncomfortable - so no.

Bimbobambo · Answer

Nope. Im ok if people are transgender because its none of my business but I also dont want a relationship with them. doesn't matter for me if the inside is a Woman, the outside was a male. That means tougher skin, a penis (which is maybe gone but still), a manlier face, a manly bone structure, not feminine legs and ass, the tits are fake. And just the imagination in general that it was a male before turns me off so much. No! No I can't have a relationship with a transgender.

CityBoy773 · Answer

Sure. I don't care about who they were, but about who they ARE. If you're a female and was born a guy, as long as I'm seeing a vagina, all good.

I have a transsexual friend, am transsexual myself, and have dated one. Nothing different about her than my other gfs except body. No girl has the same body and her was unique all on its own.

AllThatSweetJazz · Answer

Yea, it could happen. If she wants to stay pre-op, we would probably need an open relationship, just because I can't imagine going the rest of my life without touching a vagina atm. Dating? Certainly, if she's cute then I don't care about a dick. Having sex with a mutilated/inverted penis seems like it would be weird though. I'd rather she stay pre-op unless it was already done before we met.

RationalMale · Answer

Who... who, on earth, would say yes to a question like that?

KHaskins · Answer

No, I would not knowingly date or marry a biological male who surgically altered himself to superficially resemble a biological female.

KleinTeef · Answer

It's likely that without knowing I'd obviously date them... but it's pretty likely that I wouldn't want to continue the relationship when I found out.

I wish transgender people could just let you know before hand.

chrisbigman · Answer

No, I would not date a person who is that confused about themselves. I'm sure I will get grief on this, but I don't care. Everyone has a right to their own opinion. I'm not saying I hate transgenders. I just wouldn't date/marry them.

nakedalligator · Answer

No I would not date a man who thinks they have transformed themselves to a woman. I would not knowingly and if I did unknowingly I would leave them as soon as I found out.

Anonymous · Answer

I guess if they have correct, functioning parts and they actually LOOK like the gender they wanted then yes?

but i feel like a LOT of people who switch never really look like the gender they wanted to look like

sugarvenomx · Answer

If he got a dick that works I don't care (assuming you mean a man born a woman right?). His past his past and I care about the person he is today:)

blondfrog · Answer

Sorry no would a girl date a transgender person? Girls are always busting guys chops for not dating them, but they themselves would not date a transgender person.

LovelySerene · Answer

Doesn't bother me, as long as they are also asexual

Alivo · Answer

There is absolutely no way in hell I would ever date or marry a transgender person!

madispute · Answer

I'd date either if I were physically, emotionally, and mentally attracted to them.

Lena19 · Answer

If I was single and I actually loved him, yes I would.

Stacyzee · Answer

No. That isn't my cup of tea but we could gladly be friends If possible.

SatoBlak · Answer

Well, God dammit.

DumpliingPrincess · Answer

I would definitely date a transgender man or woman.

Mcminamins123 · Answer

Well people are people and I'd like to think I'm open minded I wouldn't say absolutely no it depends on the situation just being honest

Anonymous · Answer

I would date a transgender male. If I found both their looks and personality attractive there's no reason not to.

Bards · Answer

Yeah I would. There are bonuses to it. They can relate to me more and I won't have to have kids.

meatballs21 · Answer

I haven't but I would consider it. It would depend a LOT on the individual person.

Anonymous · Answer

Terrible of me I know but I don't think I would. I respect trans people's identities but no I don't think I would want to date a transgender guy

Anonymous · Answer

No way, punk. I can befriend them but not date them

Anonymous · Answer

As a bisexual female. It would not bother me. I just have to be attracted to them first.

Notedkibbles · Answer

I would never date a transgender woman post op fuck that shit...

Anonymous · Answer

Welllll, seeing as I'm transgender myself, I believe the question sort of answers itself. Given that I'd be with a trans-womyn, hypothetically, rather than a trans-male, due to my being a lesbian.

Anonymous · Answer

No. Filler-Hell no, and I would be pissed if I found out later.

RandomStudent · Answer

No, I wouldn't, sorry

FlyingTurtle · Answer

No I don't think I could be comfortable with that.

Azara · Answer

If I have kids Id adopt anyhow, so no problem.

thechica · Answer

Noooo not for me. I won't

TheDevilInside · Answer

No. I like my man 100 percent

BelleGirl21 · Answer

No I definitely wouldn't.

Prof_Don · Answer

Honestly, no I wouldn't.

kangy · Answer

Nope I wouldn't.  Prefer 100percent man

Ihav2fart · Answer

I'd go on a date with one to pick his/her brain.

EPChristy · Answer

I like Dick with my Tits.

Anonymous · Answer

Nope nope just... Nope.

Your_boss960 · Answer

No I would never

justbanANNAz · Answer

no would not.

DontDropIt · Answer

No I wouldn't

RachelBrigs · Answer

No I wouldn't.

BertMacklinFBI · Answer

yeah I would.

RationalLioness · Answer

Nope. Not at all.

Yesterday_Today · Answer

I'm nobody to judge but no i would not.

joandjames · Answer

Absolutely!!!

Anonymous · Answer

If I know about it, the answer is no.

NExPats12 · Answer

Don't think I can.

Jersey1 · Answer

No, I wouldn't.

RaCeRKiD5 · Answer

nonononononono

Anonymous · Answer

I couldn't do it

Anonymous · Answer

Not knowingly, no.

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