First of all you have racist parents. There's no way around that. People on here may disagree, but I don't give a fuck. Doesn't mean they are bad people, but that's what they are if what you're saying is true.
As for dating a black guy you're an adult. Your parents need to understand that. At this point they are there to give you advice and support you. Not to make your decisions for you. You make your own decisions. If you want to date a black guy then that's your decision and they need to understand that. You're a grown up now. Also, they should as parents want the best for you. That best may be a black guy. If he takes care of you and treats you like you should be treated then there shouldn't be any reason as to why you shouldn't date him.
I say do as you please. They can't force you to not date a black guy if that's what you want. It's selfish of them to have that kind of mindset. "Don't want black grandkids." Smh.
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You know where they stand. Either respect their decisions or be hardheaded and go against them. You'll fuck your relationship with them but you'll be able to say I did it my way. It's not racist. Most parents don't want their kids going with another race. What's wrong with wanting you're whole family to be the same colour. There's kids end up hating their mothers because they look different from them. I've seen it with my own two eyes. They have troubles with identity and where they belong. The two boys I'm thinking of are both on anti depressants and hate both their parents coz they're singles our in the street and alienated. They're only just out of their teens. But go ahead, spite everybody and do what you want. You're the only one that matters eh
Undermine your parents it's as simple as that. They'll either warm up to the idea and get over it or they won't and they'll be furious at you but they can't control you. You're an adult, it's your life, and you can do as you please.
Hopefully your parents can see that if you ever do date a black man or a guy of any race really that as long as he really does love you and right by you then the color of his skin doesn't matter and if that doesn't work and you fall in love I know what your mom said but her grandchildren will win her as well as your dad over but before they come (if they come) just remind them that regardless of their skin tone that they're just as much white as they are black.
Well, don't start world war iii at home if you aren't dating a black guy yet. Hypothetical situations are usually treated with much more severity than actual situations. You really can't change your parents. They are older and set in their ways. If you one day actually do date a black guy you just go up to your parents and tell them the guy you are dating is a very loving and sweet guy and respects you for who you are and you don't see why your parent's racism should stand between you and your happiness and if they really love you they should be happy for you and support you because skin color doesn't determine a person's personality.
If you date a black guy and subconsciously you're doing it to piss your parebts off thats racist. I guess this is more of a hypothetical "what if" date him all rules be damned your parents might dis-own you but at least you two would hopefully love each other a lot.
Racism is kind of like religion, in the sense that it's almost impossible to change a person's standpoint. If you ever happen to fall for a black guy who has also fallen for you, then there's nothing THEY can do about it. Just date him. Fuck what they think.
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If talking to them about it already hasn't worked... nothing will
you'll just have to choose between compromising yourself or your family. Thats a choice your going to have to make on your own. Remember its not about the right choice, its about the choice you can live with
Good luckYour parents are racist. Their reaction to a black man as a possible structure the family, says it all.
Pretty much u have two choices:
1) follow your parent's wishes and only date your race.
2) date who u want against ur parents wishesYou're an adult now. Be an adult. Don't be racist yourself by choosing a person BECAUSE he's black, but don't reject him either. Again, you are an adult. Your choices are YOUR choices. You should make good choices, but that doesn't mean that they should be your parents' choices, and I say that as a parent myself.
Girl, if you want marry a black dude then do it. If your parents really love they would accept it because he makes you happy. If they can't then it is their problem not yours
You don't need to convince them. You just do it. Stand up for what u want. They'll love u o matter what
Just wait till they die off then you won't have to hear this shit. They are racisrt cunts who are using the guilt card by claiming you can date outside of your race. Typical white man behaviour honestly
Fuck your parents. To hell with them. If you want to be with him and he treats you nice and you're a good couple then go for it. He's just as great for you as any white guy.
Once you go black, you never go back. I am not kidding that's as true as it gets.
Your 18-24 so what ever makes you happy is the key. You just can't run your life by what other people think of you... Life is short.
just tell him once you go black you dont go back!!!
Tell them his massive dick is more satisfying to you.
Get pregnant, then they won't have a choice.
You're grown, do what you want.
Keep an eye on your purse, by the way.
You don't... they're bad people
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