Cold feet! Should I surprise visit my LDR girlfriend on valentines day (it would be our first meeting!)? (Page 2)

Question

So I met this girl online. We've been talking for nearly a year, and we talk ALL the time... which is difficult considering the time difference. We are CRAZY about each other. She adores me and I adore her. I was due to fly over and meet her just before valentines day, but she had to postpone it until March. She is finalising her plans to come stay with me in March.

However, I have planned to fly over there and surprise her for valentines day. She thinks we are just going to Skype on the day. Instead she will receive a bouquet of flowers with a note inviting her to meet me at her favourite restaurant that evening. I thought this would be a better idea than just turning up and catching her completely off-guard. This would be our first meeting. 

Anyway, I'm due to fly out Wednesday, but suddenly I'm worried its not a good idea now. I wish I could talk to her about my plans as I'm a bundle of nerves and stress. I'm worried I'm going to be so anxious I'll ruin my chances with her. I'm thinking I should cancel flights and wait for her to come here so we can talk about it and comfort each other? Maybe we would both be better prepared and more relaxed with each other? Or am I just getting cold feet lol?

Any advice appreciated...

FilthyPervert · Answer

No. She will probably think you are a stalker and hate it. Discuss it beforehand and make arrangements so everyone is calm and happy about it.

Sunflower19 · Answer

Oh my goodness! I think this is super sweet!! 😃I think you should go through with it:)

orphanedmind · Answer

I'd make sure she knows, since this will be your first meeting.

abundantlyrich · Answer

Make sure she isn't busy that day when n you walk in to see her

xiuwen · Answer

I think u should fly to her. It will be the nicest gift to her on valentines day

BrianSmith · Answer

Surprise her, she'll love it.

skeptic007 · Answer

you wanna see if she's cheating

Anonymous · Answer

What was her reasoning for holding off til march?

Bowshots86 · Answer

Do it she'll love it

Jared____ · Answer

Sure man go for it🙂

Cold feet! Should I surprise visit my LDR girlfriend on valentines day (it would be our first meeting!)? (Page 2)

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