Girlfriend accidentally sent me a shady text meant for someone else, her excuse seemed decent but I'm still worried, should I ask for a screenshot?

[Cippy]

She's mentioned the teacher thing before, Joe is her friend, but it seemed very sketchy. Am I just being irrational since the origional text scared me so much, especially her saying "wrong person" or what?

[Anonymous]

I don't think it's irrational. I personally have had a close, trusted male friend and once or twice nipples did come up in conversation. We were completely plutonic and there wasn't anything sexual about the messages at all, but taken out of context they might have looked that way. In my opinion, if you are worried, talk about it.

You guys are in a relationship and trust is very important, and if you have concerns, mention them. (By this I don't mean up and accuse her of cheating) Just go to her and say "The message you sent me sort of bothered me, and it would make me more comfortable if I knew the context surrounding it, but If you don't want to show me I will respect that because I trust you."
If you say it calmly and in a nonconfrontational way she will probably show you. And if she says no just say ok and leave it at that. (If she doesn't that doesn't automatically mean she's hiding something) I personally hate it when people read my texts, just because it was a conversation with someone else. I hope everything goes well

[Darkfairie17]

So, she's sending a person who isn't her boyfriend pictures of her tits?

Even if that 'gay joe' is just a friend of her's, that still seems super shady! I would never send pictures of my body to friends of mine, especially if I was in a relationship. Even if it's to girl friends of mine and even though I am straight. Because I feel like my boyfriend would be upset and I wouldn't want to hurt him.

I personally would be keeping an eye on things. If your gut is telling you that something is up, it's usually right! That text was extremely shady.

I think the best thing to do is to keep and eye out for more red flags. If you are bothered by this, speak up!

[Cippy]

From what I can gather she sent a pic of the teachers nipples or nipples through the shirt?

[Darkfairie17]

Right, read it again and I can see what you mean. But still, that is kind of weird to be taking pics of someone's nipples :S

[bbch25]

I think if she gets defensive that's even worse. If it is truly a simple laughable mistake then why would she not want to show you the original conversation and be like "see I told Joe and he found it funny I showed you". Or whatever. But I too think it's a bit weird, even if she does talk about her teachers nipples (just.. what), to ask someone else "would mine look hot like that" seems a bit weird and is something on it's own worth discussing.

[Peachhhfuzz]

Her excuse is way ridiculous and does not make sense. Definitely ask for screen shots and if she ways that they were erased or something or gets offended then that's a pretty good sign to end things.

[Peachhhfuzz]

Even if she sent her teachers nipples there is no reason to bring her own nipples into the conversation or ask someone else if they would look hot

[Cippy]

Do you think its worth the inevitable argument of me not trusting her. It seemed very shady.

[Peachhhfuzz]

You have a very good reason to lack trust. If she turns offensive then something is up.
If I were her I would reassure my boyfriend that there is no foul play and present the evidence. You are not being unreasonable

[TheCaledonian]

That's fishy as fuck. The fact that she's replying in multiple short sentences seems as though she's trying to patch together some fake story. Exercise caution.

[Cosytoasty]

'Gay' Joe... how convenient.

Go ahead ask her, but I'd still be keeping a very very close eye on the girl.

[Cippy]

He is her friend and he is gay, I know him, but her use of him is whats questionable. The situation might be the truth but the person might be interchangable

[Cosytoasty]

Yeah that was the other use I was thinking of too. What you can do is message this Joe fella and ask if it's true without alerting her.

[Najii]

I don't know why people send a message instead of a pic, it really doesn't make any sense. I only send screenshots if anything seems to be a problem for my boyfriend

[Cippy]

See, that would make things much easier

[Najii]

I wouldn't want to make you suspicious about her but i would feel very suspicious if i received a text rather than a screenshot, and i would straight up ask him to send me the screen shot. You should ask for the screenshot because if it was by mistake then you wouldn't wanna continue doubting on her

[Mustachekitteh]

Ask for a screen shot and tell her you still don't trust her answer.

[Cippy]

is that out of line, make it seem like I don't trust her. Will it cause problems?

She uses snapchat a lot, what if there is no screenshot?

[Mustachekitteh]

Nm you did post it.

[Mustachekitteh]

The fact that she's doing something shade will always cause problems.

[Cippy]

Yeah I guess, I don't want her to think there is no trust but given the cirmstances and her saying "wrong person" that was a very poor choice of words

[Mustachekitteh]

I'm sure if the situation was switched and you talking about your dick being her. She would probably feel the same way you do atm.

[spuitkaas]

Ask for a screenshot. It's really shady. If the story is true then a screenshot wouldn't be a big problem for her. Especially if you know her friend.

[selmo93]

That is a weird type of convo. But suppose might be friends as i have friends like that

[Cippy]

But it kinda seems like a coverup

[selmo93]

Well maybe they have conversations like that?
my lesbian friend has got her boobs out for me in front of my boyfriend before.

[JC103]

Prepare for the worst and keep that pimp hand strong.

[Cippy]

I mean its all stuff that has been mentioned before but still has me on edge

[JC103]

Then give her a ultimatum; prove your innocence or I'm leaving

[fauchelevent]

Yeah, that's pretty shady.

[Cippy]

Should I ask for a screenshot or would that just cause arguments?

[fauchelevent]

I think you asking for a screenshot is understandable though it may cause arguments if she gets defensive.

[Sunflower19]

Get that screenshot 📷

[MaiNameIsSunshine]

It's shady af!

[Cippy]

Right? And she got mad when I followed it up and argued

[MaiNameIsSunshine]

It's really suspicious, confront her again because that is honestly not okay... Why is she asking such sexual questions to someone who is not you, shadeeeee!

[cth96190]

Forget about it.

[Cippy]

You think its best, feel its gonna play on my mind

[cth96190]

You are reading far too much into this situation.