Have you ever hit your boyfriend?

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so my boyfriend upset me, I feel like I was right to be angry but I hit him. It wasn't a playful bit it was out of anger and I feel really bad. Even though it didn't hurt him he started ignoring me a bit. How do I make it up to him. This was my first time getting physical with him.

This_is_my_username · Accepted Answer

You should feel bad. No one has the "right" to hit anyone. Especially if the only argument they have is Becuase I was "angry" never lay your hands on anyone unless provoked and in danger. Your boyfriend is probably feeling a little or a lot betrayed by what you have done. I mean come on you're supposed to love him not hit him. even when you guys are arguing. There's not much you can do except apologize and make it up to him and not do it again. That is if he still wants to get back Togeather with you.

kaylaS91 · Accepted Answer

I've never hit my boyfriend outside of a playful context.
I don't think there's anything you can do to make it up to him... Nothing can fix the fact that you lost self-control to the point that you hit him in a moment of anger, with the fact that you didn't actually hurt him being beside the point.

Stress to him that you're very sorry and that you'll work on controlling your emotions better. Aside from that, the ball is in his court as to how he'll react.

Prettygurl12 · Accepted Answer

I have. On accident.

I'm not entirely sure how I even reached his nose considering it's a foot above my head.

We were play fighting. Like... punching the air in front of each other... and I misjudged the distance and accidentally punched him directly in the nose. His nose bruised.

But... now he knows I have a mean right hook.

But he now tells everyone I have a mean right hook lol

caligirl03 · Accepted Answer

Even though he was probably not that physically- or even emotionally-harmed by it, we have to hold ourselves to the same standards we hold men. That means upholding a certain level of self-control and respect in all circumstances. Just say you're super sorry and won't do it again... then don't. Maybe bake him a cake or something, too haha

Applefan1 · Accepted Answer

You need to apologise to him and don't be surprised if he acts cold towards you because you have made him question if he can trust you. When it is a woman hitting a man it is still abuse. You being angry at him is no excuse to hit him.

joeb73 · Accepted Answer

if you have a history of this behavior then you might need to see someone for anger management so you dont eventually get thrown in jail

TrainwreckAdvice · Answer

No, I haven't but I've jumped him from the back and put him in a rear naked choke. He didn't even tap out😢 Just flipped me over his back and laughed at my false sense of strength. But back to your situation, tell him your ashamed of your action and plan to never repeat it. That's all you can do, what's done is done.

Luv2BRealExotic13 · Answer

You didn't hurt him, but I suppose you hurt his feelings. Yet he hurt your feelings first I guess it was a little dramatic to hit him. Apologize for hitting him he can either take it and you guys talk it out or what have you.

1975Chocolate · Answer

Well, I never had hit my boyfriend that wasn't in a playfully manner.
However, I am not sure how you could make it up to him, or how you can make this better, but you should say that you are sorry to him. Where did you hit him at?

kushfeelings · Answer

I alwayssss hit him , slap him , bite him , your boyfriend needs to get over it lol my boyfriend used to it infact he thinks something wrong when i dont bite him haha

Sara413 · Answer

We play fight but I have never ever hit him seriously and never ever would. He doesn't hit me either.  Grown ups don't express their anger through hitting...

bostonceltics10391 · Answer

Men should not hit women. Women should not hit men. Don't hit anyone, simple as that. You better apologize to him and don't ever hit him again.

NotTheFBI · Answer

Better watch out, he might call you out for domestic abuse :v Come on people, don't be hitting yo spouses... that shit ain't right... Talk to him and make it right.

Cosytoasty · Answer

I'd say stand there and let him sock you one back, but seriously just apologise to him and mean it. Try not to let it happen again.

AleDeEurope · Answer

"It won't happen again" that's what all abusers say.

AzureGirl · Answer

I never have. Just apologize and try not to hit him again.

Sunflower19 · Answer

I wouldn't ever. It wouldn't be right. Abuse goes the same way for girls as it does guys.

Anonymous · Answer

Wow he got all bent out of shape from a smack on the arm? I have not nor have I felt the need to however, my freinds girl did bite him out of anger.

orphan · Answer

most girls hit like girls. do you have any boxing, martial arts training etc? where did you hit him? did you do any damage?

Anonymous · Answer

Woah you violent women 😱 Nahhh don't worry he'll get over it. When the air's cleared just go up to him and look at him with sad puppy dog eyes and say sorry and kiss him

Anonymous · Answer

You're going to have to give him like the best 5 bj's of his life to make up for that...

parisdale · Answer

then you're not mentally healthy..

CHARismatic110 · Answer

Nope.

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