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Your 18, tops? So I would say "serious relationship "might be a slightly skewed definition 4 U", so while YES it's wrong to follow through with the intent of the game! Unless you like your boyfriend smooching other people, then you're just messing around... Now it's not right and can be hurtful, but if you must have whatever fun you like, then by all means... When you find someone you care about, your feelings should be quite different though, otherwise it's unhealthy! That's my opinion. I wouldn't have the desire to make out in the closet or whatever with someone if I was in a REAL relationship! Just consider that and make your own call. Your a big girl, you can make the right call! :)
I probably should have been more clear in my question, I think, but I'm not asking because of a personal situation, I simply wanted to find out people's opinions. This has absolutely nothing to do with my own life and relationship (which I do consider both real and serious, by the way). This was simply me asking how people would react to the situation themselves. Thanks for sharing your opinion :)
your welcome, demons! I got'cha now!
I'm an atheist that follows the Golden Rule! And I don't want me lady sucking on some dudes tonsils! LOL! So, I personally would not do it, but try not to appear like a prude either! I'd kiss her on the cheek if the bottle made me do it (I'd tell my partner... as dumb as I felt doing so!) LOL! :) :)
Fair enough, thanks for commenting! :)
It depends, because a relationship's rules are decided upon within that very relationship. An open relationship is also a relationship, and in the case of one it'd probably be okay.
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No, it's not okay lol. The whole point of being in a monogamous relationship is to give intimacy, sincere or not, to no one else but your partner, and to expect the same in return. If they did it, they're not taking the responsibility of being in a relationship, and they're being unwise and immature. If they want to make out with other girls, they shouldn't be in a closed relationship.
That is, of course, if their partner is unaware of weird bottle spinning activities, or hasn't okayed shallow flirting.
Fair enough. Thanks for commenting! :)
No problem! :) And this is just my opinion in theory. Every situation is different lol and I get it if I sound pretty extreme :P Just do what feels right.
I mean if he's given you the okay to go ahead... it isn't a big deal, but if you're asking my own personal opinion, I don't think it's a great idea for the relationship unless both of you 100% support the idea... even then I don't recommend it
Fair enough. Thanks for giving your opinion! :)
You need to discuss it as a couple and decide whether or not you want to allow it, and if so, to what extent. Otherwise, the assumption should be that it's not okay.
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If your bf/gf is okay with it, then yes. For me, it would be a no. I would not be okay with my boyfriend playing the game. I would not play the game either.
Fair enough- what about if you're both playing? Or if it was strictly a kiss on the cheek thing? What would be your thoughts then?
Nope. None of that. I'm not a jealous girlfriend or anything, but I just don't like the idea of it all. Sure, playing spin the bottle is fun, but it's a game for singles.
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You're welcome. :)
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in my opinion, yes it is okay, but only if you apply the same rules to playing beer pong if you don't drink alcohol.
you can play beer pong, but have someone else drink your losses for you.
you can play spin the bottle, and not do shit lol.
if they don't accept your terms then just don't play.
Do you mean play but not play? Like sit in the circle but not kiss if it's your turn?
yes, because otherwise that would be cheating.
I'm only playing devil's advocate here, but what's the point in playing if you're not going to kiss at all?
if you have fun then thats all that matters.
when I play beer pong I shoot and have fun and my friend drinks for me, shit all works out without me having to drink.
if you can still have fun playing spin the bottle and laugh with your friends while not participating the kissing then all the more power to you.
Fair enough! Thanks for your opinions! :)
No, kissing someone else while in a relationship, even for a stupid game, is still cheating.
What if your partner says it's okay?
Even if your partner says it's totally fine by them for you to kiss someone harmlessly in spin the bottle?
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Yes, regardless. Weather you play or not is your own choice. Also, if the bottle lands on you and you have to do something sexual, you don't have to do it because the bottle says so. If you do it, you'll do it because you want to.
Weather or not your partner is on board depends on your relationship. Still, you decide yourself if you'll tell him. So if you want to go and bang a bunch of guys because the bottle told you to, just do it. It's clearly fulfilling your needs.
If you aren't married. . . if you have boyfriend you should probably get his OK to play (or let him play in the same game as you are playing), but it's just kissing, so it's no big deal because (a) it's just kissing, and (b) it isn't kissing like you are have a romantic interest in the other guy (s), it's just part of playing a silly game.
it depends on whether or not your boyfriend is ok with it. the fact that your asking suggests that your boyfriend isn't ok with it (as many partners wouldn't) and therefore it is not ok
While you make a fair point, I do want to clarify that I'm not asking for a personal problem, I'm simply curious as to what people's opinions are, that's all. Thank you for commenting! :)
well then remove the you parts and just take it as general.
if partners are ok with their partners kissing others than spin the bottle is fine. but if not then spin the bottle is definitely not cool
Thanks for the tip, I'll be sure to try and avoid the confusion next time! And fair enough, thanks for sharing your opinions! :)
I think that it really depends. It depends on the people you're playing with, your partner, your relationship expectations, and your intentions. Maybe if you're partner is playing then it would be okay. Maybe if you were playing with a group of the same sex and you identified as straight it would be okay. Maybe if your intentions were to have fun and not anything further it would be okay. Maybe if your partner has installed a lot of trust in you it would be okay, but ultimately it is up to you and your partner.
Why on this website we go from is it okay to give a blow job to a stranger, to is it okay to spin the bottle? There should be a split on this website regarding age group or IQ
I agree, an age filter would be cool, although I'm a little confused by the tagged on 'IQ'. Would you mind elaborating? :)
I just threw that out. And it's because some people ask what I consider idiotic questions and they are old enough to know better. So I blame it on IQ or education. I'm possibly wrong but when a 36-year-old guy asks why is it that so many girls don't reach orgasm from sticking my Dick into them,? And they don't know the location of the clitoris, then I feel IQ or education should be a dividing point. Sorry for the confusion
Ah, I see. Well, with the question you used as an example, there are genuinely many men of all ages that are unable to locate the clitoris (as far as I have heard!), so though that might be slightly related to the whole education thing, when people ask those sorts of questions, we can then educate them, and teach them stuff they need to know, that sex ed and internet searching hasn't taught them haha.
Nope. The only lips my future boyfriend will be kissing is mine. Those type of games are for single people or people in open relationships (iiiiffff they are into that sorta thing).
Good answer. Follow back pls
Fair enough- thanks for sharing your opinion! :)
When you were 11-13 that was okay but to many people are in relationships by your age, so I think it is not cool for someone to suggest playing that game at a party.
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No problem... have a good one!
No. Not acceptable. I would consider kissing another person as cheating doesn't matter if it's a game.
What if your partner okays it? Or if your partner is also playing?
Still not ok. I wouldn't be ok with it, so it's still cheating.
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Unless you have an open relationship, that sort of thing is cheating.
What if you're not in an open relationship, but your partner has okay-ed it?
Some relationships are more open than others. It is about not violating the set of standards for your personal relationship with each other.
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Ughh.
Finnne. If she REALLY wants to she gets a pass. A kiss on the cheek.
But I'm watching her.
https://i.imgur.com/pRHJNSl.gif
Haha, fair enough- thanks for commenting! Also I seriously love the gif haha :)
Nooooo! It can get naaasty ! Naaah
If He told me they're playing it, I would laugh and say His funny.
What if you were both playing, or it was a strictly kiss on the cheek policy?
hahahaha if You're both playing doesn't change the fact it could get nasty... "Spin the bottle " is NOT an innocent game. For me personally I wouldn't like my guy kissing another girl... changing glances. .. or any girl on guy dare stuff.
And I seeeeeen how that game end up bad for couples and I've seen 2 roads of it:
1. She's not ok with it but He says He want too so She says "ook" cause He''ll play it anyway or be maad at Her, than He kisses someone or flirts or some other stuff and than or She's like a sad puppy cause She's hurt and He doesn't even want to see that or She causes a maaayor scene bla bla bla...
2. The both play He kisses someone and everyone is happy than She kisses someone or other stuff and He gets pissed off cause She's getting more or at the other guy comment on Her being hot or something... aaand than it gets nasty...
I suppose that all makes sense- but what if it was strictly kiss on the cheek though? Do you think that would change it, or is it better not to play at all, regardless?
I don't really see the problem, it's not like the kisses would have any intention behind them other than being part of the game? who even plays that game though? lol
Thanks for your opinion! As for who plays that game, I'm not sure, as I've never played it, but I imagine it's a normal part of parties until you're like 15, and then it's brought up as a joke when people are drunk hanging out from then on. I don't know if that's true, but that's how I'd imagine it going haha, given what they do in movies etc haha
Hmm I've never even heard someone mention it irl since I was like 5 years old hahaha.
But I voted "It depends" - basically if you all know it's not serious at all and it's not going to lead to anything, then sure it seems fine.
Haha, really?
That's fair enough- thanks for commenting! :)
To me personally yeah no big deal but apparently 52% of people gave an explicit "No" haha.
I think if your significant other is there and participating also that it would be okay, but otherwise, no.
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You're welcome! :)
If your lover okays it, then I suppose not. But I personally am not okay with my man kissing other girls.
Fair enough. Thanks for your opinion :)
If you're in what's called an open relationship, yeah sure. If not, you have to ask your partner but as a general rule of thumb I'd say no
Thanks for your opinion! :)
No problem 😄
How about spin the bottle chores addition? Whichever person you land on your have to clean a room with each other. Might loose some friends but hey your house is clean 😉😂
That is not a bad take on this game haha
Haha I wonder how long people will stay tho
haha, probably not long
I'd think I somehow teleported back to middle school.
What do you mean?
that's the last age demographic I was in that played "spin the bottle". Not at 18. Maybe it's different in the UK, I don't know. :)
Ah, I see. I've never actually had a chance to play 'spin the bottle', but in any case, I was just curious as to people's thoughts on the whole thing haha :)
It depends on what kind of relationship/partner you have. If you know it would be a problem avoid it or talk about it and change it.
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Not if you are kissing other people and stuff like that
No why should you be kissing or banging other people that's not being faithful
Spin the bottle (to the best of my knowledge) has never been about banging people? But fair enough, thanks for commenting! :)
It depends on if you're both ok with it or if you are in an open relationship
Yeah, that's true haha, thanks for sharing your opinion :)
No just for me. I've never played it at all. Way too uncomfortable for me kissing someone I'm not in a relationship with.
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No problem ^^
so nowadays what happens when the bottle lands on two girls? or two guys?
No idea as I never played the game. But I assume you'd do it? I don't know though
Why is it gross?
Ah, I see what you mean. But even with a guy and a girl, you could still wind up kissing someone you're not attracted to?
If u do especially if your a girl or a guy its wrong and cheating
What if your partner okay-ed it though?
I'd consider it if we're both gonna play.
Sounds fair enough to me! Thanks for commenting :)
No problem honey.😊
Not in mine. Fuck no.
Why the absolute no?
Because I wouldn't feel comfortable with it and he would already know that kissing other chicks would make me feel uncomfortable. I also view that as cheating and make it very well known to him what my thoughts are on matters like that.
Fair enough- thanks for sharing your opinion! Just quickly curious, would you mind as much if it was strictly cheek kissing? :)
That would still make me uncomfortable.
Fair enough :)
If you're both playing it, it's OK
Fair enough- thanks for commenting! :)
18 seems too old to be playing spin the bottle.
They play it at the age of about 30 in 'Friends' (yes I recognise that that is a fictional situation). In any case, I don't think there's an age limit on having fun, especially if it's nostalgic. For the record though, I've never played spin the bottle. Also, you haven't really answered the question with this statement. :)
if it's an open relationship
Fair enough. Thanks for commenting! :)
Play is always a play
Would you mind explaining what you mean by that? I'm a little confused! :)
Aha.. that you are playing... it is not serious what you are doing playing with the bottle... I know, it could come out kiss someone... but you are not kissing him with passion for true just for fun... unless you are playing that game because u are into someone of the players... then it could be considered betraying
Ah, now I get haha. So, if you're only playing for fun, it's okay? What if your partner says they're not okay with it?
My way of thinking is pretty logical... without sentiment... it is not so easy to separate play from reality
You can spin the bottle, but you can't kiss.
Where would be the point in playing if you're not gonna kiss?
What's the point of having a relationship if you are going to kiss other guys?
Touche haha. Would you say that if your partner is playing with you or has okay-ed it, then it's okay?
If they have no problem, then it's not a problem.
Fair enough, thanks for commenting! :)
Only if you two are involved
As in both of you are playing in the game?
That makes a lot of sense, thanks for commenting! :)
We would do that at a party if it came up.
It is something to do!
Would you mind elaborating? I'm a little confused! :)
Something different to do, as opposed to strip poker, truth or dare, etc
Ah I see haha
.. it is a FUN something to do!
I'm sure it is, but you haven't really answered the question. Would you be okay with it if your partner told you they were going to play Spin the Bottle at a party?
Oh! sorry. Id be more than OK with it.. Id love it if she played. We've talked about this (we never thought of playing spin the bottle) She gets horny about all the possibilities.
Haha, it's cool- thanks for sharing your opinion! :)
Of course not
Why the 'of course'? And what if your partner okays it?
Then he's right 😋
I was just voicing my own opinion for myself
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Lol no
What if your partner okays it?
It's a test don't do it
What do you mean by a test?
They are testing your loyalty
Ah I see haha. How do you know that's the case though?
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