Your 18, tops? So I would say "serious relationship "might be a slightly skewed definition 4 U", so while YES it's wrong to follow through with the intent of the game! Unless you like your boyfriend smooching other people, then you're just messing around... Now it's not right and can be hurtful, but if you must have whatever fun you like, then by all means... When you find someone you care about, your feelings should be quite different though, otherwise it's unhealthy! That's my opinion. I wouldn't have the desire to make out in the closet or whatever with someone if I was in a REAL relationship! Just consider that and make your own call. Your a big girl, you can make the right call! :)
It depends, because a relationship's rules are decided upon within that very relationship. An open relationship is also a relationship, and in the case of one it'd probably be okay.
No, it's not okay lol. The whole point of being in a monogamous relationship is to give intimacy, sincere or not, to no one else but your partner, and to expect the same in return. If they did it, they're not taking the responsibility of being in a relationship, and they're being unwise and immature. If they want to make out with other girls, they shouldn't be in a closed relationship.
That is, of course, if their partner is unaware of weird bottle spinning activities, or hasn't okayed shallow flirting.
I mean if he's given you the okay to go ahead... it isn't a big deal, but if you're asking my own personal opinion, I don't think it's a great idea for the relationship unless both of you 100% support the idea... even then I don't recommend it
You need to discuss it as a couple and decide whether or not you want to allow it, and if so, to what extent. Otherwise, the assumption should be that it's not okay.
If your bf/gf is okay with it, then yes. For me, it would be a no. I would not be okay with my boyfriend playing the game. I would not play the game either.
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in my opinion, yes it is okay, but only if you apply the same rules to playing beer pong if you don't drink alcohol.
you can play beer pong, but have someone else drink your losses for you.
you can play spin the bottle, and not do shit lol.
if they don't accept your terms then just don't play.
No, kissing someone else while in a relationship, even for a stupid game, is still cheating.
If you aren't married. . . if you have boyfriend you should probably get his OK to play (or let him play in the same game as you are playing), but it's just kissing, so it's no big deal because (a) it's just kissing, and (b) it isn't kissing like you are have a romantic interest in the other guy (s), it's just part of playing a silly game.
it depends on whether or not your boyfriend is ok with it. the fact that your asking suggests that your boyfriend isn't ok with it (as many partners wouldn't) and therefore it is not ok
I think that it really depends. It depends on the people you're playing with, your partner, your relationship expectations, and your intentions. Maybe if you're partner is playing then it would be okay. Maybe if you were playing with a group of the same sex and you identified as straight it would be okay. Maybe if your intentions were to have fun and not anything further it would be okay. Maybe if your partner has installed a lot of trust in you it would be okay, but ultimately it is up to you and your partner.
Why on this website we go from is it okay to give a blow job to a stranger, to is it okay to spin the bottle? There should be a split on this website regarding age group or IQ
Nope. The only lips my future boyfriend will be kissing is mine. Those type of games are for single people or people in open relationships (iiiiffff they are into that sorta thing).
When you were 11-13 that was okay but to many people are in relationships by your age, so I think it is not cool for someone to suggest playing that game at a party.
No. Not acceptable. I would consider kissing another person as cheating doesn't matter if it's a game.
Unless you have an open relationship, that sort of thing is cheating.
Ughh.
Finnne. If she REALLY wants to she gets a pass. A kiss on the cheek.
But I'm watching her.
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Nooooo! It can get naaasty ! Naaah
If He told me they're playing it, I would laugh and say His funny.
I don't really see the problem, it's not like the kisses would have any intention behind them other than being part of the game? who even plays that game though? lol
I think if your significant other is there and participating also that it would be okay, but otherwise, no.
If your lover okays it, then I suppose not. But I personally am not okay with my man kissing other girls.
If you're in what's called an open relationship, yeah sure. If not, you have to ask your partner but as a general rule of thumb I'd say no
How about spin the bottle chores addition? Whichever person you land on your have to clean a room with each other. Might loose some friends but hey your house is clean 😉😂
I'd think I somehow teleported back to middle school.
It depends on what kind of relationship/partner you have. If you know it would be a problem avoid it or talk about it and change it.
Not if you are kissing other people and stuff like that
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