My long distance relationship is killing me?

[Anonymous]

hi so I've been in this long distance relationship with my boyfriend and i love him to death but not seeing him is killing me every day i wake up depressed i dont eat and i take my sadness out on other people around me, my boyfriend lives 2 hours away from me and i dont understand why he can't come to see me like at least once a week, im 16 so its hard for me to travel long distance places without my parents knowing but he's 19 its more easier for him and as far as i know he doesn't work doesn't go university or anything, when i ask him what he's up to he always replies he's chilling with his mates and by chilling he means he's getting high smoking weed like he has time to do all that but can't come see me. once he even accused me of cheating on him and i was literally crying on the phone because i would never cheat on anyone, a lot of guys show interest in me but if im in a relationship i won't even look at another guy. he comes home at 4am like every day doing god knows what and I've never doubted him in my life, in a day we talk like twice he tells me he loves me but if he really did he would make effort to come see me and seems like he doesn't trust me at all but every time i try to leave him he literally makes it impossible and tells me he's going to die if i leave him, i honestly dont know what to do im so paronoid please help me

[DaniaMQ]

I'm sorry to hear what you're going through. I went through 2 LDR's. From what I read I'm telling you to end it. I know its not what you want to hear but he seriously doesn't seem like he's putting effort in it. And it won't work like that. If he REALLY loves you he would at least see you once every week especially that he as always free. End it. You can tell him exactly what u said here and tell him he has 1 chance left. If he continues like that leave it.

[BrittBratt2416]

2 hours isn't a long distance relationship, he could actually come see you but your not on hit list of priorities. He rather get high, hang with friends and probably see other girls that are closer in his area... especially if he's coming at 4 in the morning every night yet accusing you of cheating. I say drop this guy, some guys like mess with girls and drag them along.. find someone who will put in effort to see and spend time with you.

[Anhnguyen96]

People, don't do long distance relationship. Seriously, don't

[jman46241]

End it. There's no possible happy ending here. You could use female tactics and dump him for the purpose of his reaction, but I strongly disagree with that bs. Just find another guy that will at least pay some attention to you.

[PCNotForMe]

If it is killing you, it is kind of a moot point because you'll be dead soon anyways. When you get to heaven, be sure to date somebody who lives on the same cloud as you

[Anonymous]

Never get in a relationship with a person not local to you.