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Lack of intelligence, lack of sophistication, overinflated sense of self, doesn't do any kind of physical exercise, mean, can't have friendships with other females, too much jealousy, close minded. Oh, and if I don't find them attractive. But I'm not going to list of a bunch of physical attributes because there are many versions of "hot".
I don't know whether I can ever say never to a certain thing because it might mean me rejecting the girl of my dreams just for one thing. For example I would like her to be a non smoker as I can't stand smoking and being around smokers but for the special one I might just get used to it for her
Mines are:
Bad hygiene
Bad teeth
Fat
Too little hair or bald
Being my height or shorter than me
Biting nails
Pale
Blonde
Arrogant
Close-minded
Being controlling
Being too jealous
Racist
Impatient
Unintelligent
Lol blonde
@Ferretman21 Why do you think it's funny?
I don't know I guess guys are just less picky about hair color, not meaning it in an offensive way. As long as she doesn't have all the colors of the rainbow on her head, I don't care lol.
@Ferretman21 I see. Well, I'm not attracted to blonde guys, that's why it's a deal breaker for me.
Not knocking on your preference, just trying to understand it. What turns you off about blonde hair? Too feminine or something?
@Ferretman21 No, I don't think it's too feminine. It's just that I'm not used to see blonde men.
And I think it would be weird if I dated one.
deal breakers:
-rude to random people
-gets angry easily
-a player
-doesn't want a family
-not healthy
-selfishness
-overly emotional
-low sex drive
-homophobic, or anti-feminist
Things I like:
-tall and built big
-athletic
-black/hispanic
-wants a family
-likes to cuddle/is very loving
-home body
-high sex drive
-possessive
-protective of family
-smart
-driven
- great father
Why don't you want kids
never mind miss read
Im most of these good and bad. Would you date someone who is most of them?
@bblik what aren't you?
I wouldn't be too sure about possessive...
@SuperNovaRoyalty I think it's sexy, but I can c how others may not
I hate feminists and you are a hypocrite.
Misandrist, entitlement, rude, racist, judges people easily, only likes me for my personality but thinks I'm not physically attractive, in bad shape (there are some exceptions) and wears dresses and skirts.
Fat
Ugly
Slutty past
Dress whorish (crop tops, booty shorts, mini skirts, etc)
Bitchy/naggy
Expects way too much in a guy (height, wealth, penis size, etc)
Abusive
Closeted lesbian/have had first lesbian experience
I'm a MGHOW and I won't ever get married, do what you want.
Unintelligent
Smoking (eww)
Size queen
Has slept with ANYONE at any time in her life outside of a long term, committed relationship
Has slept with more than one or two guys in her lifetime, even inside a relationship
Arrogant
Princess mentality
Materialistic
Selfish
Uneducated
Smokes
Drinks
Does drugs (this should be a no-brainer, but whatever)
Those pink downvotes... so salty about my comments about partner count xD
lol at the relationship comment. Good luck finding women in your age bracket like that.
I'd rather be single than marry a woman who slept with 20 guys and then tells me she's not sexual anymore.
Prude
Not fun
Unintelligent
Basic
Old-fashioned
Traditional
Insecure
Short
Fat
Bad teeth
Concerned about what society says
Doesn't stand out
Not strong
Not a Feminist
Believes man should take care of her
Passive in bed
Short hair
For me:
Fat
Ugly
Too hairy body
Bald head
Old-fashioned
Arrogant
Nerdy
Addicted to drugs, alcohol or nicotine
Dumb
I hope for your sake, we don't ever meet.
@bobbyxx Oh, you mean, you are all of the above? :P
One of my biggest dealbreakers: lives in the 1950s regarding gender roles. Expects a woman to stay home and basically be his maid. Go fuck yourself. I don't want to be anyone's maid or mom.
Not being honest from the beginning
Hygiene
Drugs
Letting
Abusive tendencies
Discrimination against anyone for ANYTHING, especially their skin color.
Not understanding about mistakes made in the past
Not too many things would be a real "deal breaker" for me, but if I had to pick:
Physical: Bad hygiene, very overweight, awful teeth
Personality: Whiny, no drive/ambition, emotionally unstable
She has a dick :(
Extra sadness if it's bigger than mine...
AHahahhahaha i fucking died.
Yeah that's a good way to crush the ego
Fske, bad teeth, lock of manorism, no good sense of humor, Rude, bore, lack of common sense lol, not attractive from within, lously without a cause lol. lazy, not level headed, no ambitions, judgmental, insecure, Brooke, Negative vibes, dishonest, a cheat, lier, and not being yourself instead you act as if you the shit and you aren't.. lol just be you... peace.
Gold digger and disabled hater.
Bad temper
Overweight/ doesn't wanna work out
Bad hygiene
History with drugs or alcohol
Doesn't want pets
Rude to my family
No goals in life
Gross mouth lol oral hygiene is so important to me.
can't stand guys who litter or are rude to people in public
All modern women are like that
@bobbyxx okay I can't stand people like that in general, but I dont date women so I can't consider that a "deal breaker"
Jeez. Shallow much?
1. Shallow.
2. Too picky.
3. Stupid.
Smoking, drinking everyday, loud, poor communication skill, close minded and gullible..
Apprarance wise i wouldn't like it if someone is skinnier and shorter than me and has longer hair than me.
-they don't support the LGBT community
-refuse to keep our relationship off of social media/ conversation topics
-don't respect the PDA boundary
she smokes
she has a penis
she's outside of my age range (i. e. too young or too old)
probably some other obvious things that aren't coming to mind right now
Too thin
Too fat
Unattractive face
Unattractive voice
Enjoys drinking to get drunk
Smokes
Does drugs
Is religious
Likes 50 shades of gray
Poor hygiene
Racist/sexist/classist
No ambition
Ignorance
Isn't an animal lover (probably the most important for me tbh!)
Expects me to pay for EVERYTHING, every time
Uncultured
Slutty
Stupid
Use drugs
Smokes
Drinks
Too loud
Laughs too much
Selfish
Lazy
Uses phone 24/7
Thinks they're tough
Immature
Lies to me a lot
Acts like someone they're not
Complains about everything
Insecure
Doesn't live the healthy life
too tall
skinny
isn't affectionate
ehhh... is white xD
compliments other girls
pushes me around too much (i dont mind being pushed around a little)
not crazy about white guys? lol See I'm the black sheep of my friends for liking white guys haha
you are just stupid.. there is no perfect guy out there.. and there is probably no guy at there.. wanting a girl like you who thinks you're all that
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A sarcastic personality
Anger issues
Drinks ( Alcohol)
Does drugs
Smokes
Conservative fake Christian
I just wanted a guy who was my age and had morals. I did not want any baggage because I had zero baggage. I am pretty happy with what I got.
aww 😊
Doesn't care about family
Into clubbing/smoking/drinking/sheesha
Arrogant
Doesn't respect others, especially elderlies
Thinks people are weird just because they do things differently
etc
Smoker
Has to drink everyweekend or after work a lot.
Druggies
Hates dogs. I love my dog ain't giving him up for no woman
Unambitious
Not the same religion as me
Probably more
@akadatank44 why not being in the same religion a deal breaker? And may i ask which religion are you?
@thara17 Christian and I meant it as like I woukdnt date someone who was a Muslim or Jewish. Tried it. Just doesn't work out.
Ya of course. But a catholic or a protestant would work, right? they are pretty close.
@thara17 I guess any form of Christianity is fine.
oh okay!
@akadatank44
Lol
I hate dogs
😂😂
@aurora_v you won't when you meet mine 😜😜
@akadatank44
I doubt that
😂😂
Being too fat (I mean, I am also fat, but not morbidly obese). I am into big girls if their faces and personalities make up for it.
Being too needy (however I can somehow deal with that)
Being dumb.
Controlling
Bitchy
Vindictive
Girly
Doesn't dress appropriate for the occasion
Too short
Bad fat or too skinny
Hates food
Hated traveling
Overly disrespectful to people
Anti sexual
Being an ungrateful person
Anti sexual? What's that?
What's your criteria of girlie?
@heythereambak
Anti sexual means asexual on purpose or withholds sex too often
Girl for me means - likes being feminine (eg does make up), owns a man bag, acts in a stereotypical gay manner.
What man does make up , lol. Does shaving legs and arms make him girlie?
Sex once a week is enough or no?
@heythereambak
Emos and high maintenance types :)
The girly is an overall vibe thing, as in high maintenance and acts in a feminine way.
Makes sense, I don't like girls who are "too girly"
Yes and you stick to be a woman. Don't wear trousers and playing football.
@bobbyxx Not much of a problem :) I usually stick to dresses, unless it's too cold. As for football, nothing wrong with kicking a ball once in a while.
Compulsive liar and unfaithful are the biggest ones for me
Douche bag that thinks a first date should end with sex before even discussing it first.
Wow thats a list lmao.
Only deal breaker i have is hard drugs. Can't be addicted to heroin or some shit.
Thinking their opinions always trump yours. (Including your opinion that they think their opinions always trump yours.)
small dick
circumcised
can't screw worth a damme
low paid job
black
lives with parents
fat
Nice guy
Beta male
White knight
doesn't know how to be a real man
Lol proof that "size doesn't matter" is bullshit. Unless this is a fake account just trolling.
Good to know there are girls against circumcision, would never have it done. Ever.
@KrispyKreme circumcision leads to sexual problems
Ignore the Nazi trolling. rape victim loser
Fat
Flat ass
Flat-chested
No hips
Ugly
Short hair
Big nose
Thin Lips
Wrinkles
Doesn't like to dress up
Poor hygiene
Bad teeth
Smells bad
Rude
Grumpy
Possessive
Jealous
Disrespectful
Selfish
Has kids already
Has an ex
Serious around people
Very shy
Asexual
Bossy
Lazy
Irresponsible
Boring
Goldigger
Disloyal
"Has an ex"? Good luck with that bro 😂
LOL.
- STD's
- Children
- Horrible personality habits that will inevitably lead to problems in the future
- No loyalty
- No moral system.
KIDS ! Talking about her ex. Drugs and flakiness. Shitty attitudes aka feminists.
Drinks too much or smokes. Won't be sexual after one month.
Lol 64...
Yep... It is what it is.
i don't get it, why is age 64 funny?
@Jager66 Because I have my standards and I don't have to settle. You
wouldn't understand.
k so... 64 is funny because you have standards and won't settle? That doesn't seem like the punch line of a joke to me but I guess you've got a strange sense of humor. Ya it looks like your right, I don't get the joke, that's why I was asking about it though, so it should have been pretty obvious...
You're a strange dude...
@Jager66 Most smart people are strange.
Sometimes that's probably true I suppose but then the same can be said for stupidity.
@Jager66 I'm smart. Stupid don't know how to be strange.
@Jager66 Obviously he didn't want to tell you the answer and wants you to figure it out yourself, aka, women think guys who are past 40+ are desperate and are willing to settle down with anyone.
@lacorine197 Trust me, we're not.
@lacorine197 ahh ok, so he's just being a dick.
@Jager66 Speaking the truth.
dude.. own your shit, you were being a dick.
@Jager66 No I wasn't. The question asked what were turnoffs. If I was being a dick, so the fuck what ! You're being a nutless mangina !
I asked what the joke was because I didn't get what was funny, instead of answering you've been acting like your wife has been cuckolding you for 30 years.
@Jager66 she hasn't.
correct, but we're talking about you because you responded to my question.
@Jager66 Whatever.
My Deal Breakers:
- Too Skinny
- Too Stinky
- Too Short
- Has Premature Baldness
- Has Premature Colorless Hair
- Has a High-Maintenance Pet (cat, dog, horse, cow, pig)
- High Sex Drive
- Too Hot-Headed
Why is high sex drive a deal breaker?
Pray that we never meet.
My only deal breaker is cheating and not being honest especially when I ask him to be
But luckily I don't have these 2 problems so it's cool
Also he has to love pets
Bad with money
Liar
Cheat
Theith
DISRESPECTFUL
Ignorant
Mooch
Lazy
Poor hygiene
Anyway creepy
. Closed minded
. Hates nature and animals
. Low sex drive
. Racists
. Rude people
I positively cannot date or be in a relationship with someone who:
-Smokes, drinks or does drugs.
-Is unintelligent.
-Thinks Call of Duty is a good videogame worth its price.
-Is extremely religious.
-Is judgmental.
I think that's it.
Call of duty use to be 😞 I wish it would go back to black ops days...
@SaltAndLime I admit Black Ops 2 and 3 were decent games. Still not worth 60 bucks though.
yeah I'm on Steam and $60-70 is ridiculous for any game, not just COD. My rule is never pay more than $30. Sure new games are still $60 for the most part, I just wait a year or 2 after release and the price drops fast after that during a 50% sale. Let everyone else with no patience subsidize the cost of making the game.
Whats wrong with the price of cod just buy it second hand cost me £3/4 some of the later ones £10
lol well you're definitely out. you got some stupid standards.
mine are be nice
be attractive
dont be a ho
thats really hard to find in this day and age.
lol yhh
arrogant
self centered
flirty
liar
manupulative
won't commit
Bad hygiene
Stupid
Not intellectual, knowledgeable
Ugly (she should have a kinda cute face, not beautiful af)
Way too short like below 5 feet
Face and shortness can depend though. It all depends on personality.
Liar
Disloyal
Way too fat
For me it has to be bad atttitude and ugly temper, or rudeness, everything else she may work on and be alright.
He's too young for me
He's a smoker
Abusive
Anger management issue
Unhygienic
Him not treating others with respect. Him not treating himself with respect.
Bigots
Liars
Drinks or drug addicts
Lazy
Bad hygiene
Disrespectful of others
Violent
Jealous, nasty, arrogant, controlling, no sense of humour, selfish, patronising.
Oh and doesn't like animals. He has to like animals. Man my list is a lot shorter than a lot of people's!
Wandering eyes, porn obsession, no sexual chemistry, liar, cheater
Smoking
Drinking frequently
Likes Harry Potter
Likes horror movies
Doesn't want children
Atheist
Deist
Is the Harry Potter thing because you're religious?
@RachelBrigs yes. It's full of witchcraft and evil spirits and spells. It goes completely against the Bible!
someone who is rude, does nothing but sit on the couch playing video games, doesn't help clean, doesn't help with kids, etc. liars etc.
Lazy, fat, short, small feet, bad breath/body odor, rude & cocky
what height is too short for you?
Anger issues
Pettiness
judgmental
Bad breath
Immature
No goals
can't take a joke
Or to serious
Checking out the list there are going to be a lot of single people.
lists*
As if that's a bad thing. Relationships are too much work anyway and totally unnecessary to get laid in 2016. If this was still 1956 with these checklists then yeah, a lot of people would be better off dead they would probably be so lonely and miserable since they usually had to rely on their 1st or 2nd circle of acquantainces = a small pool to pick from to begin with.
you'll be forever alone. :o
Eh I doubt it
i dont
@DeltoidFan me either.
Lol exactly what I was thinking 😂
Asexual is a definite dealbreaker!
Yeah that's why my life fucking sucks everyone hates me
@Youdoyouboo i'd be friends with an asexual girl, but I know for a fact I wouldn't be happy in a relationship without any type of sexuality.
Be my friend. :)
What even is asexual
@Lilac79 asexual = no interest in any sexual activity whatsoever
@Youdoyouboo No-one hates you?
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