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Look no one would cheat on you honey... You are too good for that to happen to you ;-)
by the way almost everyone including me is afraid of the same thing as you are
That i'll be a sucky boyfriend
That i'll get hurt again
That i'll never love a girl like i did my first love (this one is a real fear of mine)
That i'll never be 'good ennough' for her
I'm scared of not being successful enough. Of promising more than I end up delivering. I do that kind of stuff. Suggesting to promise the Moon and the Stars. . .
Cause I will only marry once so it's like I'm scared what if she'll leave?
Being a man of my word I won't marry again and then all the things I wanna do with my wifey will be nothing more than a hopeless dream :P
1 diseases
2 no trust
3 no commitment
4 lose the spark when it's to late
5 the wrong guy
For me, it would be that my friends who are in relationships to forget about me and also being a relationship for so long and then be cheated on.
That she want's to get married and/or have children and open a family.
That she cheats on me.
Last but not least: That she is into my wallet.
I'm scared that I'll grow bored of my partner. I really fear waking up and not loving that person anymore.
The fact that he will want me to try all these weird ass fetishes.
Hahaha that you cannot escape... Accept that :-P
@singlebee lmao
ROTFL :-D
The loving and affection dies. Or he has no interest in showing me that.
I am scared that I might run out of money and put my relationship in a mess. The consequences of being a person who is broke , cannot be imagined.
• I am scared of being the only one who puts in effort
• I am scared the guy may cheat on me
There is a lot more...
I'm mostly scared that I will stop loving that person and that the relationship will become a drag.
Being cheated on or finding or that they are married with a family already.
If he died, what's I'd do. Our lives are so intertwined it would change EVERYTHING
Scared she chose me just because someone else told her nope, and she is using me until she moves over and probably will dump me if he changes his mind.
i fear not because i trust in allah (God in arabic) *for the non muslims that may be reading this*, that all things are written for me and under his protection, everything happens for a reason.
My name is DaniaMQ and I approve this message *sends some meme face like yours* xD
That I might have soemthing better waiting. That I I'll fall so far in love I won't know I'm being hurt. Anyone who cheated on a such a lovely and sweet girl as you would be a fool
I'm just scared of getting hurt... Which is why I remain single. Lol.
I'm scared of falling in love then getting it all ripped away from me.
Opinion owner. Most men out there share the exact same fear. Although I don't , I know why you feel like that...
If there's ever a time where I find the one.. there would be no reason to keep improving myself. That's what I'm afraid of. Losing my drive.
I'm afraid of marrying someone. Kinda the main reason why my relationship don't stand too long. I prefer cohabitation.
Nothing really scares me if it meant to happen it will , just don't bother your mind with irrational fear
Seconded
Not talking marriage but in general with relationships I'm scared of caring more than the other person
Opinion owner. At your age , that's a very true way to feel , later though you'll feel differently.
Well if they love you enough and you can see that, then they are worth marrying because you know they would go out of their way for you even if you aren't married or in a relationship at the time
Love someone so much to the point where I'll take anything and everything they give to me, even if it means less than what I deserve.
Everything. I am terrified of people having that kind of power over me. I hate it. Every part of me detests it. I abhor falling in love.
Only one way to never be divorced, don't get married
The worse thing for a man is to end up in a relationship, providing for a woman who does not give 2 shits about u.
realtionship dynamics i hate them
dont worry divorce is good for u u will be you will not have to work a day in your life if u are divorced :p
Trusting someone completely and then they turn their back on you.
losing interest , wanting to be naughty with someone else
Not being able to have the full bed to myself sometimes. 😆
Being loyal and then he cheats, hasn't happened yet that I know of
That I'm not good enough for her and she loses interest and breaks up
I'm definitely scared of marrying someone and their feelings changing and then having to pick up the pieces. I guess I have a hard time believing that people will stick around.
Being cheated on, and the only person putting all the commitment into the relationship.
The same thing lol.. I think everyone fears that. All you can do is build yourself up so much the blow won't hurt you that much.
Im scared of the fact you gotta be Superman in order to fulfill all expectations
Of all the things to be scared of in this world, relationships are near the bottom of my list.
Loosing myself to the point that I can't pick up on signs of cheating.
That he'll only be interested of me for my looks and not the person I am
Im scared that my future gf/wife would cheat on me and get pregnant with another man.
Being cheated on :/ I've had a girl who cheated on me for another girl and I knew them both too !
😭😭😭😭😭😭
Well.. there would be big problems If I end up with being cheated on.
I think most people are scared as the same thing as you, me included.
Getting pregnant by a loser. And I do not want kids
So don't fuck losers?
@ProbablyTooMature im not fucking anybody
The point is, you won't get impregnated by a lose if you don't sleep with one.
@ProbablyTooMature true, but its not easy finding a good guy to date in general
That's very very true. That's why I feel people should be more picky about who they sleep with and get involved with.
^ 100% agreed. Loneliness can drive people to do all sorts of things and make irrational decisions, but it's extremely important to be picky about your future lover.
@lawstudent931 Yup! I like how you think. :-)
Thanks so much!
@lawstudent931 i take public transportation so i get hit on by al kinds of weirdos.
Ew. Public transport.
*Makes a cross with his fingers and hisses*
@ProbablyTooMature i wish i had a car. I hate public transportation i do not care how good the neighborhood is or how high end it is
I think the exception to that might be NYC? But honestly I don't know. A LOT of people down here take the train, but the bus is still the dregs of society.
You're 23... why don't you have a car? (Not being an asshole, genuinely curious.)
@ProbablyTooMature no job. Im in school and i have a lot of siblings
The number of siblings don't matter... you should get the car yourself. :-P
If you're only in school and not working though I guess that would explain it.
@ProbablyTooMature most people are given cars by their parents
Uh... no... "most" people are not. Maybe the kids where you live are? But that doesn't make "most people". Plus, you're half a dozen years past that age...
@ProbablyTooMature geez thanks for pointing out the obvious. I had no idea i was 23. And yes, people where i live are given cars
Well I thought maybe you needed a reminder since it sounds like you're blaming your parents that you don't have a car at 23.
@ProbablyTooMature thanks douche
Loss of freedom
Worrying they may fall for someone else
If your relationship makes you feel like you lose your freedom than you are in the wrong type of relationship my good friend.
@Afro-dite9 its true my friend. You are wise 😘
Well duhhh lol have I ever stirred you down the wrong path😀🤔hmmm ok, rephrase that lol. Have I ever stirred you down the wrong path... recently?😂 @toad-1 don't answer that!
@Afro-dite9 towards the sexy wrong path perhaps >;)
Ohhhh lord here we go again 😂😂😂😂
@Afro-dite9 lol :*
Either falling in love with the wrong woman.
Or the woman realizing I wasn't the one for her.
Not being with girl that understands me and shares similair interests
i just lost interest in men now and prefer to stay single. I hate men actually
I'm scared of getting to the point where she gets bored of me and there's no romantic passion anymore.
I'm scared of my girl quitting caring about me and showing love for me at some point.
Marriage scares me because divorce fucks over guys a lot more than women. Relationships don't scare me because I can leave whenever
the fact that the woman always has all the power and can ruin your life and make you miserable whenever she feels like it
Falling out of love it not lasting running out of passion
Hey that's my life story since that's exactly what happened to me
Breaking up. The person not thinking they're the luckiest to have you. Etc
If he did this he would be too stupid, coz you are pretty and you look smart :P
that ill like it and lose my autonomy.
im scared a girl might try to steal my money. I come from a very rich family.