Why do some people relationship hop?

[FutureMee]

Like they go from one relationship straight to another within a few weeks each time? Are they just extremely flaky people or is there some underlying issue going on here?

[SepticSlimeSam]

I don't know why others do it but I'll tell you why I used to. A few years ago I had a heart retching break up from a guy, let's call him... Jack since I love watching Jacksepticeye on YouTube, I had been with for, if I remember this correctly, 3 years. I was almost completely broken in mind and heart and my mother hated seeing me like that so she told me to quit my mopping around and get back out there and try to be happy again, so I tried and with every guy I had went out with after Jack I couldn't forget about him, every time a relationship would end I would ball my eyes out begging Jack to take me back but he would always say that he was waiting on someone else so I would end up going out with the first person that would ask me out in hopes of forgetting Jack and falling for them instead.

[thecorseteddoll]

when I was single I was looking for someone awesome I didn't see any point to have a break inbetween my search I knew what I wanted and I went for it. I'm married to him now so

[Anonymous]

some people believe that's how you find love by getting out there and trying over and over and some have a fear of being alone. Depends on the person.

[Snappyrofl]

well to be quite honest you only have to another relationship because of physical demands or to physical desire that the time you can say that you are not as physical as you think you are but that is a straight up lie 85% in my opinion due to my experience as well, it is due to the fact that is always a physical factor that makes you curious for other people so comma I would imagine the only reason people relationship hop is because of physical needs. no I would agree and some cases of abuse and neglect that people do stray from relationships. But if you really think about our time and age that we live in which sex is actually advertised on a daily basis through all means of media and such

[10dsw]

Women do this a lot more than men. I don't know a single single woman who is not talking to 3-4 guys at once.

I knew a girl named Marisa who could never hold a relationship longer than 4 months. Every single time a guy left her she would make a dating profile and text 10 random guys just to feel validated. She literally could not go 5 minutes without male attention

So in essence it's all about security. Insecure people tend to always need to have some sort of safety net in place... in this case that being a constant stream of relationships.

[Outofthegrey]

Women tend to do that more than men. If you ask me, it's because people like that tend to base their own self value on whether or not they are "hot", and if they aren't constantly in a homeymoon phase, they think they aren't attractive.

In short, they have problems and I want nothing to do with it.

[Unicornian]

Some people just need someone by them to provide security (even for a short while), and they get bored fast because they didn't enter relationship with intention to stay in it or because they loved that person. They just felt like not being alone and took the first chance with a girl/guy they liked.

[Browneye57]

Google the term: hypergamy

It will all start to make sense. They'll even do it when they're married.
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[Anonymous]

Unrealistic expectations and standards, or they have commitment issues and phobias. They don't have clear goals of whom or what they really want for a serious long term relationship.

[es20490446e]

Because they dislike the old one, and like the new one.

[ColinHarvey]

because they can't handle their sense of self-guilt that daddy left them.

[Mbored92]

they have emotional issues/ seek attention/ can't stay lone

[jman46241]

They get bored or are promiscuous.

[Mrthinpickle]

Whores. Whores everywhere

[Harambae]

Papa harambe needs 7 gfs at any given time

[Anonymous]

fun, excitement, variation...

[Anonymous]

It's usually women that do that