Do you think sex brings you emotionally closer to your girlfriend/boyfriend? (Page 2)
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Of course sharing intimacy brings people closer together emotionally It's always a type of commitment, even if it's only a one night stand.
It does bring you closer depending on how deep you guys are into each other :) it did bring me closer to my man... True
If that was true then a lot men wouldn't have sex with a girl then leave. I think it can if you're already in love with that person
Absolutely, if you're in love, sex brings a very strong union, or strong bow with your SO. It brings you very very very with each other. It's awesome.
I think so. It's another form of love and intimacy for people in a real relationship.
Absolutely, Yes
THe most intimate way to share yourselves with each other
It depends on the type of connection you have before the sex.
of course and it builds good friendships in some cases too
yes and no.
yes, if you are making love to someone who you have feelings.
no, if its casual sex to satisfy your bodily cravings
Yes, to the point of that it can make things awkward
That feeling of ultimate intimacy means the absolute world to me.
They're both true.
When guys want to remain distant, sex is just sex.
When guys want to get closer to someone, sex is the best way to do it.
Yeah of course it does
its a new level of intimacy and trust
For women yeah. But for guys I don't think it's what brings them emotionally closer
Yes it does.
But it doesn't always, depends how I see her and what I want from her.
What if a guy doesn't do intercourse with me and only oral? Thus, doing intercourse, and oral with another girl?
@hawaiiangroove it would be the same answer, more or less. Sex would only make me feel emotionally closer if that was something I was open to with her, so the type of sex wouldn't necessarily be the deciding factor. It's also very possible to have feelings for two people at the same time.
Jealosy is a no no if two people aren't together rightM
*right?
@hawaiiangroove well it's probably not a productive emotion in that scenario, I wouldn't call it wrong though, I mean you feel how you feel right?
Unless someone lets it get out of hand or it's causing distress in their life then it's probably not a big deal. It might mean that person wants something different then what they are getting and that could be because they aren't communicating their needs/wants properly. In that case I think it's best to be true to your self and choose your actions accordingly.
That could be true! What would it mean if the other person says they'd be jealous but not mad if im dealing with another person?
@hawaiiangroove That they want you to deal with them but accept that it's fine if you don't, even though it makes them jealous. So it's kinda like Jealousy + emotional intelligence, at least that's how I would see it.
Sorry im not the reddest apple in the tree lol. But what do you mean by this? "That they want you to deal with them but accept that it's fine if you don't, even though it makes them jealous"
@hawaiiangroove I just used the term "deal with" because that's the term you used, lol.. So what ever you mean by that term would probably fit just fine.
I just means he's jealous because XXXXXX but not mad, which implies acceptance of the situation even though he doesn't like it.
Emotional inteligent yas!
Is it almost like he'll accept it because there's nothing he can do about it but he'll still be jealous?
@hawaiiangroove yup and fully aware and conscious of the situation and his decision, even the choice to tell you about it so you don't rub it in his face and can make your own informed decisions about him.
Thats some mature shit! Which is what i kinda thought in the begining but wasn't to sure.
Ahh ok. So he wouldn't want me to be like "hey guess what i did"?
@hawaiiangroove lol isn't it nice when someone can just be upfront and honest about their feelings? makes stuff so much easier.
Yeah but im kinda like, what kind of feelings? U know?
@hawaiiangroove lol ya.. :)
Im kinda crushinng
Lol!
Yes, it brings a couple emotionally/physically closer. 👫💕
yeah! it adds that extra emotion in your relationship :)
In case of teenagers, yes but that is because most teenagers are just god damn stupid as hell. When you grow up you start to consider more than just sex into your emotions (unless you are just a immature person).
I believe it works, cuz no one would continue a relationship without sex